wella friend asked me to help her with her problem her man that she so call loved asked her well told her to stay in her place and she said and wut exactly is my place and he said figure it out if u dont kno wut ur place is then we shouldnt betogether ...
2006-10-20 11:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by candisss s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To me a woman has an equal place in my relationship. Relationship meets 2 so men and woman have to be equally responsible to each other
2006-10-20 11:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by expat0171 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a women's place ?...what ?....never heard such a thing...in a relationship its 50/50...there is no women's place...that comment invokes some controlling demeaning way for her man to control her. You are both equals there is no inferiority complex here.. and if you feel inferior, you must find a a better mate...she is not an object nor a child in a relationship ...tell him if he wants something to step on, find a rug!!! Speak up grl....(did you know in the womb, men are made from the same tissue as women? research it!) You are his equal grl..dont let him put you down like that....and if men need to put women in her place....then hes insecure....
2006-10-20 18:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER.... DUMB HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!... NOW AND RIGHT AWAY!!!!!!!!... IN A RELATIONSHIP THERE IS NO PLACE!!!!... A RELATIONSHIP IS 50 50 PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!... NO MORE AND DEFINETLY NO LESS!!!!!!!.. I THINK IT IS RIDICULOUS FOR ANYMAN OR WOMAN TO TALK TO THEIR MATE AS IF THEY WERE A CHILD OR AS IF THEY WERE BETTER THAN THEM IN SOME KIND OF WAY!!!!!! A PARTNER ISNT SUPPOSED TO DO WHAT YOU WANT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO COMPROMISE AND IF HE CANT SEE THAT AND IF HE HAS HER MIND SO CLOUDED THAT SHE CANT EITHER SHE NEEDS TO MOVE ON EVEN FASTER THAN I THOUGHT BECAUSE ONCE SOMEONE GETS IN YOUR HEAD AND STARTS MESSIN WITH YOUR SELF WORTH AND CONFIDENCE THEY HAVE THE ABILITY TO MAKE YOU DO ANYTHING YOU WANT THEM 2 AND ONCE AGAIN THIS IS NOT BK AND HE SHOULD NOT GET IT HIS WAY!!!!....
...okay lets say this calmly... be strong and move on... if he makes you feel like you dont have a "place" in the relationship where you can be respected and loved like an equal then you dont need em!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-20 18:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "woman's place" used to be "in the house" or in a relationship, means that they must listen and do whatever the man says........
However, this is 2006, and that is very outdated and might I say, WRONG for him to say this to her. A woman is just as strong as a man, and doesn't need to back down from something just because the man says so. We are equals!
2006-10-20 18:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say her place it the heck away from bass-ackward "men" like him.
IMO A relationship should be between loving partners. Not a man and his devoted servant. :P YMMV.
2006-10-20 18:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by wench 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋