ok...so im really into this girl...and she's like everything i could ever want in a girl. we have a lot in common and our personalities are really closely alike...and she knows it too...and i know i have a strong chance of getting her...BUT something's in the way - she has a boyfriend...and...i really dont know what to do...some ppl might just say move on, but...at least for right now, that answer's not gonna do it...so my question is...what do i do? do i wait it out and wait for her? do i shoot now and tell her how i feel? what would you do? any advice would really be appreciated...
2006-10-17 15:32:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let me tell you girls hate it when boys bead around the bush and don't tell them how they feel. even shy girls because they may be having the same feelings but won't say nothing until u do first. so tell her how u feel but don't say love say i really like you and if your not feeling the same way i guess we'll be friends for now
2006-10-17 15:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes with another guy that means shes mainly into HIM right now. unless she just leading him on, which is wrong. You should try not to think of her, try to hang out with some other gals. ( you could still hang out with her a bit) but dont get me wrong, dont torture yourself for a month screaming inside your head because you dreadfully miss her. If for say 2. 3, maybe even 4 days the anti-girl i like name doesnt work out, go back to her. But dont make any moves, she has a boyfriend.
well and for confessing your feelings. thats up to you. If you decide to tell her, do it in private. if you dont, then, wait for her.
good luck
2006-10-17 15:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by FUSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew very well she had a boyfriend, that means she' in a love relationship. Well, if you are the persistent guy who can't take no for an answer. Then go and try your luck. Perhaps she might change her mind but that is only if she finds you more attractive than her boyfriend. There is no harm in trying. Just be prepared. good luck. lol
2006-10-17 15:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her ad be honest... tell her what you said on her... if she feels the same way she will end things with her current man but if shes not ready for that then maybe you should move on. Go for it... good luck and let us know what happens...
2006-10-17 15:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me closley when i meet my husband iwas dating someone else and in my heart i knew he is what i wanted. he told me how he felt when i was dating another guy and that day i broke up with my bf because i felt so much fro him. I think you should tell her if you feel it's right do it in the long run it could be the best thing you have ever done.
2006-10-17 15:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by nicole51304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely in simple terms tell them that best now that's your considerable precedence. in simple terms say that we could desire to consistently do something else at my abode because of the fact i think obligated to this guy or woman. tell them our concept of a sleepover, that must be exciting. wish you have a physically powerful time. Oh and is the toddler in simple terms born? possibly you are able to take the toddler interior the stroller and walk around the mall with your buddies....
2016-11-23 16:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, U could wait, that's what I do, but if you realllllllly love her, tell her, but forget if she has a boyfriend that is too protective to her. Or at least ask her to be your friend to be closer to her.
2006-10-17 15:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't shoot her boyfriend as a long jail sentence might be the result of such action
2006-10-17 15:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u nid to tell the girl, of how u feel for her,..
and she really likes u too,, she will breakup with her bf,..
but if they are still together nothing has been change it means that he totally love his gf and thats the time for u to move on. ok
2006-10-17 15:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to just move on, tell her how you feel. After she knows how you feel for her, if she stays with her boyfriend, then it's time to move on.
2006-10-17 15:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋