My bf and I were arguing over the phone earlier and i didnt even do anything wrong it was all coming from him. At the end he said he didnt love me, didnt fancy me and didnt wana be with me! :(
2006-10-14 08:07:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know hes been v stressed lately but thats still no excuse
2006-10-14 08:17:09 · update #1
And he also got an expensive graduation present from me this morning!
2006-10-14 08:23:54 · update #2
He was most likely speaking out of anger. We will hope that none of it was truly meant. Give him a little time and he will probably call you back, apologize, and things will be okay. You don't want to call him back though, that would most likely anger him more. Let it go for a bit and see what happens. He will realize that he blew it and come back.
2006-10-14 08:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by raven_moon_macleod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard letting go of what may have become a comfort zone. It takes a lot of courage. But as with all fears, its important to take the first step. It may mean going thro a period of doubt and uncertaintity but, as with fears, once faced its no longer a fear. Be brave, believe in yourself and that you deserve to be with someone that wants to be with you and is sincere. He is out there and waiting. And ignore those comments from sad, lonely men who only want one thing. Your'e better than that.
2006-10-15 02:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worth a lot more than that but than again everyone can say things that they do not mean when they are angry.
You are the really only one that knows what your rel is like.
Trust your judgement but i personally think that you are worth so much more and you should be with someone that respects you and treats you with dignity and respect to which you deserve
good luck girl and cheer up
2006-10-14 08:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no! You poor thing.
Maybe he's just in a bad mood today. Talk to him tomorrow and try to sort things out. In the meantime, eat plenty of chocolate, and steer clear of weepy movies!
2006-10-14 08:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so lucky, you might have married the twerp!! He didn't even have the guts to talk to you in person.
Get rid and move on there are lots of great guys in the world who would really like someone caring like you. It may hurt but don't even consider ever taking the rat back.
Hugs from me xxxx
2006-10-14 10:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know you are wanted by many, and maybe a guy out there who's better than your bf is waiting for you, a guy if you know you'll definitely like him more...it's just not the time for you two to hook up so if that's what ur bf told you then get over him, you definitely deserve better, and (incase you dont know it)he doesn't deserve you
2006-10-14 08:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by unis_1990 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I reckon that you are better off with out him. have you got any good friends that you can meet up with. I suggest you arrange a girls night out and go to the places that cheer you up. Cinema, pub or meal out.
2006-10-14 08:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry he probably just said those things in the heat of the moment. If hes like it all the time though just get rid of him. U deserve better :)
2006-10-14 08:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by looby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't deserve it, he was being a cad. I am sorry that you are hurting. I hope that you find someone who can be more sensitive to your needs. I hope you find true happiness and that you have a gentleman who treats you kindly. You deserve that much.
2006-10-14 08:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by The Y!ABut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be okay sweetie it only seems like the end of the world . I have the feeling he will be the looser in this deal !
2006-10-14 08:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋