I have ben with this guy for 5 years and I have not been wanting to have sex because it still hurts I think he is too big is there a way that I can enjoy it with out worrying?
2006-10-20 12:14:17 · 19 answers · asked by samohiv03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not trying to complain the first year he wasnt really big just right I think he just grew and it just bothers me but some of you have some good points I think mainly just need to get checked and go to dr and see if I just need more hormones to get into the mood.
2006-10-20 12:23:12 · update #1
Try different positions or using lubricant, and most importantly relax. There is no such thing as "too large", the reason for this is that the vagina is made from stretchy tissues (thats why we can have kids and not still be as large as a childs head). So, if after trying some other things to make it more enjoyable, you are still experiencing pain.... I would go see your OB/GYN and see if there is something physically wrong. If there isnt, then perhaps a sex therapist or a psychologist is in order.
Good Luck
2006-10-20 12:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 17:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf has a fairly tooo big of a penis and honestly just tell him to take it slow and use more LUBE LOTS OF LUBE, and also bring some toys in the picture to add a little distraction. Thats the only way i can handle it. Also dont have sex if you arent up to it. Do it when you are well lubricated, and in the mood. I had to learn the hard way.
2006-10-20 12:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to relax. the tense you are, the worse it is. try having a drink or two. also do it on a regular basis. but after 5 years, it shouldn't hurt. maybe you should see a doctor.
2006-10-20 12:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by ~it's me~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go and visit your doctor and tell them the problem you may have a problem with your vagina. A man may be too long. but the womans vagina is meant to stretch so i woudl ask the doctor about this.
2006-10-20 12:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Christine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-26 03:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lorena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do the cowgirl and you control how far it goes in... and you must be very wet.. even get some ky jelly to help slip it in.. you do all the guiding.. dont let him grab him and guide it in the right palce... go for it.. love to hear how it works out.. i m me...
2006-10-20 12:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh i guess im gonna be the only one who answers you honestly lol....grl you can do some different positions to control the penetration.....how bout you sit on top...or you can do it sideways and dont be afraid to let him know if hes pushing too deep...when i was dating i had a big guy too once....you dont have to write off sex forever...theres way you can control it...he cant help his size and you cant help that it hurts but you can compromise...and tell him not to thrust too deep cuz it hurts....
2006-10-20 12:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't be tense at all ~ relax your muscles ~ and have him go slow and ease in at first
2006-10-20 12:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah ride him
your going to have to be on top your in control more when on top
good luck girl I've been there before no fun
2006-10-20 12:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋