ok. so there's this guy at school, he always flirts with me and sometimes asks me out. the bad thing is that i know he's just playing, or i'm not really sure. i've known him since the beginning of this school year and i totally like him cause he's cute. sometimes he kind of hugs me and touches my hands and i just feel like kissing him. the problem is that i think i'm starting to fall in love with him and that's not good because he barely attends to school and since he's a senior he's gonna be out this year (i'm a junior) so i think it's a bad idea to fall in love with him because he's just playing but i can't control my emotions, when i see him i feel my heart exploding inside of me. anyway what sould i do? should i stop talking and paying attention to him?
P.S. why do guys make us girls fall in love with them and then completely ignore us?????
2006-10-17 15:26:13 · 6 answers · asked by gabyfonsi_gabybert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
usually, guys that act like that actually like you. im a guy who knows all about flirtin. i got my girlfriend of 5 years by acting just like the guy yu are describing. he likes you but just is too shy to tell you for real. trust me.....
2006-10-17 15:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you talking about high school junior or senior? because if so then i am not really sure you even know what the term FALLIN IN LOVE means........ you could possible think that you are but my husband and i married at the ages of 18 and 19 and thought we were in love too as it only turned out neither one of us did and we ended up separated after a year...... now luckily we got back together after another year because we got to know each other better..... ask yourself this do i know all there is to know about him? what is the first thing that he does in th morning? what are HIS hopes and dreams? where does he want to go to college? could i really wake up and see his face first thing every morning? would you lay down your life for his?
if you can answer yes to all these questions then yes you are probably fallin in love however if not then i suggest you get through high school
girl there is to much that you miss by "being in love" finish school enjoy college and then if you still think that you are in love go for it but for right now talk to him whats then worst he could say? no lets just be friends? HAVE FUN AND ENJOY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-17 15:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by i_luv_my_army_man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it, they want you under their spell and when you are things change. I am speaking as a woman-I am sure that guys feel the same way about women.
If you want to go out with him, then when he asks say yes and call his bluff.
Just b'c he is 1 yr older does not mean that you should not date him. Most likely you will not marry the guy you dated in high school. Have fun and just enjoy yourself.
2006-10-17 15:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are just ugh no one knows but since he holds your hand. and ask you out maybe hes serous and maybe hes not but why don't u kiss him and if he says um then say it was a friendly kiss and joke about it but if he kisses u back that means go for it or since guys are very comclated kiss him at the end of the period and when the bell ring leaves and if hes interested hell turn back and look at u or hell follow
2006-10-17 15:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question ////& girls are more emotional than boys are so it is easer to fall in love ...>> could this just be lust >>> and girl nobody can make you do anything you don't want to do, this is your doing /// it sounds like he wants to be your friend and only a friend >>> wouldn't be the first time friends became lovers //
2006-10-17 15:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you go with the flow and when he really gets hot just dump him
2006-10-17 15:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋