i really want to satisfy him but i always end up not wanting to do it cuz im not enjoying it.i love him so much, i dont wanna hurt him,but our sexlife sucks,his "thing" looks like a
C.i havent had an orgasm during intercourse, eversince we've been together.i want to make it work for the both of us.
2006-10-20 14:22:11 · 11 answers · asked by speakingofstephen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best kind of lover is one who can share all the good feelings and not so good feelings with their partner to make it better for both of you. The guy will soon be able to tell that this just isn't quite right.
Others have suggested lubrication, yes good idea, and changing positions. Whatever it takes.
Take it slow and open up a dialog. Things like telling him what you do like, and then, "maybe try this instead of this" Open up the words, not just your legs. Even if it's justa sound when you like it, or a different sound when you don't. TALK about it with him.
2006-10-20 14:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that relaxation and maybe taking it a little slower is the key. If none of the other answers work for you, you might try using some "poppers". It is a substance that you inhale and it causes what's called your "smooth" muscles to relax (your vagina and anal muscles) and it also causes a bit of a head rush, but poppers are harmless with no side affects in most people. In some people, it can cause a small headache but that is uncommon. It is sold in a small jar and you just inhale it right out of the jar. You have to get it at an adult novelty shop, as poppers are most commonly used by people who have anal sex to relax their anus to allow easier penetration. It will have the same effect on your vagina. For more info on it, just do a Yahoo or Google search on "poppers".
2016-05-22 06:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have 'sleeves' at sex shops i've never had a guy use one but i know they sell them, i dont know exactly how much it might straighten it out during sex but you can definitely try. i think u should tell him the truth even though i may hurt him. what if you're gonna be with this guy for a very long time? if you're unsatisfied then it could possibly lead to you finding someone else to please you.
2006-10-20 14:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he see a Urologist and get himself straightened out? This is called Peyronies Disease and is due to a tightening of the ligaments in the penis.
2006-10-20 15:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wondered if women like the bent d**k thing. Can't he direct it toward the "G" spot?
Inquiring minds want to know.
2006-10-20 14:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by dirtyrubberduck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what thing?
oh.
thing thing
you can say penis. if you are old enough to be having sex, you can say the word penis. A "bent" penis works the same as any other penis when it's having sex. Maybe it is something else.
2006-10-20 14:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. I have a nice curve to mine but that is insane. Either he has to change his tecnique or your never going to be satisfied. Have you talked to him, or experimented?
2006-10-20 14:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried using lots of lubrication? That could help...
2006-10-20 14:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be worse it could av been shaped like a W now that would be sore
2006-10-20 14:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be true to yourself. You are ruining your body trying to please him and you aren't being pleased. You need to tell him you "ain't feeling" what he's feeling.
2006-10-20 14:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋