Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

should i or should i not?
i was 13 and i fell in love with this guy hes sweet kind and perfect for me we;ve in dating for 1 year and my mom found out and she told me we have to break up casue she doesnt want me to have a bf until am 16 we pretended we broke up but we really didnt he use to call me and we use to meet alot before my mom found out but now since i dont want her to find out we're still dating this is wat we do the only way we communitcate is by the cmputer we chat and sometimes meet with out telling anyone but his comp. got broken and we havent seen each other for 2 weeks he said their going to fix it soon but they dont have time too i cry everyday before i go to sleep i miss him so much my life sucks now and i dont know wat to do wen i think about it i say i should dump him but we really really love each other alot and i dont really know if i should dump him or not i miss him so much and he doesnt call me or we havent met for 2 weeks becasue his computer is broken and as i said the only way we

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45 minutes ago
we communicat is by computer i dont know wat to do so i need good advices really i need help should i dump him or wat but i realllllllllllllllllllllllly love him i dont knonw wat to do thx for ur help

41 minutes ago
by the way am now 14

35 minutes ago
we are the same ages and he loves me more then his family!!!!!!

11 minutes ago
and he doesnt know how i feel and i need to express my feelings to him wen he goes away and i never see him its like am gonna die and we dont go to the same school how should i till him i wanna dump him i just cant do it its killing me everytime i think about it

2006-10-20 14:34:45 · 9 answers · asked by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend fingered me and it didn't feel good.It didn't feel bad either but Is something wrong with me?

2006-10-20 14:33:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 14:33:08 · 18 answers · asked by aydawn 1 in Family

There is this guy I like, and his best friend said he likes me, and when I asked the guy he said maybe maybe not... in girl that usually means yes... but does it mean the same for guys?

2006-10-20 14:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cus i know i this one white person and i'm like wondering.

2006-10-20 14:32:55 · 11 answers · asked by ammmmmyy 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need a good laugh

2006-10-20 14:31:47 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Especially if you have to work as a team?

2006-10-20 14:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by Mamamia 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I really like (see my other questions) asked me out this weekend. This is my 1st date ever! What should we do?? We thought about a movie, but we need something to help us get 2 know each other better, without it being too awkward. He invited me 2 his house.....but what would we do?? We barely know each other!
I am in 7th grade, and he is in 8th.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2006-10-20 14:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

he really likes me but I don't really like him and well he's all way's trying to talk to me but it kind of bugs me. :( :(
I just don't know how to tell him to leave me alone. He's younger than me and has real fragile feelings so that kinda makes it harder :(. I just don't know wat to do. : (

2006-10-20 14:30:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay my brother and his ex girlfriend have a 3 year old together and my brother has been paying child support from the time he was born but my brother went into the navy when he was 6 months old and just like 43 days ago my nephews mom left the state with him to move to virgina and she hasnt called she has told the judge we dont have a number or address.and my brother and i want to see my nephew and we cant find her.i thought by law she had to give us a address within 30 days of moving.my brothers child support is directly taken from his account threw the child support angency so he never sees where the money goes so what are his rights and does anyone know what sites i can go to to find info out about this?

2006-10-20 14:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by victoria_baby202 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 14:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by stinky 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u do

2006-10-20 14:29:24 · 8 answers · asked by zacky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I play alot of games online. But basically, I told her playing online games were more important than her because they don't "complain about my life" or are "always on my case" or they don't "talk to me while I'm trying to play online games", they also don't "make me feel bad about myself" or they "tend to talk about their ex-boyfriends all the time"....
I mean yeah, she's a great girl with a bright future and lots of money with an awesome personality, but I just wanna play games online.

2006-10-20 14:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Js_5 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf Matt and I brokeup this summer b/c I cheated. Its been 4months and he likes his ex gf Sara and they went out for 3days. Today in Math class I was talking about my new bf and Matt looked at me and he looked sad and upset. Then my best friend Laura asks Matt whats wrong and he says "leave me alone!" Then Laura asks him "Why are u being mean?" And he said "I'm not being mean!" I've never seen him like this before. Him and I had a great thing going and then I screwed up and he found someone else to replace me. And now he is all of a sudden being rude and mean to people. Why do u think that is? And what does all of this mean. Like does he still like me or is he just having a bad day what. While I was talking about my new bf he put his head down on his desk and it looked like he was crying.

2006-10-20 14:29:14 · 7 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 14:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by surffinder1989 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 14:26:49 · 36 answers · asked by aine2u 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my cousin has been with her b/f for 3 years and for the most part all they do is fight....... recently she became friends with a guy that she says is really sweet...... she says that she is in love woth her b/f but yet to me her actions say differently..... the only thing is she has a 2 year old little boy.... what should she do? guys please give your opinion

2006-10-20 14:25:38 · 11 answers · asked by i_luv_my_army_man 2 in Singles & Dating

ok..i just broke up with my boyfriend a few minutes ago..and he knows i like another boy that he also knows from a Yu-Gi-Oh! Tournament i went to..thats where i met my ex and the other boy...i only dumped my ex because i didnt really want to be in a relationship with anyone else for a while cuz i dont think im ready for one yet and my ex said that he wants to hurt the other boy i like cuz he thinks im going to go out with this boy..whos name is Greg..my ex's name is Tony..im really scared for Greg because hes about a year younger than me..tonys in college and is a year and a half older than me ..my ex tony says he wants to hurt Greg..what should i do?

2006-10-20 14:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Robert has collected some coins and I am worried that if at any time we are robbed they will be insured.

2006-10-20 14:24:16 · 3 answers · asked by crazymom682000 1 in Friends

more likely to cheat. its probably pretty equeal. but i think that guys cheat more often than girls.

2006-10-20 14:22:58 · 16 answers · asked by Robert 1 in Singles & Dating

We fight everyday. It hasn't gotten phsical yet, but he did bump into me afer a fight this week. I told him this was unacceptable and to apologize (later that day). He is verbally abusive and disrespects me infront of people. I think he puts me down to make him feel good about himself. We've to sessions before, and things were good for a while. I think he doesn't want to go now because he will be told that he is wrong. It doesn't matter when I tell him, but for someone else to tell him.. I don't know. He wont like it. Why doesn't he want to help our problem? I went to see our counsler last week, and he said he can MAKE my husband come in, but I'm in the military and it's on base, and I dont want all of that to happen. I just got to this base and I don't want this much bad attention. But he doesn't want to go? I don't want to tell him that he can be made to go. what to do?

2006-10-20 14:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Want to but dont know what to do???
There is this girl that is in most of my classes(12th grade) she is cute and i like her. First should i ask her out and second how do i know if she even likes me. She is in with the popular kids and is a cheerleader. Someone help me!!

2006-10-20 14:22:30 · 5 answers · asked by harrison 1 in Singles & Dating

i really want to satisfy him but i always end up not wanting to do it cuz im not enjoying it.i love him so much, i dont wanna hurt him,but our sexlife sucks,his "thing" looks like a
C.i havent had an orgasm during intercourse, eversince we've been together.i want to make it work for the both of us.

2006-10-20 14:22:11 · 11 answers · asked by speakingofstephen 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my best friend's cousin's liked me for the last year. MAJOR crush... defidently not shy about it. So i started liking him and had my best friend tell him that i did. Ever since then he's been ignoring me, and doesn't even sit at our lunch table anymore, even though his friends still do. It's been about two weeks since she told him and nothings changing. What is his problem? why is he acting like this? Oh. i almost forgot. He's got a gf, but that didn't seem to be a problem when he was crushing on me.

2006-10-20 14:22:03 · 12 answers · asked by belle du jour 3 in Singles & Dating

Will i ever get a job before of next year in june of 2007 cause that is when me and my man are moving in wit each other.

2006-10-20 14:21:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1.-nice looking
-comfortable to be around
-smart
2.-normal looking
-has a really great sense of humor
-smart
Sorry, my friend has sorta a dilema...

2006-10-20 14:21:38 · 20 answers · asked by ChocolateCake 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres a guy in my class, christian and hes awesome! we're really close friends but it hasn't always been that way. we just started getting closer cuz he would talk 2 me about how disgusting he thought one of the "couples" in our class was. he liked the girl, and i hate her bf, so we had plenty 2 talk about. but now we talk about normal stuff. today in language arts he told me how close he lived 2 my house. and he told me that he could ride his bike there like 3 times! so i figured that was what he wanted 2 do so i asked he wanted 2 come over this weekend. he said sure but he didn't know if his brother would wanna come. (sry! i 4got 2 mention that christian is a twin!) then he said he wanted to bring a friend.

but in science he said how he can't go trick-or-treating in his neeighborhood because it wasn't safe. and once again he kept saying that. so later i asked if he wanted 2 come trick-or-treating w/ me and he said if maybe. what do u think? (and no i'm not a like 12 years old.)

2006-10-20 14:20:52 · 3 answers · asked by hannah t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 14:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 14:19:57 · 27 answers · asked by Nandini S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy at work says he showed his kids pictures of people with herpes to get them not to have premarital sex. Good idea?

2006-10-20 14:19:25 · 23 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family