I have a question for you ladies out there. I met this girl in high school back in 2003 and tried to ask her out. But she told me that I was having an infatuation.She was really nice about telling me this. I was not having an infatuation I really did like her. Since the 2005 graduation ceremony I thought of her about every night. Yes she was in my senior class.
I have contact with her but she does not write back. Due to the fact she is in college. Would she be worth my time ? I just can't stop thinking about her. And if not what can i do to make myself stop thinking about her? Please help!! :(
2006-10-20 12:10:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if she isn't replying she probably isn't feeling the same way as you do. Now she is in college she is meeting new people and probably having a real good time. I think you should just start enjoying yourself with your friends and forget about this girl for the time being. Focus your attention on other things and if you do speak to her again, then just be friendly. Do not ask her about her feelings straight away. I would say there are plently more fish in the sea and when you look back on it when you're older you will smile and will have moved on! :) Good luck
2006-10-20 12:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by GirlyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she made light of your crush in the first place...and doesn't write you back right now...I would have to say that she is not worth your time! I know you've heard it before -- about there being more fish in the sea. But there are. Also, it helps to believe that "what's meant to be will always find a way." It's been a few years...try to keep busy with your own life and goals, and then if you are supposed to see her or be with her, then one day you will. For now, I think you've done everything you can do without totally overkilling it!
2006-10-20 19:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you really do feel that this girl could be it, then don't give up!! Really think about it.. think about her personality, etc.
If you're not willing to spend the rest of your life with her, then you might as well stop wasting your and her time (most girls like guys that are serious and interested in more than a short-term relationship). Show her you care, but don't be too "pushy".
So again if you're absolutely sure, don't give up! That's not what love's about.
2006-10-20 19:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by xX.crazygurl.Xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about it!!! Dude when a girl is interested in a guy she will right away let you know and wont let you go. You have tried and she hasn't responded shes not interested. Stop looking for her. Girls don't like nice guys. They like good guys. We need a man to take charge. And if you keep on insisting that's a turn off. Let time pass. Time will tell.
2006-10-20 19:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by BATGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u know where she lives? If u do i recomend that u do something special and flat out tell her that u can't stop thinking about her since 2003. Also Ask her if u r wasting your time with her. Most girls will be honest with that..whatever she responds, you'll know what to do next!
2006-10-20 19:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by calibeauty3698 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if she's not attending a college in the same state u are in, then i think u should move on. If she is however, try to just be a nice guy. It sounds like ur coming on as a stalker-type, but i think if u just simply ask "hey, want to go to dinner sometime? to catch up on our lives?" then heck, maybe u'll have a chance
good luck :)
2006-10-20 19:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you have more than an infatuation with this girl, so I think it is worth the time and effort to get to know her. Give her a call and tell her how you feel. It think she would appreciate that you have thought of her. I know that I would be overjoyed.
2006-10-20 19:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by ciaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she dosen't write back it means:
A) She is to busy to talk to you at the moment
B)You may have the wrong contact info
C)She dosen't want to stay in contact with you
So I would just make sure I have the right info and try to get in touch with her again and this time if she dosen't respond I would just leave her alone for a while.
Hope this helps :)
2006-10-20 19:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be mean, but she is not thinking about you and if you wrote her and she hasn't wrote back then she might already have a boyfriend. All I can tell you to do is move on and I am sure you will find somebody one day who will make you real happy
Good Luck
2006-10-20 19:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to be mean but she's just not that into to you. She doesnt see you as someone that she can be with at this time. Maybe its the way that you look, people you hang out with, etc. I think you should move on to the next hottie!!!
2006-10-20 19:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋