My boyfriend fingered me and it didn't feel good.It didn't feel bad either but Is something wrong with me?
2006-10-20 14:33:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No some women don't like being fingered and some guys don't know the fine art of finger phucking. You either was not ready for him roughing you up like a caveman or you expected much more than that and you were disappointed (after all you can finger your self) Did he lick his finger before he inserted it and did he lick his finger after he inserted it. Either way you were not turned on and he fingered you prematurely and it was a bust. Slow him down the next time and it will be much better. You need to hold and guide his hand and kinda show him how you like it. After all you were fingering yourself long before he got there. Good luck
2006-10-20 14:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you. Maybe he was not doing it the right way so while he is down there take your hand to his hand and guide him to where it does feel good. You can talk a little while he is doing that and tell him to the left or right until he has the right spot. Trust me, if he hits the right spot it will feel wonderful!!!
2006-10-20 14:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anything is wrong with you. I went through the same thing. mine was just because i was young and knew that i was doing the wrong thing and b/c it wasnt the person i really wanted to be with doing that to me. when the right guy finally came along it was much better.
2006-10-20 14:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by KIrvin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with you. Different things work for different people. Tell your boyfriend that you didn't feel good and try something else. Good luck!
2006-10-20 14:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I don't really understand the question...fingered you?...uh...tell him you'd prefer something else...
2006-10-20 14:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend isn't that good at it. You should remember that boys are clumsy oafs, so don't be so quick to blame yourself.
2006-10-20 14:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its usual nothing is wrong with it, provided both of you love doing that,
2006-10-20 14:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No nothing is wrong with you, you just didn't like it that's all. Next time guide him along and help him do it.Tell him how you would like it.................
2006-10-20 14:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by lisa b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no nothing wrong with u...u were probably too nervous to enjoy it.
2006-10-20 15:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if it was the first time, dont worry. and, personally, i dont think its that great. becareful.
2006-10-20 14:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋