ok so theres this boy, and i think theres a little bit of a crush growing, but i dont want it to grow just because if something ever did happen, it would be weird for him and my brother because they are the same age, and same grade and grew up together, and i dont want them to lose their friendship, im really confused someone please help me
2006-10-17 12:32:03 · 18 answers · asked by flirtinbabe286 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres a crush between the two boys???..oh wait ... It's you has the crush ... go with it if you like him ... theres many a friendship endured long after a romantic relationship has failed ... if they're good mates .... they'll continue to be good mates ... it's you who runs the risk of being hurt
2006-10-17 12:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this person, ask your brother if it would be weird if you dated one of his friends. Don't let him know who he is. If it affects him in a bad way, than you might reconsider, but if not, than go ahead. The love of a brother last a lifetime and you don't have many of them. But there are many fish in the sea. Maybe later when you are older, and circumstances are different you can be together. I'm not saying that your brother should come first before your relationships, but you sound like you don't want to hurt him. So really, you must decide what to do. And by the way, live your life to the full, and have fun being young. To many kids want to grow up to fast, and later on in life regret they did
2006-10-17 19:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he likes you then go for it. Trust me, when the time comes when your brother fancies one of your friends his needs will come before what he thinks of you and the girl's friendship. Also, you can't let your brother become the deciding factor in every relationship you're ever gonna have - he's not your father and you're reading way too much into this. G o for it and do what you want for a change!! Good Luck!!
2006-10-17 19:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him to have a crush on you, do things to turn him off, like talk about other boys in front of him and be annoying. Try acting like a boy or more girly, whichever is more of a turn-off for him.
If it's you who has the crush on him, then look for the bad, annoying traits he has. If you can't find any, imagine some up. Turn yourself off him.
2006-10-17 19:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your brothers friend, I say don't try to go out with him. If you two have a nasty breakup, your brother might lose a friend in the process.
2006-10-17 19:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete? Go to bed already!
2006-10-17 19:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who isn't your brothers age. There has to be more then one boy in your town.
2006-10-17 19:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he really the one you want ansd there no others ? if thats the case than do what your heart desires, if somthing goes wrong than talk to your brother about it.try to fix it before you have to break up with him and have your brother hate you! good luck<3
2006-10-17 19:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by ♥janelle♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not going to get in the way of your brothers friendship s long as he treats you with respect
2006-10-17 21:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by blackrealty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gutt on this one. Whatever you decide always be straight with your brother. If you do date him and don't hide anything from your bro then you will have much less anxiety about it.
2006-10-17 19:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by 1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋