She is younger than I am. I now find older women attractive. Hey, whats going on here?
2006-10-17 12:39:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Humble 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're in luck, because if you stay married to your wife, eventually she'll be an older woman!
And by the time she is, you'll have a ton of great, fun memories to look back on, and a world of love and trust to keep you close. AND she'll be a talented, experienced, and fantastic lover.
(My wife is SO much more capable and exciting at 48 than she was at 23... yeah, she was slimmer and had smooth skin, but when she was 23 she hadn't learned how to give me multiple orgasms. :-)
2006-10-17 12:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding other women attractive is normal because many older women are beautiful. Why does this bother you (unless you're not telling it all)? Do you think your wife doesn't find other men attractive? It's not a problem unless you're thinking more than just that they are attractive. If you take good care of your wife, she'll become more and more attractive as she ages because happiness shows. And if YOU are happy with your wife, your happiness will show on you, too.
2006-10-17 12:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is perfectly healthy for a man to find older women attractive even though they are married. Just as long as we look and don't touch (then it becomes a big mess.) I believe we go through phases in our lives when we desire what we don't have. I dare to say if you were married to an older women you would suddenly find yourself attracted to a younger woman. Just enjoy looking and even having fantasies just as long as it does not interfere with you normal marital routines.
2006-10-17 12:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be having fantasies about older women because they are no demanding and are good in bed. We are not pressure to the man at all. Men tend to go for the older now because there is good reliable sex and no pressure...in turn they are nice to us because we dont sufffocate them.
the worst thing you can do is suffocate a guy
2014-10-12 03:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by caroline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what u consider older. I'm 44 and I like younger men. theres nothing wrong with it but try not to lose your wife in the process
2006-10-17 12:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by maxine s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i detect it perplexing to have self assurance you're quite a woman. What chick could say a guy plucks the strings on your physique like a double bass? I play bass and have self assurance me, with my spouse or my mistresses I ain't plucking any of them; maybe an occasional slap, yet certainly no longer a pluck.
2016-10-19 21:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do I. The thought of them being incontinent is such a turn-on for me. That plus the fact I can use them to financially support me. Older women are so hot!
2006-10-17 12:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kmore 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's understandable. I have been with guys my own age and with older but I still prefer older guys. :)
2006-10-17 12:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can find anyone attractive just don't act on it, and let your wife know.. who knows something may happen like a fantasy coming true :)
2006-10-17 12:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by swingorstrikeout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a docter and you are having what is called paradecatriophobic
2006-10-17 12:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by roni4196 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋