I have a 4 year old daughter. Should I expect my boyfriend to stay home with me on the weekends my daughter is home with me (she's with her dad every second weekend) instead of going out without me? We go out every weekend I don't have the child, isn't that enough? Even if I didn't have that responsibility I don't think it's necessary to go out EVERY weekend.
2006-10-14 08:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by jenn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think it is necessary to go out every weekend. im a little biased on this subject. i dont really think single parents should be bringing their dates home when their kids are around. it is fine when your daughter is at her dad's but unless you are planning on marrying this guy in the near future then i really dont think he should have anything to do with her. on the weekends you have her you should plan plenty of fun things for just the two of you. sorry buts thats my opinion.
2006-10-14 08:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very true you have to think about the future and going out every weekend is not easy ,you can have just as much fun planning things around the house with you and your daughter.
2006-10-14 15:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by macki4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If going out every weekend is not working out for you talk to him about it and don't hide your true feelings. Secondly since you have a boyfriend and some one new in your life. Have you two talk about how this may or may not affect the relationship ?
Since a lot of people can't deal with children from a previous relationship in the picture ?
2006-10-14 15:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a woman in your situation I think alternating staying in and going out every other weekend should balance out perfectly. Neither one of you should have to spend any weekends alone, unless you want to. Plus, he should always support you on the fact your daughter takes priority no matter what.
2006-10-14 15:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you have to go out every weekend. I think he should want to get to know your daughter better, instead of trying to get rid of her.
2006-10-14 15:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mom, your child comes first. You have to decide what is best for your daughter.
2006-10-14 15:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't all three of you go somewhere together? If you are looking at this guy as marriage material, you better check out his 'daddy' qualities.
2006-10-14 15:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dntcrosthline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ready to bring him home for the week end go for it, he is probably tired of going out every week end tool
2006-10-14 15:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you, he will understand how it is taking care of a child and be with you when ever you are able.
2006-10-14 15:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is neccesary to go out or see him every night
2006-10-14 15:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋