My wife that is.
I'm once again left to clean up the broken crockery and nurse my broken & bleeding face.
The argument? My tax return of £2000 ($4000) just arrived.
That would make most ppl happy.
It's not the first time it's happend.
Advise?
2006-10-20 10:57:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well quit standing there bleeding on the damn carpet. You are going to get wack again for making a mess!! And rightfuly so.
2006-10-20 11:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm assuming now then, that you are a Battered Husband, yes a BATTERED HUSBAND, how does that make you feel to see it in writing. I don't agree with a man hitting a women, but theirs something different about a women hitting a man. Leave the broken crockery, for her to clean up. Sit up and smell the coffee, you don't need to put up with this ****, get a back bone and tell her to quit this **** or your leaving her. NO-ONE should put up with this. I was hit once by a man, and it was the last time he done it as I left. Sorry to sound so harsh at the beginning, but please be a man and stand up to her, she does it because you allow her to get away with it, and the more she gets away with it, the more she will do it. I have had friends in your situation, and it has gone on for years. Why look back and wish you should have done something sooner, when you can do something now.
Sort it out.
All the best.
2006-10-20 18:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by bizzybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not be there cleaning up the broken crockery I would be off with my £2000 tax return and never ever go back. No excuse for that sort of behaviour she needs help.
2006-10-20 18:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave sweetheart. I would not put up with it. You deserve better. Love is not beating up the person you say you love. Suggest to your wife that she get help. If its your house kick her out. Better still call the police and have her arrested. Have her charged. Maybe she will think about what she is whilst she is in jail. And most important never take her back. You deserve a wife who will love you and sit down to discuss things not throw a wobbly and beat you. Hope you do the right thing babe. If I was not married myself I would look after you. You sound like a very tolerent guy but please don't let that be your downfall. If you need to talk e mail me!!
2006-10-22 16:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have given her a backhander then sent her to bed.
You should be spending your money on women that break crockery but at Greek restaurants whilst dancing on tables! Get a life and get rid of your wife!
2006-10-20 18:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sherzade 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
if i was i'd get out of that relationship as soon as possible
wiv a violent partner doesn't matter how much u love her ive been in a violent relationship and i loved that bloke but wiv him hitting me and throwing things at me i got out of the relationship and i finished it straight away cuz u dont know when it is gonna end if that person is gonna change and there not gonna do that to u again
2006-10-20 19:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Katie P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's her problem? Does she want to spend all the money on foolish, fleeting things and is mad because you don't want to blow it all or is it the other way around? In either case, if she's hit/cut you, have her butt arrested and start divorce proceedings; spoiled b-tch; Go out on the town without her after you have her put in jail....and relax!
2006-10-20 18:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is never pleased take part of your refund and hire an attorney divorce her. Sounds like it would be best for both of you if you get on with your lives not under the same roof.
2006-10-20 18:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop playing on the pc..
leave the mess..
take wot you can carry and leave...
nothing or no-one is worth taking that for.
go anywhere.. sleep in the car in a layby if you have to.. just go..
if you were a woman it wouldn't be tolerated, why should it be just cos your a man..
get out love... and don't look back!
all the best.. x
2006-10-20 18:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nutty Nelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Why" did the evening end up like this? The answer your looking for is "why this happens again and again." Change something. Change you or change your address. You can't change her. Because she has to want to. Till you decide, invest in a face guard. Don't put up with that!
2006-10-20 18:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋