Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

2006-10-14 08:16:11 · 9 answers · asked by sunny g 3 in Friends

I am currently in a long distance relationship. In all of my past relationships I have had major major trust issues. My current boyfriend has not given me any real reason for not trusting him. I went to visit him last week and found condoms in his car and bathroom. He lives with his cousin and also shares his car with his cousin. I flipped out on him and he told me "You just have to trust me. I'm not a liar and I'm not a player. I'm not cheating on you. They belong to my cousin". Everything he tells me I doubt. My friends and therapist tell me that I am over-reacting...I don't know if this is my own messed up mind causing these problems or if it is my gut telling me something. He also used to talk about me moving to where he lives (not living with him but finding my own roommate) but has not brought up the subject lately. Should I be alarmed or just call myself crazy? Someone please give your opinion. Only serious answers please!

2006-10-14 08:15:41 · 6 answers · asked by italiana2683 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there a female on here who likes to blow huge bubble gum bubbles? I think it's cute. Do you have any pics or video? I'm a guy, i'm not crazy, I just think its cute, and I'm not a kid.

2006-10-14 08:15:31 · 2 answers · asked by sbubbles24 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 08:15:10 · 9 answers · asked by amber e 1 in Singles & Dating

I took my wife to Mexico last year and that's about as south as I want to go. What? My girlfriend want's me to take to Argentina?
WTF. I ain't made of money.

2006-10-14 08:14:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 08:14:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I have a crush on this one kid in my school. We know each other, and I say hi to him in the hall. I'm pretty sure that he doesn't like me, but I want to tell him that I like him.

Do you think it's a good idea to tell him? Should I just wait?

If I do tell him, what should I say?

2006-10-14 08:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by ohnoes82 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently started dating this amazing guy. Its gettting pretty serious but I think for our own comfort we're taking things really slow. This morning I was playing w/him and as we were all eating breakfast 2gether and he called me mommy twice. Both of us were a little shocked and wejust made sure to repeat my 1st name to him repeatedly. I just want a little advice on the situation...

2006-10-14 08:13:54 · 18 answers · asked by Kyppa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently started dating this amazing guy. Its gettting pretty serious but I think for our own comfort we're taking things really slow. This morning I was playing w/him and as we were all eating breakfast 2gether and he called me mommy twice. Both of us were a little shocked and wejust made sure to repeat my 1st name to him repeatedly. I just want a little advice on the situation...

2006-10-14 08:12:58 · 24 answers · asked by Kyppa 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-14 08:11:54 · 18 answers · asked by The Heart Doctor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do with him? He always says the wrong things and is a constant embarrassment at functions. I can't divorce him... not the done thing, any suggestions to keep him quiet outside of the home?

2006-10-14 08:11:45 · 40 answers · asked by Hobnobs 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15. If you are interested in getting to know me better then send me an e-mail at cyberhacker665@yahoo with the subject new friend or send an instant message at cyberhacker665 via yahoo messenger.

2006-10-14 08:10:16 · 5 answers · asked by cyberhacker665 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl I used to be close to has started texting me again, I met up with her the other week and we have a laugh, unfortunately she has a boyfriend but she texts me and tell me that she still likes me and she misses me and when I talk about other girls she admits to being jealous. But I text her last night (we were both drunk) and Isaid to her if she was single would she consider going back out with me, to which she replied 'I wouldn't rule it out. This morning she text me saying 'Why do we always have these conversations when we are drunk, it's got to stop because nothing is gonna happen.' I get really confused! What is she playing at?

2006-10-14 08:10:02 · 21 answers · asked by hammersfan_23 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there a female on here who likes to blow huge bubble gum bubbles? I think it's cute. Do you have any pics or video? I'm a guy, i'm not crazy, I just think its cute, and I'm not a kid.

2006-10-14 08:09:26 · 5 answers · asked by sbubbles24 1 in Singles & Dating

i have friends who dont like my best friend. my best friend keeps asking me the same question: Would you rather hang out with them or me? if i say them, i'll lose my best friend. if i say her, she wont let me see my friends again (shes like that). shes not going to take both for an answer. ive tried dodging the question, but she just keeps asking. what should i do?

2006-10-14 08:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5 in Friends

My husband called at 10:32 pm last night and he said that he was working on his truck (just bought the truck wensday) and he said he would be coming home soon. It is 2:00pm and I stil have not heard from him. I do not want to go out and look for him (why drag the kids out hunting their dad down like a dog) I do not think he is having an affair, but I could be fooling myself, because for the last year he has been sleeping on the couch. I think the sprarks in our marriage have fizzled out a long time ago. what should i do????

2006-10-14 08:08:58 · 12 answers · asked by JANET 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she is always calm to look but she will be doing all works.i am just looking at her.not she

2006-10-14 08:08:57 · 4 answers · asked by black 1 in Singles & Dating

he dose everything to agervate me.

and i like him because of it.

2006-10-14 08:08:49 · 14 answers · asked by tiffieas 1 in Friends

Please post your favorite lines.

2006-10-14 08:08:39 · 15 answers · asked by europe 2 in Singles & Dating

When my boyfriend and I first started dating he'd buy me really nice things all the time. For our first Christmas toghether he bought me a CD player and a VCR for the family. I got a dimond necklace for our 1st Valentine, he's bought me a leather jacket for riding his motorcycle with him and a Jeep our 2nd Christmas, a Harley just because, a dirt bike last Christmas, and alot more. As you can see he has basically spoiled me these last few years. I keep telling him I'd love him with or without the gifts. The spoiling has stopped now. I feel he has was so good to me to get him to love him and want him, now he has me and is seeing if the love stops when the gifts stop. I love him no matter what gifts or not so I don't care if he gets me things. My question is "Does it sound like he trapped me then stopped to see if I'd stay with only his love holding me or is it possibly something else?"

2006-10-14 08:08:35 · 8 answers · asked by robbie347 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I were arguing over the phone earlier and i didnt even do anything wrong it was all coming from him. At the end he said he didnt love me, didnt fancy me and didnt wana be with me! :(

2006-10-14 08:07:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 08:07:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 08:06:09 · 6 answers · asked by rh3706 2 in Singles & Dating

I really dont understand, lol. I can say I enjoy sex very much its not like the man doesnt get any.... Let me tell a little more here, I have a son who is 13, he was viewing porn the harder stuff on my comp, and I didnt want my son to see this mess. He stopped viewing the porn online but now its lingerie. It has seemed from the start of our relationship he watches younger girls and still does. Like I said I know men read magazines, but to do this in public to me. To me there seems to be a problem. I think Ive found a real looser, who only thinks of his needs, wants, he never puts me first in his life. To all the nice guys who replyed thank you so much.... Oh and I wonder what he would do if he had to work out of town and I wasnt with him... oh well time to move on..... thanks....

2006-10-14 08:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by FreeBird 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi i am 18 years old my husband is 21 and we got married 2 months ago in Vegas a spur of the moment thing that orginally started as a joke.That same night we also managed to concieve a child i got an ultra sound and a pelvic to confirm after an EPT. We have only known each other 3 months really and that night we got into a fight at his dorm about the baby he informed me that he wanted to stay married and that we would be moving in with his parents as soon as possible!His very italian parents hate me!because i am not italian i have never done anything too them!I stormed out and walked for about an hour to get to a friends house crying. My friend steve is gay!so i saw no harm in sleeping over at his place in same bed its a one bedroom place the coach doubles as a bed. Two hours later at 1:00 a.m my husband was banging on the door my friend steve went to get the door and my husband saw me in the bed and hit him in the face broke his jaw!

2006-10-14 08:04:12 · 17 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I hate having sex with my husband, is this a reasonable reason to split with him? Otherwise I love him, he's a good person and loves me very much. But our sex life is awful. It has gone from the sex being okay, to me not feeling anything for him during to sex, to the point where I actually feel like I am being violated when we have sex. I know he wants more than I give him, and I know I am not happy with this area of our life. I dont think I can change the way I feel about, and I will not do the things he wants me to - oral sex, anal,because the idea disgusts me. (not in general, but with him.) When we try to talk about it, he ends up blaming everything on me, and then I want him even less. What should I do?

2006-10-14 08:03:47 · 24 answers · asked by psa73 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted this guys #, and so i got it but my rents won't let me call him and he thinks that i'm not interested because i never called, but i REALLY want to go out with him. What should i say or do?

2006-10-14 08:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 4 year old daughter. Should I expect my boyfriend to stay home with me on the weekends my daughter is home with me (she's with her dad every second weekend) instead of going out without me? We go out every weekend I don't have the child, isn't that enough? Even if I didn't have that responsibility I don't think it's necessary to go out EVERY weekend.

2006-10-14 08:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by jenn 2 in Singles & Dating

They are both ok with it, they aren't gay or bi, they both agree that I can have the other one and everything works out... I really like this, But is it wrong?

2006-10-14 08:01:49 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

how does one get over a breakup with someone one is desperately inlove with? my situ is that i was forced to breakup with my bf by my parents. i love him with all my heart & it's jus not fair that their tryin to keep us apart! i dedicate my life to our relation. more than how i do to god. he's my whole world, my joy, my sadness.. my everything! he called me and i hung up cuz i was in their presence and he left me a vmessage literally crying about wat is happenin. how can one be so blind and so mean to try and let us give up wat we have??!!! how do i get over him? ps. he's the only one i've let inside my heart

2006-10-14 08:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by justinvsciara 2 in Friends