Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

ok...so im really into this girl...and she's like everything i could ever want in a girl. we have a lot in common and our personalities are really closely alike...and she knows it too...and i know i have a strong chance of getting her...BUT something's in the way - she has a boyfriend...and...i really dont know what to do...some ppl might just say move on, but...at least for right now, that answer's not gonna do it...so my question is...what do i do? do i wait it out and wait for her? do i shoot now and tell her how i feel? what would you do? any advice would really be appreciated...

2006-10-17 15:32:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 15:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♪Jenni♥♪ 2 in Family

On the episode of Jamie Foxx when he got married 2 wat's her face...he sang a song to her when it was his turn to speak his vows. I think the name of the song was Angel, but it's not on his "Unpredictable" CD...it's a BEAUTIFUL wedding song...but where can I find it at???

2006-10-17 15:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Nikki 4 in Weddings

Ok so I asked the guy I liked what he was up to for this weekend and he said nothing so I told him if he wanted to go for ice-cream and a movie, and he said yes, and then asked me yeah sure, who else is coming? I mean who else is coming??? I was like I don't know I just came up with the idea, but I'll ask my friends. It's the second time he does this. It's like he doesn't wanna b alone. ahhh any suggestions?

2006-10-17 15:30:56 · 19 answers · asked by Puffgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for families that might be in a simaliar sitition? Are your children in custody?need some help if someone is out there that will understand what I am talking about.

2006-10-17 15:30:48 · 1 answers · asked by nicholas.blondie 1 in Family

gf and me have been together over a year...i think. she had to move out of state with her mom cuz her paretns got a divorce. she was supose to be back in 6 months. every thing was fine in the relationship excep the fact that we didnt get to see each other. then one night on the phone she had to get off real quick for some reason and i didnt get to tlak to her at all cuz her phone got cut off. i didnt hear from her for alil over a month. then i get an offline message from her saying that her grandma is in the hospital and she is out of town and that she didnt have her phone any more but she would call me as soon as she got the chance but it would be awhle b4 she could. and now i havnt heard from her in about 8 months and have no way to contact her. idk if i should keep waitin to see what happens or just call it quits and move on. we where really close before all this crapand i really love this girl alot and now idk if i shlould even consider us together nemore.what do yall think?

2006-10-17 15:27:58 · 9 answers · asked by fox_racing_dude_3 1 in Singles & Dating

If a psychologist or someone could watch you and your partner sleeping, what would your body language reveal?

2006-10-17 15:27:08 · 34 answers · asked by Lord Glyde 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I have liked this guy who used to sit next to me in P.E. last year. He knows I liked him, and still do! I used to flirt with him all the time, and I still sort of do, he lives down the street from me and rides my bus. He is very CUTE and I am totally obsessed. All of my friends can't give me good answers to my problem! Help!

2006-10-17 15:27:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. so there's this guy at school, he always flirts with me and sometimes asks me out. the bad thing is that i know he's just playing, or i'm not really sure. i've known him since the beginning of this school year and i totally like him cause he's cute. sometimes he kind of hugs me and touches my hands and i just feel like kissing him. the problem is that i think i'm starting to fall in love with him and that's not good because he barely attends to school and since he's a senior he's gonna be out this year (i'm a junior) so i think it's a bad idea to fall in love with him because he's just playing but i can't control my emotions, when i see him i feel my heart exploding inside of me. anyway what sould i do? should i stop talking and paying attention to him?
P.S. why do guys make us girls fall in love with them and then completely ignore us?????

2006-10-17 15:26:13 · 6 answers · asked by gabyfonsi_gabybert 1 in Friends

hey everyone i'm 12 and i really don't want to go fast with my girlfriend but i do want to kiss her.She and I love each other very much. I've nvr really kissed a girl before because i went to a very small private school. ANy tips or stuff to help me make a good peck on her cheek

2006-10-17 15:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by blah893 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you say when ur girlfriend shows u her boobs asks so what do u think

2006-10-17 15:24:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why the hell would my boyfriend be attracted to watching animals and humans having sex and wants me to do this?? I also have a feeling before we met he actually did something with an animal but cannot prove it--its totally discusting and not that I know he totally turns me off completely we were engaged before I found out he is a great guy in every other way

2006-10-17 15:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Singles & Dating

Im in the beginnings of starting a relationship with somebody who ive been talking to for almost 3weeks now. We both seem to enjoy each other's company, not to mention when I usually talk on the phone to other people, im readay to get off the phone in like, 5 minutes. but with them, we can talk for HOURS. They just recently said to me that they want to make me theirs. And I certainly wouldnt object to that, cuz ive been feeling them, for the longest now. What im worried about and what I told them also is that in the past ive been done wrong in many relationships. Ive been heartbroken, and depressed to the point where I wouldnt eat, or sleep. Im so insecure these days, to the point where I cant go a day without hearin their voice. And I be afraid to call because I feel like i may be bothering them. And when they tell me that there is no problem at all, i find myself askin again if there is with like anything. I hate being insecure. But they keep tellin me, that they want me and only me.

2006-10-17 15:23:54 · 2 answers · asked by Yahoo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is convinced I was sexually abused as a child. I was exposed to many sexual situations that I shouldn’t have been yes, but not directly. I was also raised in a very strict religion, and sex was considered to be a dirty and nasty thing unless done with a marriage partner. Even then it seemed like it was dirty. I know I was scared from this, and it has affected my current relationships. Now I believe that if someone wants to have sex, they can do so, of course there are consequences like STD’s. However, I have tried to avoid any emotional connection allow with sex with anyone because I don’t want to end up feeling used by a guy. I know that sometimes I don’t even want a commitment and just want a fling, but I have been unable to do so, certainly the times I have tried I felt rejected. I guess with or without sex if someone doesn’t want you you will feel bad anyway. But my point is, is my current stand on sex & love caused by my being right, or by my upbringing? Should I make a connection with sex and love or is sex just a pleasurable act that doesn’t have to have any tie with love? I never felt any feeling of love when I had sex with my first love, it was just about pleasure. However, I did feel love when we cuddled, or hugged, or just looked into each other’s eyes. Am I afraid to open up? Or is there just no opening up to do?

2006-10-17 15:23:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am an Asian girl just arrived to U.S.A. going to highschool. i am 16 years old. i have long black layared hair till the hips. i am taller than the average and very good in pysical shape. i am really attractive and a bit fair. i have never had a boyfriend and i am a virgin. every body says that im very lovely and that i am a very good preson to hang out with. but i still didn't find romance. many boys seems to like me but they never come and ask me out. i am very good in studies and i am very smart. what do you guys think about me? do you think that i am odd becaus i have never heard of beautifull girls even bieng virgins atleast till they are 14. why do you guys think that guys won't ask me out

2006-10-17 15:21:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.k. So here is my dilemna: Theres this girl I like,and she's all but told me she likes me. She's even subtly hinted that she wants me to ask her out. My only problem is my parents, there really strict,and say I'm not supposed to have a girlfriend. So basically I'm asking for advice on how can I have a good relationship without my parents knowing? (btw, I've already talked to them about it, and they just said wait untill i'm older, I'm 15 though, not sure how long they want me to wait.. anyhoo talking to them about won't help at all.)

2006-10-17 15:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Silent Beeker 1 in Singles & Dating

I am havin major mood swings at school.My boyfriend does not know what to do.I willltalk to him in the mornin an then al talk to him at lunch and i will be mad then al se him in the hall and al be sad.He thinks that i am just crazzy! i am not i am just having mood swins and i don'tknow what to do! Please help!

2006-10-17 15:21:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this question before but everyone thought i was a girl.......i wanna know if you were a flirty waitress would you ever go out with a customer?

2006-10-17 15:20:59 · 2 answers · asked by anonymous 27 4 in Singles & Dating

sorta-like of you think your mom kept you instead of putting you up for adoption on purpose and you think they hate you

2006-10-17 15:20:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We're in our late 20's....he thinks I'm uptight and difficult because I don't want to spend the night with him when his parents are staying the weekend....to me this is disrespectful and creepy....he swears his parents won't care.....is it as weird as I think?

2006-10-17 15:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by renee 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 15:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by ~~Night:Wolf~~ 2 in Singles & Dating

The way I see it, her being a girl and all it would be better for her to clean up my son's room. I think it will give her good experience and a good work ethic for when she has to clean her own kids room someday. Besides my son is only 11 now and she's been doing it now for years. Well, my buddy at work found out about this and he says its really wrong what i am doing. Well, I just have to disagree - for one I bought a car for my daughter and my son only gets 5 dollars a week allowance. However, that really doesn't even matter that much because the fact is, she is a girl and he is a boy and I figure a couple more years and he can mow the lawn. I never made my daughter do that. Oh yeah, my daughter also makes him snacks or dinner sometimes if mom isn't home and my buddy thinks that is messed up too. I guess I feel that a woman should be doing a woman's job. Am I wrong here?

2006-10-17 15:19:11 · 37 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family

The girl is twenty five years old. Has to chose between either her husband or friends or parents. Husband is a great, trustable, loving and caring guy and the girl is pregnant. Friends are also very good and care about you a lot and have been friends since you were small. Parents are loving and still call you every day and help you anytime.

But one problem. They don't like the others and are pulling me in three different ways. What should a woman do?

2006-10-17 15:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

(public display of affection) -- my girlfriends all wierd about it

2006-10-17 15:17:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

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i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more

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but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??

2006-10-17 15:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 15:17:10 · 12 answers · asked by Fun and Games 4 in Family

she talks over me all the time i called her crying i told her i was in hospital that i was just raped and the next thing that came out her mouth is what a hard day she had at work i asked if she herd me she said yes and kept talking about work i hung up on her and she still talks over me and most people ????? what would you do

2006-10-17 15:16:05 · 9 answers · asked by rradboys 3 in Friends

Theres this guy I was dating, while we were dating he told me he liked me from the moment he saw me and he liked cuz we acted alike and I was pretty and everything. Then he broke up with me like a week later... I dont get it... cuz I acted the same all throughout the relationship... And he seemed happy with me. Was he lying or wut? And I know he id want sex cuz I was his first g/f.

2006-10-17 15:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by KelCee 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I have been seeing. I really don't even know if he considers me as his g/f or not. He sings and tries to cheer me up when he sees that I am down (I didn't tell him, he just noticed). We have kissed a couple times. It was a great feeling between us! He has given me a lot of hugs. We haven't been on any dates (going to movies, etc) though. We have known each other for almost 10 months. He has disappointed me a couple times, but he tells me he's sorry and he also told me that "I will never let me down seriously." He always tries to get my attention. He always teases me and plays around (messing with me). He makes me feels really happy. He tells me he wants to go to a getaway weekend with me only. He is a very gentlemen-like person and he has his sides also. He is both types when he is with me. He tells me he is comfortable when he is with me. He in a way seems to be a very special guy, but still I am confused sometimes.

2006-10-17 15:14:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy that I am attracted to, but the problem is he doesn't know me, I don't even think he knows I exist!! What I do to get him to notice me and maybe even talk to me?
HELP!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-17 15:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships