I really like this guy and my best friend knows it. I've liked him for about two years now and in one point in time i think he liked me to but i was to shy to say n-e thing about it. yea i know bad move. but n-e way. lately my best friend has been all over him. just today she was sitting on his lap for about a half hour right in front of me. Looking at me with this innocent look on her face like she wasnt doing n-e thing wrong. Its funny though because she has a boy friend that she says she loves soooo much. She had his name written on her hand but when the guy i like (love?) asked her who he was all she said was a dude. That "dude" is the person she talks about getting married too and haveing his kids. What would you call that? Does she really care about me, i mean this is the girl that says shed die b-4 letting n-e one hurt me, yet here she is jabbing a knife in my heart? Is this a person I should count as my best friend? my friend? my enemy? im so confused right now!!!
2006-10-20 11:31:11 · 15 answers · asked by Vivian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its not the first time she's done something like this. Shes alwayse flirting with him. I've talked to her about it before and all she had to say was that they were just being friendly. I didnt believe her then and i dont believe her now.
2006-10-20 12:43:41 · update #1
Well, she is definitely not your friend!, but don't make her your enemy either, trust me, you have enemies you don't even know bout, don't make anymore. she is a *****, and i think she is jealous of u. and she does not even like her boyfriend, she just tells u those things (she wants to marry him and have his kids) so u might jealous her, seeing u don't have a boyfriend, One question, does that boy know you like him still, if he does, he is an asssssssss. and i think yr heart might be safer somewhere else, away form both of them. Good luck hon.
2006-10-20 11:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is two answers++ to this questions here and ive experinced both so I am not just spitting this out....
1. She is not wrong for hitting on this guy infront of you, as much as it may suck you have feelings for this guy for the past two years and have yet to act on them...In my life I have learned act on what you feel dont stand around and let someone else take what you want...
2. She is wrong though for doin that to her so called man that she loves...if she loves him she would never sit on someones lap or just calll him some dude.... and as a friend I would seriously think of finding a new one...she sounds like trouble.....
3. The best thing I can tell you is....man(woman) up tell this dude how you feel dont be afriad to tell him, if he turns you down then you dont have to worry bout it anymore...if he says yes then your in.....dont what happens get you done...life is way to fudgin short to worry about the small stuff.....
2006-10-20 11:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Syco Simps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that sucks. She really seems to be trying to hurt you, but that's probably because she's insecure or something-- it's really not cool to be sitting on a guy's lap when you have a boyfriend.
Never mind. I'm sure the second you say "Oh him? No, yuk I haven't liked him for like a year!" she'll get off his lap. She's not a best friend, or an enemy... just someone who doesn't seem all that nice. Try to separate yourself from her.
2006-10-20 11:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends love interests are off limits unless they give you the green light. And she is rubbing it in your face. Yeah I would be upset.
Next time don't be too crazy, but let the guy know you like him. Find a reason to email or call him, some event in his life like new job, birth or death of family- something like that and ask how that went. Tell him you should do something sometime.
2006-10-20 11:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be pissed. and jeaulous, just get up in her face and tell her like it is, coz just reading & thinkin about what she did to you makes me EXTREMELY furious and frustrated !!!!!!!!!!!!!! by the way she's not a very good friend if she does that. i have an idea: next time, get the guts to ask him if you can sit on the guy that you likes' lap before she does, cuz you don't want to sit in a chair. and just watch her get mad. oh my God i would soooo love that!
Pay back is a b`i`t`c`h!!!
2006-10-20 11:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an exagerated statement like "I would die before..." sounds like enough to know. She is out for attention, you can prove it by the fact of what she tells her boyfriend. You aren't in love. Tell that guy exactly what you just wrote, that you liked him, you didn't tell him and her messing with him made you uncomfortable and is there anything between you and her or possible you andh him. You should be assertive.
2006-10-20 11:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this "friend" is obviously threatened by you, so she's acting out to get attention. go for him, if u still want him. call her on it, in a joking way. for ex. " i noticed you were acting like a dog in heat, ever thought about getting spayed?" wait for reaction, then let it go. she wants you to be upset, so don't. think about it this way, she's insecure, so take it as a compliment. jealous people are funny, aren't they?
2006-10-20 11:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by ~it's me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her about it. Maybe she is just making you realize that you need to make a move. But if not.... she is not a friend. She can't do that to you and to her man. It is not right.
2006-10-20 11:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by moonstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if shes your true friend she wouldnt do that i mean if she was my friend our friendship would be over and i would talk to her about it and ask her why shes with that guy having a boyfriend you friend needs to give you an explanation just ask her
2006-10-20 11:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋