They are both ok with it, they aren't gay or bi, they both agree that I can have the other one and everything works out... I really like this, But is it wrong?
2006-10-14 08:01:49 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the deal is one of them I know loves me unconditionally no matter what.. and the other one really likes me but i haven't slept with either of them... and I really dont plan on getting married. and I would really just like to have these two, no more no less because I know I love them BOTH.. equally.. There may be some problems with morals and what not.. but if a girl has a boyfriend and a girlfriend who the guy has nothing to do with is that, OK? the on who loves me unconditionally has been with me for so long, and only wants me to be happy, I am serious when I say I have put this boy through alot...
2006-10-14 08:18:41 · update #1
People have different morals and beliefs. If it's OK with you, and your men, then why not. But if your asking this question then maybe you're not sure yourself.
2006-10-14 08:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask? If you are okay with two guys who don't give a crap about you, then it must be right for you. On the evidence, neither one of them wants to get stuck with you full time so they have developed a time share plan and you are actually buying it. How unique. Two boyfriends and they are okay with it - gosh, I wonder why. You need to confront the "why" here both on your behalf and on behalf of these two gay/bi dudes. Please, have some self respect.
2006-10-14 08:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal oppinion... yes. I definitely think that is wrong. Personally, I would feel very awkward dating two girls. And if my girlfriend told me she was also dating someone else, that would be the end of it for us. But ultimately it's your call, as long as both of the gys know and don't care. Just expect for one of them to make you choose one day... and the longer you keep this up, the harder that choice will be.
2006-10-14 08:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by feral_black_gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest yeah, It makes you look bad. Even though you like it and everything is peachy with both of them knowing about everything. It doesn't make you look good as a woman. Your disrespecting yourself and your body and your giving yourself a bad name. I don't wan tto hurt yoru feeling or have you get mad at me or anything but you should think about how your going to end up and what others think as well.
2006-10-14 08:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if you are not sleeping with both of them. If you are, a lot of men see hookers and they know they are not the only one. Make sure you aren't being used as a sperm dump by both of them.
2006-10-14 08:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It's still like cheating on him even though there ok with it, they may just tell u that because they don't want 2 hurt ur feelings!
2006-10-14 08:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not right because i bet one boy doesnt like the decision you made but just didnt want to tell you. also i bet you wouldnt like if your boyfriend had you and another girl as his girlfriend. but what i am trying to say is let one of them go cause they want u to just let them be the only man for u.
2006-10-14 08:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Juicybre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong if everyone agrees it's okay. Meaning you and your two boyfriends. As long as you see them equally so they won't feel jealous of the other
2006-10-14 08:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by Fia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having two boyfriends is wrong!!!,even though the wrong thing seems right, But in today's age, there is allot of wrong things seem right,(Good Luck)
2006-10-14 08:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by Carl W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you liked a guy and he wanted you to share him with another girl? How would your heart feel then? Sounds like you're just out for a good time...
2006-10-14 08:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by JP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋