i am an Asian girl just arrived to U.S.A. going to highschool. i am 16 years old. i have long black layared hair till the hips. i am taller than the average and very good in pysical shape. i am really attractive and a bit fair. i have never had a boyfriend and i am a virgin. every body says that im very lovely and that i am a very good preson to hang out with. but i still didn't find romance. many boys seems to like me but they never come and ask me out. i am very good in studies and i am very smart. what do you guys think about me? do you think that i am odd becaus i have never heard of beautifull girls even bieng virgins atleast till they are 14. why do you guys think that guys won't ask me out
2006-10-17 15:21:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-18 11:26:57 · update #1
There is nothing in the world wrong with you being a beautiful 16 year old Asian girl who happens to be a virgin! In fact I think that you are a very special person! Use your own wisdom and keep on getting those great grades! It is your entire life that matters not what anyone else thinks! You have your entire future ahead of you! Don't rush it! If you are a beautiful virgin on the day you wed then someone will be getting a priceless jewel!
2006-10-17 15:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all, you are VERY lucky to be a virgin. You don't want to be left pregant and alone with a kid to raise and your fun days over and gone....this does happen.
Second of all I know how it feels. I'm tall and slender, and a lot of people call me pretty but I never get guys either. The solution is to make the first move. At least I think it is......haven't gotten a chance to try it yet but from what I've seen guys don't usually turn girls down :D I think what the problem is here is that guys are too shy to ask you out, if you're that great they probably figure they're not good enough for you and they don't want to get hurt. So approach them first Just be courageous....from your description you would be a bombshell if you had some confidence. Good hunting!
2006-10-17 15:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I have two teenage daughters that my husband and I adopted from China as babies. They are both pretty, very smart and don't date very much at all. It's been my observation that American boys are somewhat intimidated by Asian girls because they are viewed or perceived as much smarter than their peers, they are exotic in appearance, and just "different" from the girls they have grown up with. There is nothing wrong with you, nothing wrong with them, it just takes time for boys to warm up to someone coming from such a different culture. My daughters are still seen as "different," even though they have grown up in the same town with the same kids since they were babies. Don't be in a rush to lose your virginity, it's a precious state of being to be explored with your husband someday, being a virgin at 16 or however old, does not make you odd, it means you respect yourself and don't throw yourself around. Hang in there sweetheart, there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-10-17 15:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you just haven't really FOUND someone that realllly likes you and you reallllly like them. love can take time!
I think that you being really intelligent, and a virgin are two really good things. dont change those things, because that shows who YOU are, and you cant find the right guy for you unless he knows who you really are. does that make any sense./?
and being a virgin at 16 doesnt mean your behind!! 16 is still kind od young. im 16 too, but even though im not a virgin, i think i could have waited.
2006-10-17 15:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by MyEyeZHypnoTiZe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i am a beautiful girl and i was a virgin till i was 18. don't ever ever feel ashamed for being a virgin. you sound like such a pretty and smart girl that no guy has been good enough for you yet. girls are much more mature than guys so you might want to date an older guy...not over 18 though
2006-10-17 15:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Amae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be proud that you are still a virgin. Guys love a challenge. Slow down and dont be in a rush to have sex, it's not good if your'e not in love. Save urself for someone special and worry about school instead of boys. No boy ur age is looking for love!
2006-10-17 15:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't wait for guys to ask u out, ask them. As for being a virgin, its a good thing. No point losing it unless u find some one u want to make love with.
2006-10-17 18:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by peaceful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably scared --- an intelligent attractive lady with a personality waw ---- in high school thats just too much to cope with
in the real world there are plenty of guys that like that in a lady so dont stress there is plenty of time to find nice guys and lose your virginity
2006-10-17 15:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is telling you you are so different, because you are virgin. Looks like you look for not to be "normal" - give me a break.
Don't worry is a lot of sharks in this world looking for naive fish.
Be careful what you wish for - you are very young - you have plenty of time to make your life.
2006-10-17 15:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not worry too much. you have alot of good qualities and you are only 16. you still have loads of years to wait for the right guy and you should wait. besides with all those nice qualities maybe some are just too shy. you never know for sure.
2006-10-17 15:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋