The girl is twenty five years old. Has to chose between either her husband or friends or parents. Husband is a great, trustable, loving and caring guy and the girl is pregnant. Friends are also very good and care about you a lot and have been friends since you were small. Parents are loving and still call you every day and help you anytime.
But one problem. They don't like the others and are pulling me in three different ways. What should a woman do?
2006-10-17 15:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its like god has made my life nearly heaven and then made it hell
2006-10-17 15:21:51 · update #1
You are married to your guy and expecting his baby. Why does your family and friends not like him? If it isn't a serious reason like he abuses you or is messed up in some way, they are really being unfair to you. You say your husband is great and loving, so you've got to stick by him first. Your friends should be thankful you are loved so well and if they love you, they will put up with him and make peace. Also your parents should love you enough to recognize your decision and love you both. Technically, your husband has more say about your life than anyone else (say medically if you were in an accident). You belong to each other now and your baby is the beginning of your family. Besides, who is putting pressure on you to choose? So they don't like interacting with each other? So be it. You don't have to get sucked into they pettiness. Just do things with each separately. And don't let them pull power plays. Just keep doing what you want, and if they choose to be harsh and vindictive, that is THEIR problem. Put yourself first and don't let all this worry affect your child. Good luck!
2006-10-17 15:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring them all together for a mediation. Tell them how you feel and if they can't learn to get along then you will have to cut yourself off from all of them. Your life with your husband and the new baby is what is most important to nurture..not a group of adults acting like 4 yr olds.
2006-10-17 15:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eih choosing is not the solution...for the girl everybody is important in one way or another so she doesn't need to force herself to choose between them..the woman should try to talk to everybody to her husband, friends and parents and try to know what's the root cause and the reasons why they don't like each other in some ways and tell them that she needs them with her and she doesn't want to lose anybody..
2006-10-17 15:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chose the husband....shes gonna start a family with him soon, her own family....friends come and go, she`ll make new ones that will be more tolerant...and parents will always be there no matter what , for life
2006-10-17 15:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the women in your life know how you feel. Communicate with them. Trust me I know. I am a women. We like to be informed of feelings. Any women would say the same as me.
2006-10-17 15:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Swimming cutie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First loyalty should be to husband. No question!
Friends and parents should be made to understand that.
2006-10-17 15:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by catherine02116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 25 - you're a grown woman.
How about you don't HAVE to give up any of them...
and any of them that tell you that you have no choice but to choose - should be the one you consider cutting...
2006-10-17 15:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by ilovetiti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oobviously you are married to your husband he should be most important as you do not sleep with your parents no more
2006-10-17 15:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them now that they are all important and that they should know that you arent going to "choose" any one group of them. if they truly care about you, they will understand, and they should understand
2006-10-17 15:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her Parents.I would choose my parents.
She wouldn't be alive if her parents didn't born her.
2006-10-17 15:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋