My wife is young, and exhibits wide and varied mood swings. She is on thyroid meds, which seem to help control them to an extent. She has feelings of sexual urges all the time, and has cheated on me 3 times, though she comes and tells me shameful each time. Recently, due to my weight and blood pressure, I have had huge sexual performance problems. Pills only work about 30% of the time and the sex is very quick. This is causing huge problems in our relationship. Recently, it has manifested in the feeling that she never got to sow her wild oats. She is brimming with energy to go sleep with the world. She has just starting going out with friends from work and drinking all night. She has cheated again, and now due to wants me to let her knowingly take a lover, to fulfill these urges and try something new. We love each other, and don't want to divorce. She feels she needs to do this, while I can't perform. I am afraid it is part of her sickness. what should I do?
2006-10-17
12:33:57
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Thadeus
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Marriage & Divorce