My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was sooo surprised when he said hi today. We only dated for one month, he ended it 8 months ago saying he was "busy" and it was so innocent, only kissing, cuz he knows I wanna save sex for marriage, so why does he still care? Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know? Why is my ex soooo curious?
I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Guys are soooo weird, they dump a girl, but still wanna know what goes on in her life, WHY??????
2006-10-20 11:02:28 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Regret is the hardest thing to live with. Who knows what else was going on in his life when he dumped you? Maybe he was seeing someone else and then that relationship ended. Afterwards, he realized that what you had was real, not just physical attraction.
There are a lot of people who do not know how to delay gratification. Their parents always gave them everything they wanted or their partners never said no. When they finally meet someone incredible who says, "No, I want to wait " they don't know how to handle that.
I'm sure he regrets dumping you and wants to keep in touch because you are an awesome, interesting, beautiful person.
REALIZE THIS THOUGH....... He may do it again....Be careful
2006-10-20 11:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this question. He, may fill guilty for leaving you. He, most likely did like you, some guys get scared when they feel themselves getting closer to somebody. Maybe he needed a break to sort out things in his head. Has nothing to do with you. Nothing is wrong with calling on somebody and saying hello, how are you? What's you up to? This is a friendship, but do you want to make it work into something different? Good Luck to you....take it slow
2006-10-20 18:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, there are nice guys that break up with nice girls. I am assuming he is young and doesn't really know what he wants.
I am sure he likes you and cares about you, but he probably wants to see what is out there before he get s serious girlfriend.
Or he dumped you and probably got dumped by someone else that he wanted and now he is seeing if you are still available.
2006-10-20 18:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys are nice and want to still be friends. You can still care about someone even though you're not "dating". I keep in contact with some of my ex's. Doesn't mean I want anything. We may not have been meant to fall in love, but we were meant to be friends.
2006-10-20 18:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by jhollywood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question some guys just want to get on there good sides after dumping a girl. but some just want to know if there goin out with someone else or what..
2006-10-20 18:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by superbudz14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes still have sexuallity feelings 4 u
2006-10-20 18:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot of questions. You should ask him.
2006-10-20 18:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having second thoughts about breaking up.
2006-10-20 18:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just believes in the i still want to be friends thing hes just gonna talk to u like your his friend...and only friend...so don't think anything stupid
2006-10-20 18:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by kkk09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people always want what they can't have
2006-10-20 18:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋