Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

Ok um in a strange situation now... i(um a guy) n my best friend(gal) were walking back 2 college when we had out arms around each others shoulders when she said somethin quite unexpected... she asked "cyfer... what if i told u i m finally attracted to u?" ok now maybe this sounds quite direct but somethin was strange the way she said it... after sayin this we continued 2 have the usual fun we always have as friends.. n oh... as a challenge i asked her 2 kiss me on the cheeks... she never has kissed me before on the cheek though i have challenged her before... but 2day.. she DID!! actually iv bin so gud friends wid her that i m confused whether she DOES like me or was she jes kiddin... girls plz tell me whether she does like me or not????

2006-10-20 14:02:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 14:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by a m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that is 10 years my senior that I had been dating. I just noticed that from the very first time that he held my hand while we were watching a video, his hands went damp. Until now, his hands still go damp most esp. when he holds my hands a little longer. We belong in the same church that forbids premarital sex. Will anybody has any idea what could he be thinking or feeling that has caused his body (hands) to react this way?

2006-10-20 14:00:01 · 7 answers · asked by Mhel 2 in Singles & Dating

I prefer an african-american man, age 31-36, college degree, or on the way to one. Must be able to love kids, want a friendship to develop into a long term relationship. Must be patient, employed, no criminal hx, and have a car. Must also be ambitious, honest, patient, trustworthy, look decent, and love to laugh. Iprefer drug free, non smoking, and have your own place of residence. Is there anyonr available to fot this profile.

2006-10-20 13:59:27 · 10 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

married 24 yrs now seperated he cheated has since moved in with her shes 21 he is 42.he has moved on like i never exsisted....we have 4 children together one of which is 1 yr younger then his girlfriend....we havnt talked at all about anything in months ...he comes and gets the kids when he wants i never did the visitation thing more so for my kids then for him i wanted them to see him when he could manage it......im just at a loss for how i go on when i dont even know how this happened i thought us happy and said this to him as well he said we wedre i asked then what happened he says i dont know.......thats why i ask this question

2006-10-20 13:59:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok! im really confussed. i got 2 boys i really like. ok the 1st boy is really sweet. he tells me he loves me and he will fight for me and i go with him and when i tried to break-up with him he was like lets talk about it and make our relationship last. I like him alot. 2nd on is really sweet everytime i see him ne gives me a hug and twirls me around while were hugging. he always had my back since the 7th grade. he was my first kiss on the cheak cuz i still havent had my first kiss (and im 15). He is so nice and i always loved him.the only thing i hate about him is that he flirts alot. pick one1 plz!

2006-10-20 13:58:24 · 25 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just started dating this really cute boy. but hes not considered popular and he wear glasses and talks to me a lot in front of my friends. i never told my friends becasue they would make fun of me for liking him. He's a really nice guy, should i dump him or keep him?

2006-10-20 13:58:10 · 14 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Singles & Dating

This is the second time my dog Ralph a 5yr old doberman bit some one but my bratty 3.5 year old Nephew jumped on top of his back and I told him and my brother to never ever do it again so while I was at work I old my brother to keep Ralph Up stars in the dogs room(Ralph has his very own room).And they let Ralph out and the brat Jumped on my dogs back again Now my brother says he will take me to court if he has to ......This is what I get for letting him(my brother) stay with me while he got back on his feet

Note : The Nephew got 20 stitches on the face ...

I told my Brother that the only way I would Euthanize my dog Ralph is OVER MY DEAD BODY .....I would never murder/Euthanize my bestfriend(my dog)

Who is right

2006-10-20 13:57:40 · 30 answers · asked by Buda B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

To tell your 9 & 11 year old children that their parents are divorcing? Does anyone have any experience with children around these ages or if you were one, any advice or suggestions would be very much appreciated. Thanks.

2006-10-20 13:57:38 · 9 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got over my ex-wife and am glad that its over. She feels that the divorce was finally settled on "her terms." She says that she wants to be friends for the kids, but since she played games before and made me jealous and strung me along for a while, I don't trust her as far as I can throw her. It feels like she comes over just to in some sick twisted way to shove her life in my face and it's the same old stuff "Im a good cook and I work now". And, I'm feeling like "WhOOPTY DOODA" She came over while I wasn't home, and cleaned my kitchen and gave me an old POS sweatshirt because she felt like I might need one. What do y ou think this woman is trying to do?

2006-10-20 13:57:36 · 7 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 13:56:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me a few weeks ago. We have a daughter who is 3 so we still talk every day. He even calls just to talk to me and let me know what's going on with him. He is living about 45 minutes away so there's no chance of us just running into each other, visits are planned. I truly love him and i don't just want to be with him just because we have a kid together. He knows i still love him and want to be with him. I tell him enough but not every day because i don't want to annoy him. What should I do????????? I know you are going to say wait but the more I wait the more i feel like there's no chance.

2006-10-20 13:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by she_shee83 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do?

2006-10-20 13:56:09 · 24 answers · asked by john c 1 in Friends

I'm reluctant to share this but, i have to unload this burden. Ask for a miracle. She is Verga Jamisola Wasil supposedly scheduled for cataract operation last Oct. 6. Financially, all is well on her hospital visits, but ,during her last visit to the hospital her healthcare membership was cancelled due to her age, she just turned 65 last Sept. 22, we didn't know that its the company policy and they didn't warned us to do something on her membership. My problem is that her operation costs 20K in pesos. Can't afford that amount right now and she is very eager to have the operation coz right now, her right eye totally cant see. The left eye has cataract too and it will have its operation also. If she wait untill i can secure the amount, it will be too late for her. I hope not. My immediate relatives dont have the means. Does anybody know FREE cataract operation in Cagayan de Oro City, Phillipines ? This is where we live right now. Text this number to help me.+639179785260. Tnx

2006-10-20 13:55:38 · 1 answers · asked by amy n 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He makes me doubt because he has trouble being open with me about his past girlfriends. And I feel I have the right to know if he continues to be friends with them. For example, I asked him about a particular girl and he pleads that they had nothing, then a month later he tells me they were involved.What bothers me is that he fails to mention these things, yet keeps responding when they contact him.Do I not have a right to know these things, if we are pursuing a deep relationship? He is not a bad man but I feel that these secrets are deceptive. Is he justified in saying that it is in the past forget it, if he still has contact with them and "fails to mention it"? So basically I want to know is it ok to keep those kind of secrets in a relationship? Can I really trust him? Thanks.

2006-10-20 13:55:34 · 4 answers · asked by princessstar 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know what guys think of me. I have a great personality, lot's of friends, and I do good in school. I look like my avi, except my hair is put up with a sweatband. Sometimes I put my hair up like my avi. But when I do, I get more looks. Is it my hair or my personality?
I will add coments.

2006-10-20 13:54:51 · 4 answers · asked by Deb 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
i have a friend whom i havent seen for a long time.
We saw each other in one company and we worked there
with all the same job description. It was a job overseas so i treated
him like a real close brother because theres no one else.
I am a loner, doesnt talk too much, and a man who follows
all rules. By showing concern to him, he questioned my sexuallity.
He insisted that he was hired because of me,that i intetionally recommended
him because i liked him. I wont do such a like a thing! The fact is that is what
he beleives.
You know what he's doing now, he's trying to befriend everybody except
me , even, like showing that he's so concerned to evrybody else except me.
He talks loud, laughs and smiles as if I were not there ,trying to tease me probably.
I'm kind of a loser when it deals with something like that.We are on the same job,
and i can't just go away with it. What should I do. I also hate how he questioned my sexuality, what does he think of himself.....

2006-10-20 13:53:56 · 3 answers · asked by chase 1 in Friends

i need Internet friends if you are interested leave your email address as answer to this question so that i will be able to get in toch with you

2006-10-20 13:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by queen 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and her boyfriend have been going out then he leaves next thing you know it with out telling her,she start dating this guy and i just found out that he just got out of jail. He tells me that he love her then she finds out that he just got out of jail and begin to doubt herself.She has a boyfriend but love him too!! Help her so she can leave my alone about deciding who she should be with.

2006-10-20 13:52:30 · 5 answers · asked by Beauty is great!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not a racial question, it's just that two of my friends were arguing (play arguing) about it and I wanted to know the facts.

2006-10-20 13:50:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband literally deployed earlier this afternoon. I know that I will need to be a big support for him and I will, but I'm having a hard time with this right after he is gone feeling. I feel kind of numb like he could walk through the door at any moment. Have any of you gone through the same thing and how do you cope with the feelings? I love my husband so much and I am willing to do anything for him. We have a 7 mth. old that I want to remember him. What can I do support him and be a good mom to my son?

2006-10-20 13:50:12 · 7 answers · asked by d4cav_dragoons_wife84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a site where I can get a new ss# and name so she can't find me for support. I'm more than twice her age and I don't want to pay for the next 18 years. It was her choice, let her pay.

2006-10-20 13:49:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Again, he is wearing me out in bed, on the couch, on the table etc. Any ladies want to help me with him?

2006-10-20 13:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by victoria s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was 13 and i fell in love with this guy hes sweet kind and perfect for me we;ve in dating for 1 year and my mom found out and she told me we have to break up casue she doesnt want me to have a bf until am 16 we pretended we broke up but we really didnt he use to call me and we use to meet alot before my mom found out but now since i dont want her to find out we're still dating this is wat we do the only way we communitcate is by the cmputer we chat and sometimes meet with out telling anyone but his comp. got broken and we havent seen each other for 2 weeks he said their going to fix it soon but they dont have time too i cry everyday before i go to sleep i miss him so much my life sucks now and i dont know wat to do wen i think about it i say i should dump him but we really really love each other alot and i dont really know if i should dump him or not i miss him so much and he doesnt call me or we havent met for 2 weeks becasue his computer is broken and as i said the only way we

2006-10-20 13:47:27 · 15 answers · asked by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

about her well-being, not expecting anything in return, especially if he married her and knows now she has nobody to turn to in case she needs? Are there guys who would give their lives for their wives, girlfriends and not abandon them just trying to control them if they don't go back to them?
Do you think it is wrong to expect a guy to treat a lady with respect and as a lady, especially if this guy is her husband?
I had to come back to my country because my American husband would behave in a very bad way. I am happier now, but I can not believe he completely abandoned me, he never sends any help to me anymore and he told me that he were to choose between his daughter and me he would choose his daugther. I left everything in here to follow him but I could not stand living with him in the USA + his debths that he hid from me. He says he is a Christian but a real Christian would not do that. Do you agree that a Christian wouldn't do that? He distorts God and Christianity.

2006-10-20 13:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is such a moron, he keeps telling me that we cant live together because i am 25 and i still live at home and so he says I dont know what its like or how to do it so I need to do that first. honestly I really dont think its that hard. right? i know it sounds like hes just making excuses, but he is serious everytime i ask him, so i just wonder if anyone thinks this way.

2006-10-20 13:45:21 · 16 answers · asked by Freaky 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl who is my best friend. We are both 17 years old. We both have know each other our whole lives and our parents have know each other since they were in high school. I am worried if I tell Jen how I feel about her and she does not feel the same way that it could mess our friendship up. What should I do?

2006-10-20 13:44:53 · 8 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy in a online chatroom and we have had 2 conversations and I really enjoy talkin to him but I would like to get to know him better before we meet. I really like him already but I still need to find out more about him. Do you think I should pursue this or just get a life? He asks all the time when can I come see you or give me your number but I have 2 kids and I have to be careful. What should I do?

2006-10-20 13:43:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at my school there are 2 girls that i like and one of them is my girlfriend my girlfriend is nice and funny but not everybody likes her and the other girl i like noby likes her either and i have all ready gone out with my girlfrien before but i've not gone out with the other girl that i like . which one should i go out with?

2006-10-20 13:42:05 · 10 answers · asked by jaden 1 in Singles & Dating

help me i cant stop being stressed out!

2006-10-20 13:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by skybabe 3 in Family