I am far from home! I´m in another country because i fel in love with a man, and he ask´d me to come back to him. until now everything ok, but since I´m here he doesn´t spend time with me, he is always going out:to a friend, to his sister ,to work bla bla.
I´m most at the time´s alone so I don´t think that I could stay here too much. What do you think, would you stay by him; even if you love´d him; or you´d go home and start a new life?
2006-10-20 10:53:19 · 10 answers · asked by chiorean m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you love him stay but if you think hes not the one go home. but its your call and your feelings.
2006-10-20 10:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by ez_breezy_beautiful_covergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i kind of know how you feel. you see, me and my girlfriend were together for only 7 months at a high school but i had to go to a different skool because i have asian parents and they wont let me date til i was done with my education process or get a job to pay for the bills. although ppl think that high school was all about falling in love and at the end you would fall flat on ur face but it was different to me. everyone has a different definition of love and if u noe u love him as much as u think u do, i dont see wats the problem. i think ur situation is pretty simple. my whole life, it was all drama because my parents keep tellin me not to b wit her but i chose wat was best for me and although it was a brudle journey, i manage to be with her and i still am now. if u think u arent sure, take ur time. if u know that u cant live without him and he cant live without u and noe that u will b with him forever til the day you grow gray and old, i think u should.
hope this helped. and sorry if i was being too personal. i just think that if i relate things, ppl might understand. i hope everything works out for the best. things happen for a reason so dont doubt about things once u pick ur path. you will always find something good... either way.
2006-10-20 11:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Red Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a homeboy with whom you have the most in common in a country you are most familiar with.
Why put yourself in harm's way? Why be a prisoner among strangers? What does this guy want from you?
Start over; this time, learn from this lesson and be all the wiser.
2006-10-20 10:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk to him about how you feel. He may not know how his actions are affecting you. If he still acts the same way after you have talked with him then it is possible that he has no concern or regard for your feelings. In that case it is best to best to carry on with out him.
2006-10-20 10:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by kenyacream19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with any relationship, you need to feel wanted ...if you dont feel wanted and respected then you have to think about it....do you think that he wants you there or do you feel neglected...its like how much do you take before you really had enough?...no one can decide that for you ... in the past my best friend...told me about my ex over and over again you need to dump him...you dont need him there and hes mr invisible ...besides i barely see him...blah blah blah but then she said you are gonna do what you want to do regardless of what i say and when she stop with all her bull 6 months later i finally let him go ....to say the least...so we on here cant tell you, we can only suggest...so baby grl when you feel like you had enough you will figure it out....but try to think about he is treating you right ?....Do you really want to be with him with all this nonsense?...you got to think about that ...and as for you going to another country for him...be careful...people have been sadly mistaken and taken advantage over especially in a foreign land.....
2006-10-20 11:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a new life, but i know it's easy said then done. maybe you should talk to him and let him know your leaving if he does not spend more time with you. good luck
2006-10-20 10:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO HOME! If he is like that now, chances are things will not change.
2006-10-20 10:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back home. He only wants you for your money and fame.
2006-10-20 10:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. if u already did and he doesn't or hasnt changed, go back home and start over.
2006-10-20 10:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a new life while you can
2006-10-20 10:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by lobo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋