i was 13 and i fell in love with this guy hes sweet kind and perfect for me we;ve in dating for 1 year and my mom found out and she told me we have to break up casue she doesnt want me to have a bf until am 16 we pretended we broke up but we really didnt he use to call me and we use to meet alot before my mom found out but now since i dont want her to find out we're still dating this is wat we do the only way we communitcate is by the cmputer we chat and sometimes meet with out telling anyone but his comp. got broken and we havent seen each other for 2 weeks he said their going to fix it soon but they dont have time too i cry everyday before i go to sleep i miss him so much my life sucks now and i dont know wat to do wen i think about it i say i should dump him but we really really love each other alot and i dont really know if i should dump him or not i miss him so much and he doesnt call me or we havent met for 2 weeks becasue his computer is broken and as i said the only way we
2006-10-20 13:47:27 · 15 answers · asked by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we communicat is by computer i dont know wat to do so i need good advices really i need help should i dump him or wat but i realllllllllllllllllllllllly love him i dont knonw wat to do thx for ur help
2006-10-20 13:48:33 · update #1
by the way am now 14
2006-10-20 13:52:29 · update #2
we are the same ages and he loves me more then his family!!!!!!
2006-10-20 13:58:22 · update #3
and he doesnt know how i feel and i need to express my feelings to him wen he goes away and i never see him its like am gonna die and we dont go to the same school how should i till him i wanna dump him i just cant do it its killing me everytime i think about it
2006-10-20 14:22:54 · update #4
Hun, I understand how bad it feels to be in this place of in- between. Indecision is not a good feeling. Pay attention to it so you can identify this feeling later in life.
Don't rush this. If he's going to remain a part of your life he will make the effort somehow. And even though your mom may be taking this to an extreme, she is kinda right in some protective way.
I have a very mature, level headed 13 y o daughter. She has had a boyfriend for 7 months. He's 14. We've known this boy for years, since kindergarten, and I'm sort of friends with his Mom. I trust both these kids. It helps that my daughter still thinks boys are yucky, and sex is disgusting. 7 months and they haven't even kissed.
I guess it's all part of a judgement call. You have to trust and be trusted.
Wait it out. Either he'll come around or you'll start to feel a little better. It IS NOT the end of the world even though it feels like it right about now.
Blessings for you darlin.
2006-10-20 14:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your mom. No mother wants to see her child that upset, and screw everyone who says you cant fall in love just because you're 13. I'm sure she can remember when she was 13 and would do anything to be with this certain guy. Dont go behind ur moms back, talk to her about it and tell her how much you really like him. If things are meant to be it'll work out and if they arent then let it go. You are only 13 and there are plenty of other guys out there. And a year is a pretty long time so i know there has to be a lot of emotional attatchment. I dont think giving up just yet is a good idea. Wait it out a little while longer and see it things get better. And.. how old is this guy anyways?
2006-10-20 20:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by April Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah Yes,young love, first love, you feel like you could just die for it, doesn't it? I was there once or twice( or maybe 4 or 5 times) anyway,do you two attend school together and see each other that way or is your communications done strictly by e-mail or phone? If he is allowed to call you then what is the problem?Maybe another girlfriend?Look I am 50 yrs old and see nothing wrong with a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I drove my daughters and their boyfriends to movie theatres and shopping malls and picked em up,or his family did too.They seem to be like I was and fall in love with a different person every month. Whatever way you present this to your mom ask her if she remembers being young once, I do!
2006-10-20 21:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet up with him at school then! Dont let your mother hold you back on someone you really care about. Its your life! I personally would say that it is always right to wait till you are 16. But since you seem to really care about him, try to meet up with him every chance you get. Give him a note and you guys can communicate easiar. Also, you can talk to him on the phone. If your mom asks you who it is, just say it is one of your girl friends. You can even meet up with your friends at the mall, and him and his friends can meet up with all you there. Dont worry so much about him, his computer will be fixed when it can. Those are some of the ideas that just popped up in my head, hope I helped! :):):)
2006-10-20 20:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Autumn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then you should wait a little longer for him to get his computer fixed. If it doesn't work then maybe sneak out to see him or something? If you can't do any of those then you should dump him and wait until you're 16 to get back together.
2006-10-20 20:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by linneh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important? Having a bf or going behind ur mom's back?
2006-10-20 20:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Time goes by 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MOMS RIGHT. YOURE ONLY 13 GEEZ, YOURE WAY 2 YOUNG. WAIT FOR ANOTHER YEAR TILL YOU REACH HIGH SCHOOL, THEN START DATING. OH YEAH, AND BY THE WAY YOU DONT LOVE HIM, YOU ONLY LIKE HIM A LOT. IM GUESSING THIS IS A STRONG SENSE OF INFATUATION THAT EVERY TEEN GETS. BUT DONT WORRY, YOULL GET OVER IT LIKE ME.
2006-10-20 20:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you should not tell your mom and call him
I am 13 too I know how Its feels I am in love with my bf
but my dad does not know but If you tell your mom It is better
I am going to tell my dad right now
you help me thanks
2006-10-20 20:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by world biggest daddysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. I know he misses you too. Remember absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-10-20 20:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by wannabefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to young. Dump him. If it's meant to be you'll get back together when you are sixteen.
2006-10-20 20:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by revieskid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋