ok i've had a boyfriend for the past three years and i recently started form six. a footballer in my new school ask if i wanted a school boyfriend. i told him i had a boyfriend and if he didn't care. he said he did but he has patience so i agreed. we have been together for about a month and i told him that i think that i'm pregnant for my other boyfriend. he's really concerned and really supportive. he sked if i want him to buy a test for me and he says he doesn't mind being step father. my other boyfriend says he knows that i have another boyfriend but he also knows that i love him with all my heart and we can't do without each other. i was told by a little birdie that he is going to propose to me on our anniversary - november28th and now i'm confused cause i don't know if what i'm doing is wrong or right since i'm not married to either of them yet but i like them alot. one more than the other though...
2006-10-14 12:51:57 · 13 answers · asked by stargirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel comfortable with them, go ahead.!!!
2006-10-14 12:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth I really dont think that cheating is ever a good idea. I think that if you are with someone and you really want to be with someone else you should just tell the person your with that you met someone else and you dont want to see them anymore. you cant share your love, loving two people isnt possible because when you really love someone you are giving your heart to them, if you are giving it to someone else to then you arent really loving the person you are with... you need to find out if you are pregnant or not then i think you need to decide if a relationship with the father would work or not. you cant have them both. thats wrong, especially if there is a child involved.
2006-10-14 20:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by NIKITA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one, if there is a possible child involved this is a
very serious problem. You need to find this out first. If its a false
alarm this time you need to protect yourself so that you can be
free to make the decision of who you want to be your boyfriend.
It's not very fair to get pregnant by a guy that you are kinda cheating on. You need to start making better judgements. good
luck to you.
2006-10-14 19:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by REALISTIC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if they will agree to let all three of you live together. That way the baby can have 3 fathers/
2006-10-14 19:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL@ "but he also knows that I love him with all my heart"
if that was true you wouldn't need the other dude.
I dont know what to tell you.
I feel sorry for your could-be-child.
But yeah, what you're doing is wrong. and immoral.
It doesn't MATTER if you're married or not. You can still be an adultress tramp.
2006-10-14 20:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by xbrex43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that guy dont care about thing he just want something from u ! i think maybe u really pretty and everyone thing u super and maybe he just went out with u by that !and if u pregnant u have 2 sure who father gonna be ! and that guy dont even know u ! i recond u know ur boyfriend better then that guy soo live him and get ur own life i think that guy taking u apart!!!
2006-10-14 19:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what your doing IS wrong...you should be messen with 2 guys at once! some one is going to get hurt including you!
2006-10-14 19:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can getting engaged improve the situation?
married?
If I was either one of the guys, I'd be for you getting what you want.
(Unless you wanted to marry me! and I would not be for that "LEGAL ARRANGEMENT")
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but I'm different than most guys, I suppose.
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so, what is wrong with prince47, and RedPanda's answer.
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2006-10-14 19:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If neither of them is worried about you being with the other, and you're not feeling guilty about it, keep them both!
2006-10-14 19:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up !!!!!!!!!!! it's not right having two men i dont care if one knows are not people do have feelings and you are stepping all over them
2006-10-14 19:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋