her b/f claims he dont like gays but he got some in alias profiles from what I hear from others he is like a cold fish unromantic distant towards her. Should I tell her found his prof where he got 2 gay men with fleshy pics. Dont have a prob with gays but Im a man in every way I dont want gay men in my friends list.This is suspect and confirming our suspicions. Whats ur take on this???
2006-10-20 11:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by rastaman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way I met someone else but still good friends with my ex she's a great gal just we didnt have much in common. would like to see her happy and not get hurt again.
2006-10-20 11:43:55 · update #1
Leave it all alone. It's not your business to tell her that you "suspect" he's gay.
Maybe he is. Let her find out. She's your ex. Move on with your life.
2006-10-20 11:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you concerned because you care about your ex or are you just trying to break up the relationship and get her back with you.
If you're just trying to get her back, then do nothing. You obviously broke up for a reason. You can't force things. If you're meant to be then you'll find your way back to her naturally.
If you honestly care for her, then I don't know. I don't know if you have a right to say anything or not. You're not her boyfriend anymore. Whether or not you want to admit it , you don't hold as much importance to her as you once did. (You may think you do, but most times ex's don't). And....She may resent you and your accusations. (It wouldn't matter if they were true or not) You may drift farther a part as a result. If the accusations are true, she will find out.
Maybe she already knows. Maybe she doesn't care. Maybe she cares more about a person's personality and character and etc than she does about a person's political party, sexual orientation,
race and etc.
2006-10-20 18:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by methodistbambina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I have a question, if she is your ex why are you worried about it? Sounds to me that there are still feeling there. What cause the breakup? What you should do is just leave it alone, it has nothing to do with you. She has moved on and is in another relationship, you should do the same. So what if her man ends up being bi. Let her find out for herself. Because if you tell her, then she is going to think that you are just starting things to break them apart so that you could get back with her. So my suggestion to you.......Stay Out of It.
2006-10-20 18:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how to write so I don't know what you are really trying to say. If a gay man is someone your friend is wanting to date, you might discreetly tell her that maybe his interest is not in women and that if she doesn't want to day a gay man to back off. Maybe he just doesn't like her. I shudder whenever I hear that supposed friends have proof of anything. This really ruins friendships. If you want to really help, just ask her why she doesn't just ask him what the problem is with the coldness and if he prefers men?
2006-10-20 18:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like one to me man If you are a good friend with your ex you should tell her I wouldnt want a froot loop on my friends list either lol!
2006-10-20 18:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You DO have a problem with gay's, you just don't want to admit it. You also still have feelings for your ex, or you wouldn't care what she does. MYOB!!!!
2006-10-20 18:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do dont tell her lol let her deal with it i would be laughing it up
2006-10-20 18:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by that_over_weight_dude 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you even care about all this because?
2006-10-20 18:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋