should i or should i not?
i was 13 and i fell in love with this guy hes sweet kind and perfect for me we;ve in dating for 1 year and my mom found out and she told me we have to break up casue she doesnt want me to have a bf until am 16 we pretended we broke up but we really didnt he use to call me and we use to meet alot before my mom found out but now since i dont want her to find out we're still dating this is wat we do the only way we communitcate is by the cmputer we chat and sometimes meet with out telling anyone but his comp. got broken and we havent seen each other for 2 weeks he said their going to fix it soon but they dont have time too i cry everyday before i go to sleep i miss him so much my life sucks now and i dont know wat to do wen i think about it i say i should dump him but we really really love each other alot and i dont really know if i should dump him or not i miss him so much and he doesnt call me or we havent met for 2 weeks becasue his computer is broken and as i said the only way we
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we communicat is by computer i dont know wat to do so i need good advices really i need help should i dump him or wat but i realllllllllllllllllllllllly love him i dont knonw wat to do thx for ur help
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by the way am now 14
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we are the same ages and he loves me more then his family!!!!!!
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and he doesnt know how i feel and i need to express my feelings to him wen he goes away and i never see him its like am gonna die and we dont go to the same school how should i till him i wanna dump him i just cant do it its killing me everytime i think about it
2006-10-20 14:34:45 · 9 answers · asked by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Usually 13 year olds who are professing their love for one another is very suspicious.... What is your family life like? What is his family life like? It sounds like you are both missing out on affection and attention at home and so you are seeking, "love in all the wrong places". At your age you should be working on getting good grades and making friendships with persons of your own sex.
Your mother is only looking out for your best interest. She is doing what she thinks is best for you. She doesn't want to hurt you or make you miserable she is reacting appropriately...
Talk to your mother. Communication is always best. Tell her how you feel. She may have the best advice for you.
peace
2006-10-20 14:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if you want serious advice listen to this please
you are too young to be so involved with this boy. Being apart as you are will only cause you both to long for each other more, so yes, it's the best for both of you to break your relationship now.
You both are too young to decide that you love each other as well. I know you don't want to hear that, but trust me it's the truth. Take a breather from each other - stay in school, study hard and show your mother that you are able to be mature and sensible. She will be far more receptive to your plans if she sees that you are succeeding in school and on your way to a good career for yourself.
Take your time, you have lots of it.
Whatever you do - DO NOT tell him how your feel about him now.
2006-10-20 14:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this but you are way to young to love someone that much. 2 years from now you will forget all about him and start dating all sorts of different people. Don't tie yourself down to one person - then when you are ready you will really know what love is. I know it sucks but it will get better and you'll get over each other. I think you should listen to your parents - they really do know more than you and understand you better than you think. Go talk to your mom about how you feel, I'd be surprised if she can't relate at least a little bit.
2006-10-20 14:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Norm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell in love at a young age like you, and it nearly killed me, and we never even ended up together, ive been married now for almost 20 years to someone else. i think about my first love sometimes but seriously, i know you dont want to hear this, but you are so young your not thinking with your head, only your heart (and maybe some other parts?) and it hurts like hell when you arent together and no one seems to understand. i sympathize, i really do. but if anything is ever going to happen with this young man, your parents need to know how you feel and maybe he can come over and do things together with you and your family. that will help alot
2006-10-20 14:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by prismcat38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DUMP HIM!!! what you're dumping this guy cause his comp got broken? you cry urself to sleep each night because you havent seen him, and you know he still loves you. imagine how much more pain will come if you dump him. he loves you right? you love him? tru love shouldnt be broken!!! trust me, i broke a relationship and have regretted it for so long!
2006-10-20 14:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sure you can work it out. i think you should work it out with your mom. you shouldn't dump this guy if you like him. but i mean, at the age of 14, there are still many guys out there so i prefer you should do what you really want to do.
2006-10-20 14:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by OrangeBlitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both feel the same way then whats a few years to wait.
2006-10-20 14:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by mouse3801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur are 2 young
2006-10-20 14:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt do any of it!
2006-10-20 14:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋