Ok so I asked the guy I liked what he was up to for this weekend and he said nothing so I told him if he wanted to go for ice-cream and a movie, and he said yes, and then asked me yeah sure, who else is coming? I mean who else is coming??? I was like I don't know I just came up with the idea, but I'll ask my friends. It's the second time he does this. It's like he doesn't wanna b alone. ahhh any suggestions?
2006-10-17 15:30:56 · 19 answers · asked by Puffgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be one of two things...maybe he doesn't like u like that, and he doesn't really know how 2 tell u without hurting ur feelings. He knows u like him, it's obvious...but he may be trying to make it clear to u that he's not feeling u like that...
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It could be that he's nervous, and maybe it's surprising to him that you're so forward. Perhaps he doesn't feel "worthy" of u asking him out on a "solo" date, so he's asking u in a sarcastic manner.
My suggestion: confront him. Ask him y he doesn't want 2 be alone with u. Men love a confident woman...so don't worry urself, just ask him.
Good luck, and I hope it works out 4 u.
2006-10-17 15:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not have sunk in to him that you are asking him out! Next time say something like " I would like to take you out on a nice date(you pay since you ask) Just the two of us"! That should let him know for sure! He may just be going with the crowd! Ask him over to have a movie if you feel comfortable about this! Good Luck and I hope you have fun!
2006-10-17 22:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, sweetheart, I think that's his nice way of telling you "I'm not into YOU like that". Orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr he could be very shy and gets real nervous and needs other people around so all the pressure is off him for awhile. If it's the latter, he's kind of a wussy if you ask me. Hehe.
2006-10-17 22:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible he's just nervous to be alone with you. Take it as an opportunity to spend time with him. (Maybe you could ask your friends to disappear for a little while)
2006-10-17 22:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is prolly shy and nervous about being alone with you. Next time you ask him to do something just tell him that you want to spend time with just him.
2006-10-17 22:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYbe he wants to go w you to meet other people or he doesn't want to be alone- or likes to go in groups- you could tell him just you and him- and then see what he says- D
2006-10-17 22:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Diane W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him i ask you if you want to go so we could be alone and talk is there a problem with that good luck
2006-10-17 22:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be good if you know anyone who knows him well and will tell you if he likes you and arranged some sort of "get together" with him, his friends, and your friends. If it's just some random guy you met, then i don't know what to tell you except asking him directly.
2006-10-17 22:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jess3e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES give up on him he is letting you know gentley by asking who else will be there, more like friends not b/f & g/f,
2006-10-17 22:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likey he doesnt consider you ask more than a friend. either that or he does like you but afraid that it will be awkward if you two are alone together. he might not even realize that you like him like that. good luck!
2006-10-17 22:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋