O.k. So here is my dilemna: Theres this girl I like,and she's all but told me she likes me. She's even subtly hinted that she wants me to ask her out. My only problem is my parents, there really strict,and say I'm not supposed to have a girlfriend. So basically I'm asking for advice on how can I have a good relationship without my parents knowing? (btw, I've already talked to them about it, and they just said wait untill i'm older, I'm 15 though, not sure how long they want me to wait.. anyhoo talking to them about won't help at all.)
2006-10-17 15:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Silent Beeker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eih i think a successful realtionship includes a blessing from your parents..i understand that you like her but do you think you would be happy with her when everytime you go out your afraid that your parents might see you with her..you will not have any peace on mind if you worry about your situation..your 15 and your young i think your parents know what they are talking about and don't rush because you might regret it later...
2006-10-17 15:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the end of the world. Having a relationship behind your parents backs is a drudgery. While it may seem uncool to make a decision based on that alone, they are your parents. Being that their position is stupid, maybe you should maturely talk to them about it. Opinions can change.
2006-10-17 15:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by SatanicYoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an adult it would be completely irresponsible for me to tell you to lye to your parents, and say your going to a friends house and go see her instead, so, I won't tell you that, just do whatever feels right to you and don't worry about what anyone else thinks!!!!!!!!! Your parents, probally just want to make sure you have enough common sense not to make them grandparents as so often so many young irresponsible teens have a tendency of doing to their parents now a days, I do hope your smarter than that!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 15:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be good friends in school and be honest w your parents or they will have reason not to trust you and you may never drive!! IF `THEY CANNOT TRUST YOU ON 2 FEET- THEY CANNOT TRUST U W 4 WHEELS-be patient- you have plenty of time- D
2006-10-17 15:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go 4 her if ur to young then its not like ur planning to get married or something, u'll be older u'll thank ur parents 4 that, rite now u might think their out of their mind u'll see u'll be wrong
2006-10-17 15:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by pimpin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it, they will have to find out eventually and when they do they will realise that you both like eachother and that there's nothing they can do about you seeing girls.., if you've done behind their backs once they'll know you will do it again
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-17 15:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by pcdo_universe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell them you're going out with friends
and tell ur friends that you're "with them" if your parents ask n stuff
it can be accomplished
but requires alot more work
2006-10-17 15:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. trust me ive tried. you can try, and maybe it will be good for a while, but somehow it will come out.
2006-10-17 15:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanniegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋