Okay so my best friend's cousin's liked me for the last year. MAJOR crush... defidently not shy about it. So i started liking him and had my best friend tell him that i did. Ever since then he's been ignoring me, and doesn't even sit at our lunch table anymore, even though his friends still do. It's been about two weeks since she told him and nothings changing. What is his problem? why is he acting like this? Oh. i almost forgot. He's got a gf, but that didn't seem to be a problem when he was crushing on me.
2006-10-20 14:22:03 · 12 answers · asked by belle du jour 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm sixteen.. he's fifteen. Someone wanted to know.
2006-10-20 14:26:08 · update #1
i'm sixteen.. he's fifteen. Someone wanted to know.
2006-10-20 14:26:24 · update #2
i'm sixteen.. he's fifteen. Someone wanted to know.
2006-10-20 14:26:41 · update #3
that's why he is backing off. Since your friend told him that you in fact like him he is now ignoring you. It's pretty typical for a guy to lead you on, then when you initiate it he ignores you. I would let it go, it's not good to like someone who has a girlfriend.
2006-10-20 14:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing the ignoring game.... So you can play it also... He knows you are noticing and he likes it... He chased you and caught you and so the fun of it was over...However, he is still aware that you must be bugged or wondering what is going on. He knows you are watching and wondering and he likes that also.. So dish it back... Start ignoring him. If he walks in the room then you walk out. He only walked into the room so he could ignore you in the first place. So do the opposite of whatever you have been doing. Don't even tell your best friend what you are doing because she will tell.. Just make sure your best friend knows that you are no longer interested. I promise you he will come back around sniffing again.... Its all a game so jump in there and play it because he is.. Instead of being upset... start having fun with it..Let me know in about 2 weeks if it worked
2006-10-20 21:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a guy w/ a girlfriend. They always look and think they want but dont get rid of their girlfriends. He had a crush on you but isnt willing to give up his g/f. Now he knows you like him and its not as fun as before.
2006-10-20 21:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by tammy a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked you because he could not have you. Once the wall came down he lost interest.
I had a girl who liked me very much, but my parents would not let me date a girl who was two years younger than me. My parents finally let me date her and she lost interest in the relationship after the obstacles were gone.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-20 21:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man may flirt with you but that does not mean that he loves you.He is avoiding you because he cares for his girlfriend and is not interested in cheating!
2006-10-20 21:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you.
Playing with your emotions was more fun. Now that you've admitted them, he's no longer willing to play. Aren't you lucky you're not his gf?
2006-10-20 21:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am guessing that he is jut like most guys and just asking for all the attention he can get .... i'd say just act like u dont care and see how he feels then ... play him off!
2006-10-20 21:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by allie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just shy...or maybe now that you like him, he doesn't like you? I'm not sure. And they say women's minds are complicated. HA.
2006-10-20 21:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL IF HES GOT A GF THEN DUH, HE DOESNT LIKE YOU ANYMORE. He probably liked you before he got a gf. But, i guess he doesnt like you anymore and he knows that you like him, so hes ignoring you.
2006-10-20 21:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's got a gf then stay away from him, and what grade are you in???
2006-10-20 21:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by mysticalfairygoddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋