She is Asian and her parents do not want her to date outside of her race. She is very pretty, nice, and likes me too. What can I do?
2006-10-14 12:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by Tony D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...i have been in your situation. Your asian gal needs to be a part(ner) to introducing you to her parents and family (aunts and uncles). If she does not help you, you will never have a relationship with her parents or family if that is what you both want.
...many asian cultures do not like outsiders (even other asians) but especially if you are non-asian. You must respect her parents above all! Understanding, learning the particular culture goes without saying and watching your p's & q's, ask her to guide you.
...getting "in" is the first, step. Is there a family member (aunt or uncle) who likes you? A friend to mother and father they respect (preferabbly of the same ethnicity) that can talk to one or both and introduce you? If you are able to get in, you need to just be patient and her parents will let you know later if they agree to your situation and warm up to you.
2006-10-14 13:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by T.T. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does she like u? Don't know much about Asian traditions but i do know they are Honorable people, go to her parents, but before u do, ask people who has/had the same problem especially areas they failed and succeeded. If u go in blind u are a dead man. Good luck with your new Asian gal.
2006-10-14 19:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be as polite, courteous, intelligent, respectful, and as hard-working as possible. Maybe they will think you are "Asian on the inside; American on the outside".
2006-10-14 19:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you well enough, she should talk to her parents and tell them it's what SHE really wants. It seems to me if they can live in America, they need to toss out some of their foreign customs, rituals and beliefs and be willing to mate up with an American they like. Otherwise, I'd say they'd be better off in their home country. Just my opinion....
2006-10-14 20:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don 't make her brake the rules, if she likes breaking rules then she'll break them on her own. If you meet her parents try to be as respectful as possible. If you really like this girl getting on her parent's good side will be worth it.
2006-10-14 19:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Pinky Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be respectful to her parents,and their culture im asian to but you got to be funny,info dont kill a joke!! be respectful to her in front of her parents and buy her something special.
2006-10-14 19:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by beariers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound like you really like her..so go for it! Okay..date at school,but don't let her parents know. If she feels the same way torwards you then you make a great couple!
2006-10-14 19:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by afi.girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one: kill her parents
Step two: go out with her
Step three: marriage
2006-10-14 19:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by Thunor232 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋