We're in our late 20's....he thinks I'm uptight and difficult because I don't want to spend the night with him when his parents are staying the weekend....to me this is disrespectful and creepy....he swears his parents won't care.....is it as weird as I think?
2006-10-17 15:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by renee 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. You are not being uptight. He should be more understanding of what you are trying to say...
Tell him he should be grateful he has a girlfriend who is respectful enough of his parents to not sleep with him while they are there.
2006-10-17 15:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by ilovetiti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was THEIR house, and they didn't like it, it would be disrespectful...it's his house and you are both adults, so they need to accept that and realize that under his roof, he's the king...
You are allowed your view, but personally I think you are being uptight...it's not like they don't probably assume or know y'all sleep together...
2006-10-17 22:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in your late 20s you are old enough to make your own decisions and his parents' opinion has no relevance unless THEY have strong uncomfortable feelings about it.. i wouldnt worry at all and just spend one night and see how you feel about it, you may feel in the morning that you're fears and doubts were unfounded and it may bring you closer together..
2006-10-17 22:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by buttons c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can explain to him why you aren't comfortable with that idea. There are other people who wouldn't also do that if their parents were around. No it's not weird. It depends what your preferences and comfort zones are
2006-10-17 22:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by J.D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am only 17 years old and I have sleeped in my girlfriends bed when her parents are home.
2006-10-17 22:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by TOM 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't because it is pretty creepy. However, we are adults and should be able to have a sexual relationship without guilt.
2006-10-17 22:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not? he probably talked it over with his parents. How about getting your own place?
2006-10-17 22:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it you should do what's comfortable for you.
I respect and understand where you're coming from with this.
2006-10-17 22:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sleeping with his parents would suck.
2006-10-17 22:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Timf4515 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if my bf dn scare of that and he asked me for overnight and i wil do tat cos i should trust my bf..
2006-10-18 01:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by Liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋