Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

I called my boyfriend...he answered like "WHAT?!?!" what should I do...should I call him back? And he lets his friends treat me like a turd bucket. But I can't stay mad at him...I luv him waaay too much!!! What should I do?

2006-10-20 11:36:25 · 9 answers · asked by J.D. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I made several e-mail accounts so I can vote for my own answers. And I'm starting to have this conscience thingy in my head to...


KEEP CHEATING BECAUSE CHEATING KICKS A$$ BECAUSE IF CHEATING KICKS A$$, THEN YOU GOT SOME KICK A$$ ****!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-20 11:34:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mates girlfriend asked her mate along when a group of us went out one afternoon and i got on really well with her. i have met her a couple of times before and we always end up alone and we share a lot of personal stuff. I am meeting her and my mates again soon and i would like to know the best way to ask her out.

2006-10-20 11:34:10 · 15 answers · asked by Spaced Out 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law is turning 70 years old. All my husband's siblings wanted to have a party for her at a restaurant. So my husband and I decided to go to my mother-in-law's favorite restaurant to ask for prices. We discussed it with all of my husband's siblings and my sister-in-law (husband's brother's wife) does not want to pay and thinks it is too expensive. However, it the expenses will be split with the 5 siblings.

She claims that they have no money (which is a lie). They have the money to have an expensive birthday weekend for her husband.

May I also add that the birthday party for my mother-in-law won't be until the spring, which will be plenty of time for them to save money.

I just feel that she is being selfish. My in-laws have done alot for all of their children. She is also one of my mother-in-law's favorites. I would just love to tell her that her favorite daughter-in-law is really a selfish witch.

2006-10-20 11:33:57 · 7 answers · asked by angela127 1 in Family

2006-10-20 11:33:51 · 5 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so finally my ex boyfriend jake asked me to the dance and i said yes, but there was something weird...after that, like an hour later, we were hanging out cuz ya kno, were friends, and he told me he was sry for breaking up with me and said it was cuz of family issues...and i totally believe him, his grandma and great grandma died in the same week...so when he said he was sry about that...does that mean were back together? i dont wanna ask, that would be just too weird.

2006-10-20 11:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I might possibly go visit a woman I have been dating who has been home sick this past week tonight. Obviously with her dealing with her cough etc and just getting over it...we won't be making out ...but when I leave at the end of the night...is it appropiate to kiss her on the cheek or forehead...or where is the best place to kiss her I guess.

No wise crack remarks either...just an honest question as far as what would be correct to do. Thanks

2006-10-20 11:33:02 · 7 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating

I ended our relationship a couple of weeks now, and i thought he got the picture, but i just spoke to him and he said that he was just letting me go through a phase and that he does not want to hear that we are through, he said that he never ended the relationship and that he knows nothing about that, he kept on saying he does not want to hear that we are through. The thing is i have a bf already, (it was kind of soon, maybe too soon) but he is really sweet, he shows me affection that i have never felt, and i am not giving him up for anything, The relationship with my ex was never abusive, he had some issues with his ex among other things with his lifestyle, and neither of which has change, the thing that really scares me is the fact that i thought he had got the picture and i'm affraid of what might happen if he sees me with my current boyfriend. Please give me advice on the matter, he was my first relationship and sexual partner.. My ex does not know about my current boyfriend.

2006-10-20 11:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by ducky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

her b/f claims he dont like gays but he got some in alias profiles from what I hear from others he is like a cold fish unromantic distant towards her. Should I tell her found his prof where he got 2 gay men with fleshy pics. Dont have a prob with gays but Im a man in every way I dont want gay men in my friends list.This is suspect and confirming our suspicions. Whats ur take on this???

2006-10-20 11:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by rastaman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 11:31:11 · 18 answers · asked by Nyah S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy and my best friend knows it. I've liked him for about two years now and in one point in time i think he liked me to but i was to shy to say n-e thing about it. yea i know bad move. but n-e way. lately my best friend has been all over him. just today she was sitting on his lap for about a half hour right in front of me. Looking at me with this innocent look on her face like she wasnt doing n-e thing wrong. Its funny though because she has a boy friend that she says she loves soooo much. She had his name written on her hand but when the guy i like (love?) asked her who he was all she said was a dude. That "dude" is the person she talks about getting married too and haveing his kids. What would you call that? Does she really care about me, i mean this is the girl that says shed die b-4 letting n-e one hurt me, yet here she is jabbing a knife in my heart? Is this a person I should count as my best friend? my friend? my enemy? im so confused right now!!!

2006-10-20 11:31:11 · 15 answers · asked by Vivian 1 in Friends

2006-10-20 11:30:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whene you guys get a girl pregnut your not a man about it and run?

2006-10-20 11:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by merri s 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my (older) brother is getting a divorce obviously he cheated on his wife........so she is trying to find proof of it to take over his assets which in his case is the millions dollar mansion, his to personal company's and as well as his 2 cars.

the only proof she can get a hold of.... to what my brother says is the e-mails he kept receiving from the other in his yahoo account now he wants me to figure out how to destroy the account not only does he want to get rid of the mssg's but also the account that way there isnt a trace of his bad deed.

thing is I'm not the computer wiz he would like me to be so Im not really sure if i can even get rid of the account.........can someone plz help me I'ts urgent.

how do i delete the yahoo account?

2006-10-20 11:29:36 · 4 answers · asked by missme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The husband works 60-70 hours a week gone 14 hrs a day shift is 6pm-6am. You are married with two kids wife stays at home you live off one income but live comfortably husband makes good money. The wife and kids like getting out of the house not necessarily to spend money but to not be bored. Husband comes home sleeps 7 hours gets up and leaves again for work an hour later. On days off husband wants to either stay at home and sleep or go hunting etc. Then at night when wife is tired and wanting husband to go to bed with her the kids are a sleep but so is he at 7pm. Then he wakes up at 10pm has you then gets on the computer for 2-3 hours at a time while your in bed and he could be snuggling but says he is wide awake. Then after playing on the comp. he might sleep with you for 3hours then gets up and watches tv for 3-4 hours then when everyone else gets up he goes back to sleep. The kids miss their dad and wife wants attention but he is to tired. Someone I know goes through this.

2006-10-20 11:28:58 · 17 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guys for a couple of months, we're not exclusive or anything and all of the sudden he pulls this "I Love You" outta no where........WHY?????? I don't think i feel the same way

2006-10-20 11:28:36 · 16 answers · asked by graciegirl 5 in Singles & Dating

So my friend and I were at the Pizza place the other day. We had a coupon, but then there was an in store add for some brownies, he said that we could not get the promotion because we were using a coupon. My friend says, "But you should give us the deal because we are hot chicks" He did not respond. Does that mean that he was intimidated by our hottness?

2006-10-20 11:28:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a few guys that have cats - they say cats are better coz they don't have a yard for a dog to poop all over. I've met their cats, and they seem awfully cute - but when they are with their cats, they get awfully weird, but not at all masculine as I hope they would be.

2006-10-20 11:28:03 · 16 answers · asked by somber_pieces 6 in Singles & Dating

I been in a relationship for 3 months and it started off good but then he just started letting this other females blow his head up and then he just start acting like i wasnt here anymore should i give him another chance or should i go and find someone worthy of my time?

2006-10-20 11:27:03 · 19 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Singles & Dating

The past few Fridays, I haven't done anything with my friends. I haven't even been invited! Last year, I was invited to almost everything! This year, I am at the high school, and all the same people are there, but just about 500 more kids. I don't mean to sound snobbish, but I was popular last year, and most of my friends who were popular won't even acknowledge me anymore! Help!

2006-10-20 11:26:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love this guy named Tyler....I learned that love is not a feeling it's a choice.I'm ready for my first kiss...I asked him if he was ready....he said he was more than ready... should I go in for the kiss or should I just wait??

2006-10-20 11:26:41 · 8 answers · asked by J.D. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 11:26:00 · 35 answers · asked by SammyD 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 11:25:44 · 2 answers · asked by ajtidus 1 in Friends

2006-10-20 11:25:29 · 5 answers · asked by Neci 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been seeing my gf since June, she still hasn't told a single person about us, she says she's serious about our relationship and that she feels she wants to spend her life with me, i want this too, i don't want to doubt her but i cant help wondering is she really serious? and if she is then why does no one still know about us?

2006-10-20 11:24:53 · 14 answers · asked by paul w 1 in Singles & Dating

wella friend asked me to help her with her problem her man that she so call loved asked her well told her to stay in her place and she said and wut exactly is my place and he said figure it out if u dont kno wut ur place is then we shouldnt betogether ...

2006-10-20 11:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by candisss s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

always talking about her and i get mad becasue she is talking about her constantly and how she is so funny or there always on the phone and everyone at school loves my best friends best friend and it gets on my nerves what should i do the next time my best friend talks about her other best freind??????

2006-10-20 11:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by Mer 1 in Friends

I dont know like what it is is it something liek Eye contact or words or anything else! what?

2006-10-20 11:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by 100% Español 5 in Singles & Dating

My parents like to sit around and talk constantly. They shy away from any activity and act like all they want to do is talk talk talk and eat eat eat. They are visiting me this weekend, and I'm already going nuts. If I take them to the movies, they talk through the movie and make it so no-one can hear anything...My dad is really loud and overbearing and always makes a scene when we go to a restaurant. Last night, my Mom asked our waitress how her husband died! How can I deal with things like this? I will see them in a half-hour. They also have their crazy little poodle with them! I love them so much, but it's really hard to be around them.

2006-10-20 11:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by juicyfruit 2 in Family

I have known my husband for 2 years. We had an arguement recently. He made a comment I didn't like therefor I swore at him. Then he shouted at me and swore back telling me all those hurtful things and eventually slapped me in the face by a pillow. I was shocked and devasted and crushed. For I thought he is not the type. I thought he isn't an emotional abuser. I feel so much hurt as if I don't know him anymore. We have a beautiful loving relationship. What shall I do? Shall I forgive him and believe him when he says that he will never do it again? I feel so scared.

2006-10-20 11:22:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce