whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart
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that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?
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and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.
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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world
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i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more
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but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??
2006-10-17 15:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, you've 15 years old. You need to just persevere and do what you need to do to get over your feelings. It isn't worth destroying your friendship over something she isn't reciprocating (she doesn't feel the same way, so why waste your time?).
Stay friends with her. Soon enough, I guarantee you'll be attracted to someone else. Being 15 sucks, I remember it well (I'm 19). Just hang tough and you'll make it through.
2006-10-17 15:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by SatanicYoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to know each other well when both of you are more mature. God is the best match maker.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
(Digestion of above can even prevent depression and suicide attempt.)
2006-10-17 22:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Moriahho 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are young. Don't worry; you have been friends for eight years, you will be friends for eight more, and maybe even for the rest of your lives.
Relax! You have lots of time, your whole future ahead of you. Live your life, be her friend. When you are both older she may see you differently. But that won't be for many years, so buck up and live your life and have fun.
2006-10-17 22:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently you knew the answer to your own question based on all the feed back you gave us all
2006-10-17 22:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she she isnt ready to date older guys '-'
2006-10-17 22:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by shadow13579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude....you need to chilll...jack off ..and start looking for another chick...geez there are so many out there....just be her friend..you are young dumb and full of come.......hehehe..enjoy more...sample...sample
2006-10-17 22:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by djjoecruz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋