Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

I am a 25 years old boy. Would any girl or woman like to talk to me? I have no friend in my friends list on yahoo messenger. I want some girl or woman as a frined with whom I can talk and discuss about anyting that goes in the world. Would any open-minded and friendly girl/woman like me?

About me? I am simple, dreamy, inexperienced, sleeping late and always getting late for my work but dedicated to it. That's all about me.

Looks? Hmmm.. I don't think I am handsome because so far no girl has ever said "hi" to me or showed any interest in me. :(

2006-10-14 12:55:10 · 7 answers · asked by wullubemyfriend 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a guy when i was younger, and he was my first love. However, we were still quite young and immature and it didn't work out. I've been out with guys since but i've never felt that way about anyone else. I left my last boyfriend after 5 months because i was unhappy in the relationship, but we are slowly becoming friends again even though he apparently still loves me. Now, my first love has always been one of my best friends but recently we have developed deeper feelings again. I know i love him and always will, and he loves me too. However, we aren't going out although we go out places and kiss sometimes. Me,him,my best friend and her bf all went out and he found it kind of awkward,as they were together and it made me think how much easier it would be if it was me and my recent ex with them again?!I have no idea why i had been thinking this about him?!I don't know what is stopping me dating my first love again, but i can feel a barrier?:S

2006-10-14 12:54:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started dating this guy yesterday. I guess because he has had experience in dating and sex, so he is really aggressive. Like on the first kiss, he already used his tongue. He also would grab my boobs. I don't mind, per se, but this is my first time in both dating and kissing, and I would just like to take it slow. I mean, I don't know if this guy really does like me and he is just aggressive like that, or he is just taking advantage of me.

What is your take on this?

2006-10-14 12:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by Simple Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i've had a boyfriend for the past three years and i recently started form six. a footballer in my new school ask if i wanted a school boyfriend. i told him i had a boyfriend and if he didn't care. he said he did but he has patience so i agreed. we have been together for about a month and i told him that i think that i'm pregnant for my other boyfriend. he's really concerned and really supportive. he sked if i want him to buy a test for me and he says he doesn't mind being step father. my other boyfriend says he knows that i have another boyfriend but he also knows that i love him with all my heart and we can't do without each other. i was told by a little birdie that he is going to propose to me on our anniversary - november28th and now i'm confused cause i don't know if what i'm doing is wrong or right since i'm not married to either of them yet but i like them alot. one more than the other though...

2006-10-14 12:51:57 · 13 answers · asked by stargirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a Junior in High School and my boyfriend of one year is a Freshman in College. We have a great relationship. We both can honestly see ourselves getting married. He's going to school to be a High School teacher and will probably be a Basketball coach after he gets his teaching job. Well I've just been thinking how do we make his career work with my dreams? I don't have a set career path yet, but I know my interests and I don't see most of them as "settle down" jobs. I plan to go into environmental career. I'm just not sure what jobs are right for me that will work with his life plan. Any Ideas, thoughts.. Anything really.. =)

2006-10-14 12:51:43 · 4 answers · asked by stormey4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with a guy for 6yrs but he has 2 kids and i cant handle it anymore i never had another guy and i am sure he is sleeping with his childmother i can bear the fact of not having him around after so long

2006-10-14 12:51:38 · 6 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

personality or looks?

2006-10-14 12:51:32 · 3 answers · asked by d_b_92 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 12:50:15 · 19 answers · asked by d_b_92 1 in Family

I still care about him would it be ok to write him a letter and be there through this rough patch or should I let the sleeping dog lie?

2006-10-14 12:50:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 12:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by mizz_undastood2 2 in Singles & Dating

I work in a small office - only about 12 people. I am in a management position and he works in a different department. My company does not have a policy against it. We don't have to interact at work on a regular basis. Several of my friends in the office think he is really into me and wants to ask me out. However, he is quite a bit younger than me (9 years younger) and we have completely different lives - I have a young child. I don't get out often and so I don't meet guys that I find interesting and fun. Would it really be a terrible idea?

2006-10-14 12:49:51 · 18 answers · asked by working mother 2 in Singles & Dating

Not a sexual question. What is a good date with you. What are the kind of dates you come home talking about?

2006-10-14 12:49:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking maybe a swing dancing party. But I don't know if that would be fun or not. I mean all my friends love swing dancing and so do I, but is it to much for my 14th. I'm not to found of birthday's and everyone thinks i should have one this year so I'm thinking about it. Please Help!

2006-10-14 12:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by crazy little thing called love 3 in Friends

i know i like my guy friend and i think he might like me. last year we always flirted and his friend told me he liked me. i didnt like my guy friend last year so i didnt do anything about it. now this year i like him and i think he might like me. one day we were walking with eachother and my friend and his friend were behind us and me and my guy friend just ditched them! and when i got home my friend was like do u like him! and i was like no y! and she said cus he looks in my eyes funny she said like "cute" and we just ditched them do u think he likes me???

2006-10-14 12:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by brandamaria 1 in Singles & Dating

my girl friend.......we were out with her boyfriend and me....and at the end of the date the bill came to about £60...and he offered to pay the bill...and then I offered him half the bill (£30)...and he didnt want it...and then she said : I'll have it !!!!.......and then she bagged the £30....I dont care about £30.....but why did she do that...? I thought it was a bit funny , what do you think?

2006-10-14 12:47:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Am i thin enough to wear miniskirts?

2006-10-14 12:47:20 · 24 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 12:46:38 · 10 answers · asked by opope55 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months and we have nerve been sexually active, but we both want to i think i wanna wait but sometimes i want to and its kinda like peer pressure except im willing sometimes but can't do it..the reason why is that a while back alot of people had been sayin he had AIDS and stuff like that but when i asked my cousin she said she never heard it, what if he actually does have AIDS i don't wanna break up with him because i love him and im only 15 he is 17 and im scared of the concequinces...NEED ADVICE

2006-10-14 12:44:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i was with my boy firend .and i was talking about a movie. and then my x said some thing. then he got mad im like i don't want to see a movie now. i kida wanted to ask my boy firend to the movies. and my x runed it . i hate my x . my x is in my class and he was reading. when he said it my boy firend ws reading too . ugg i don't get why hes so mean to me .

2006-10-14 12:44:47 · 5 answers · asked by melissa d 1 in Singles & Dating

well this is gonna be a wall of text (but its not actually as long as it looks) so thanks to anyone who actually reads and answers.
Im gonna start from the beginning. I found out she used to fancy me about 1 or 2 years ago. At the time i didnt really know her and i didnt realise this, and this is pretty much how we became friends. she invited me to the cinema with her and some friends and such, and as i got to know her, i sarted to like her too. well i didnt act on it or anything, because i was a wuss (trying to change that now =D) but anyway, things went on normally with me liking her and we would talk on msn for ages and stuff. well then I dunno what happened, I think she may have gone off me or given up, but i still persisted (when I like a girl, it's for ages, like over a year usually which really sucks >_<) and then after a while I got the impression that she liked me again. she would trick me and say that she was going out with a certain guy or kissed someone, just to see my reaction (I think) but she would tell me shortly after i replied that she was joking (she did this about 3 times). another thing she did was send me this link. I had to ask this 'thing' questions, and it answered them. the catch was, she could see what i was asking and could reply to them herself. i knew this (lol) and used it to my advantage asking 'it' questions about whether she liked me and vice versa. i asked it a lot of these questions, and the answer was yes everytime. a few weeks after this i aksed her about it and she said she couldnt remember much, but felt guilty and closed the window, thus she didnt answer (meaning that the thing would submit a random answer) but i though that this had to be too much of a coincidence to answer 'yes' like 20 times in a row. \\\\ we also used to fill out quizes for each other and in one she said that she used to fancy me and i also found out from one of the questions that she would kiss me, and she would go out with me, but i was too shy. she also used to do other things that i cant quite recall, but just small things like ring me up or say she liked particular bands I did (even though i realy dont think she does) anyway, this went on for a while and then, as before, cooled down as if she wasnt interested anymore. i thought she was interesed in some other guy, but somehow, it slipped out on msn that i like her. I dont think she knew what to say. I think she knew already and was just flattered and all. we stayed good friends still. well it carried on normal for a while, and again, another twist. a good friend of mine (who is very trustworthy) tells me that he asked her who she liked and she said me, and the other guy i mentioned very briefly a second ago. i didnt know what to think. i was too confused by it all. at one point i saw a message on my friends phone (sent by the other guy she may have liked at the time) a message that was asking her about me and if she liked me (he knows i saw it btw so i wasnt looking through the phone or anything lol) The final thing that happened (very recently) is that we were out at some club and she was a bit drunk/tipsy (but she tells me she wasnt) and out of nowhere she comes and kisses me on the lips, only for a second or so, and says bye, and then again when she leaves to go home. well, thats pretty much it up until the current date. all of a sudden, out of the blue shes going out with someone. i dont know much about it, and i dont really want to know either to be honest. my question is (and I thank anyone greatly who has read all this so far) what the hell do I do? I know i cant ask her out as she has a boyfriend and I cant exactly get over her just like that, cos as said earlier, i generally like girls for a long time... i think I would have enough courage to ask her out now, if she didnt have a boyfrined that is. the thing is, im still great friends with her, and its really hard to watch all this going on. she pretty much knows I still have feelings for her. i dont know what to do though..?

2006-10-14 12:44:08 · 4 answers · asked by NameEditedOut 1 in Singles & Dating

what if you've lived your whole life alone and you know for a fact that not even one person will ever love you? how is it possible to be happy and accept that? i'm very confused and dont know what to do? i feel so hopeless and sad and its making me lazy as hell too. i have no motivation to do anything anymore but just sit at home....tell me what i'm suppose to do.

2006-10-14 12:42:27 · 26 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 12:41:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 12:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by mattyboi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 12:40:38 · 8 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

got no numbers from a guy or even chatted to one , whats wrong with me when im not a minger either ????

2006-10-14 12:39:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you were offered $500 what would you do for it?

2006-10-14 12:39:46 · 15 answers · asked by elltea 4 in Friends

There is this boy at school that was... a new kid and he kept on starring at me in class!(3 weeks later) So at lunch one day (I guess he didn't have the courage 2 tell me himself) his friend tapped me on the shoulder and told me that, that boy liked me and he wanted to go out with me. I just told him I'll think about it and now I don't know what 2 do!? He is okay looking ,but not really,and has a big staring problem.(he likes hip hop,but I hate it. And he won't leave me alone) What should I do? Tell him NO or just forget about it?

2006-10-14 12:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by afi.girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 12:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by bhatta 1 in Singles & Dating

I always get a raging woody when I talk to good looking girls. We could be talking about slaughtering pigs, and I would still be standing there pitching a tent. Am I normal?

2006-10-14 12:39:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is Asian and her parents do not want her to date outside of her race. She is very pretty, nice, and likes me too. What can I do?

2006-10-14 12:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by Tony D 1 in Singles & Dating