Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

An 11-year-old boy has been arrested in New Brunswick and charged with selling cocaine and heroin.

New Brunswick police Sgt. Richard Rowe said the boy and two teens were arrested Tuesday night carrying 234 bags of heroin and 111 bags of cocaine with an estimated street value of $3,450.

Officials said the 11-year-old was released to the care of his relatives and the teenagers were put in juvenile detention. None of their names were released because they were minors.


"We have seen an increase in juveniles that are involved with the selling of drugs, whether you attribute it to gangs or just juveniles not being supervised properly," Ralph Cretella, assistant prosecutor in Middlesex County's juvenile unit, told The Star-Ledger of Newark for Friday's newspapers

2006-10-20 11:09:15 · 3 answers · asked by kimmie 3 in Family

my guy best friend and i used to like each other but now he talks about random girls everyday and bashes the guys i like when they're really nice. Do you think he still has feelings for me and if not, why does he have to say nasty things about my other friends?

2006-10-20 11:09:11 · 4 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

he's such an asshole he tells everyone that we are still going out
what should i do?

2006-10-20 11:08:59 · 2 answers · asked by pualena m 1 in Singles & Dating

There are 4 other girls in my grade besides me(5 including me lol) and there r two girls that r know him but i sit next to him in the last class and the 2girls r on the other side so it looks like this (x=him o=girls p=me) ooxp but we talk and i want to ask him out bu ti am scared (ish) and i just saw on his elbow (right one) that is sayed proprety of becky hey srry about my spelling um so wat should i do

2006-10-20 11:05:47 · 9 answers · asked by hotice434 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so heres the deal......I want to see how many people have fallen in love! Who was it? Who was the person you fell in love with?
How was he/she so special??
Did you follow your heart, or your instincs! ? !
And yes I will choose best answer!

2006-10-20 11:05:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know she means it in most sincere way - a grandma who loves and is enthusastic about her grandsons. But I wince every time I hear it. Should I say something? Opinion on this term of endearment? Thanks.

2006-10-20 11:05:02 · 15 answers · asked by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 in Family

why cant a gal fight back wen some1 is trying to assault her(rape her)?now lets see here..not the age thg.if bothe are of same age...n wen a guy of same age tries to rape a girl....why cant she fight back?coz i keep hearing stories of date rape n stuff. n also how can one possibly rape someone?i mean a person has only two hands.he shud use mayb both of them to hold the girls hands.
not considering that the guy has ne weapons.

2006-10-20 11:04:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont have too if u dont want me 2......................

2006-10-20 11:04:08 · 20 answers · asked by Sexy chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a crush on him for like 8 mo., but I KNEW he was unobtainable because he is married with kids.He has flirted with me since the day we met(compliments, arm touching, looking into my eyes)So when I ran into him at school(in college/he was my teacher last semester)I would stop & talk to him. I never thought anyting more would happen.We both get out of class at the same time.We are alone one night (I am just expecting to talk) and out of the blue he kisses me.I could not resist because I have had a crush on him 4ever, we make out (he kisses me deeply & touches me all over)Then next time I see him, he tells me he can't do it anymore because of his family.He continues to flirt, compliment me. Then all the sudden one night it happens again. I was so supprised. Then he tells me he can't again, but I am beautiful, I'm sorry I hurt you, I like you as person, bla bla. I haven't seen him in two weeks bcus I am avoiding him& I know I shouldn't be messing with a married man.

2006-10-20 11:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 11:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Police: Dad Wanted Purebred Kids From Sex With Daughters

PATERSON, N.J. -- Police said a former city resident had sex with his daughters for nearly two decades in an effort to produce what he considered a pure bloodline.

Prosecutors said six children were born as a result of the sexual assaults.

The man, who had since moved to Brooklyn, N.Y., is charged with nine counts of sexual assault, 13 counts of aggravated sexual assault, as well as endangering the welfare of a child, aggravated criminal sexual contact, criminal sexual contact and lewdness.


His girlfriend also faces sexual assault charges.

Prosecutors said the sexual assaults took place from 1985 through 2002, starting when some of the alleged victims were 13-years old.

The Associated Press is not publishing the 48-year-old father's name because it would identify his daughters.

He has been held at the Passaic County Jail on $50

2006-10-20 11:02:41 · 15 answers · asked by kimmie 3 in Family

My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was sooo surprised when he said hi today. We only dated for one month, he ended it 8 months ago saying he was "busy" and it was so innocent, only kissing, cuz he knows I wanna save sex for marriage, so why does he still care? Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know? Why is my ex soooo curious?

I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Guys are soooo weird, they dump a girl, but still wanna know what goes on in her life, WHY??????

2006-10-20 11:02:28 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so theres this guy that I like a LOT... but the thing is we're different in that we hang out with different groups of people and stuff... but I still like him! So, he always says SOMETHING to me at school... its usually something little but he always talks to me at least once a day... I know this sounds kind of wierd but he always calls me a manwh**e (in a joking way of course) then we both laugh... and sometimes when we walk past eachother he bumps into me and smiles or something...and just today he sat accrost from me at lunch and asked me (out of all the people at the table) to hold on to his drink while he got some ranch... but other then these little things we dont really hang out... so I guess what Im asking is ... is he TRYING to get closer and talk or maybe even "flirt" with me or is he just being social with me and I just exadurate??

2006-10-20 11:02:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok im goingout tonight with this guy he's cute and all but what should i talk to him about

2006-10-20 11:01:04 · 15 answers · asked by melindawarwick 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for only a week but have went on 3 dates!I am also the captain of the volleyball team and a cheerleader! And, well, I am pretty cute! Alot of geourgeous guys have sadi i am the prettiest girl in the hole school!

2006-10-20 11:00:06 · 13 answers · asked by briezy 1 in Singles & Dating

so me and my (ex) boyfriend were apart for a month over the summer and the first time we saw each other after that time, he dumped me! I found ou tlater that he met a girl on his trip but was it because I told him that he should "have fun"

**HELP**

2006-10-20 10:59:11 · 14 answers · asked by ocfan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We kissed many times. My bf flirts with girls he just met.

2006-10-20 10:58:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 10:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife that is.

I'm once again left to clean up the broken crockery and nurse my broken & bleeding face.

The argument? My tax return of £2000 ($4000) just arrived.

That would make most ppl happy.

It's not the first time it's happend.

Advise?

2006-10-20 10:57:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

much that bitchh, what can i do? Am i ill?

2006-10-20 10:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I never thought less money would be more difficult but it is. Also, the fact that I have next to no time away from her or tattling kids, so being discrete would be difficult.

2006-10-20 10:55:48 · 11 answers · asked by TxCZshooter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so the 28th of oct. is me and my bf's 6 mo. anniversary. the problem: i'm broke but i know he is going to get me something because he is rich. I would just be happy with spending the day with him but i know he will want to do something expensive for/with me. i told him how i felt(i didn't tell him i was broke) i just said i would rather spend time with him then spend money on eachother. He is rich, he has everything so what do i get a guy that has everything...i've exausted the list...i've made him cds, dinner etc. what is something special that i can do for him...and no sex and anything physical isn't really what i'm looking for. ideas are greatly appreciated. 10 pts to the best, creative answer...thanks all!!!!

2006-10-20 10:55:01 · 11 answers · asked by danichika 1 in Singles & Dating

hotel to clients that were 30 & up would you be interested in a job like that. I am about to start a Private Lingerie service and I was wanting your ladies input on the idea. ABSOULETY NO SEX INVOLVED and there would be a Driver/Security guy there if anything went out of hand. Also there will be a form that clients would have to sign agreeing that there will be NO SEX INVOLVED. What do you think.

2006-10-20 10:54:21 · 11 answers · asked by Student of the Game 1 in Singles & Dating

I am far from home! I´m in another country because i fel in love with a man, and he ask´d me to come back to him. until now everything ok, but since I´m here he doesn´t spend time with me, he is always going out:to a friend, to his sister ,to work bla bla.
I´m most at the time´s alone so I don´t think that I could stay here too much. What do you think, would you stay by him; even if you love´d him; or you´d go home and start a new life?

2006-10-20 10:53:19 · 10 answers · asked by chiorean m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband spends most of his time at home on his computer. We don't do anything fun together or plan anything. He always has to work. I feel like we're just roommates. We rarely have sex too. I kind of want out of the marriage. I'm tired of being alone, but I'll be even more alone if we get divorced...

2006-10-20 10:53:06 · 20 answers · asked by juicyfruit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Be honest please

2006-10-20 10:52:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like my brother's friend ALOT, and I think he might like me, but I am really not sure, he hangs out at our house alot, and I flirt with him alot, but I am not sure what to do, whould it be bad if I went out with him. And that would be weird when he stayed over at our house, I realy would like to go out with him, because he is really nice, and awesome, but I have no clue what to do!, What should I do!?!?!?!

2006-10-20 10:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by Maggie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this guy but i think he's interested in someone else....he flirts with her and stuff....it kinda hard to tell cuz he flirts with me too... boys are SO fustrating!

2006-10-20 10:52:19 · 7 answers · asked by Poetry Girl 1 in Friends

im always put in the category of being a b*tch or having a bad attitude.Thats not me and kills me the way people are so judgemental.

2006-10-20 10:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or is it too soon and we should really be a couple to do that?

2006-10-20 10:51:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating