I started dating this guy yesterday. I guess because he has had experience in dating and sex, so he is really aggressive. Like on the first kiss, he already used his tongue. He also would grab my boobs. I don't mind, per se, but this is my first time in both dating and kissing, and I would just like to take it slow. I mean, I don't know if this guy really does like me and he is just aggressive like that, or he is just taking advantage of me.
What is your take on this?
2006-10-14 12:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by Simple Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you physically. It is only taking advantage of you if you don't want to do it. So make up your mind, do you want a phsical relationship with him or not?
2006-10-14 12:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is rude and probably testing you to see how you will react if you tell him you want to take it slow he will probably not call you or date you any more. Don't be so fast know first if A guy really likes you and then kiss him he is experienced and you don't know where his tongue has been save you stuff for someone special who respects you and waits for you to be ready once you lose it you never get it back think baby girl don't move so fast.
2006-10-14 13:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get serious! Anyone that touches your breast on the first encounter has no respect for you at all and is only wanting to have sex without commitment. You are young and will eventually meet the right person to share sex with but for now it sounds as if you ought to leave it alone. This "more experienced" guy is a predator, out to score as many virgins or women as he can. Don't let yourself be another notch on his belt!
Unless it is really something that you want for yourself you should never committ to having sex. I suggest you wait. Save it for a more meaningful experience with someone who you really care for. Patience, young lady!
2006-10-14 13:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying if you don't stand for something you will fall for anything. You already knew the answer before you asked. Yes he is taking advantage of you and he will go as far as you allow him, and when he accomplish his mission with you he will move on to the next girl. A man is looking for someone who respects them self. If you allow him to use you he will never see you as a woman he desires to marry. Be a woman take control of your body. Sex has no meaning behind it if there is no genuine love.
2006-10-14 13:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by tajwf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have some respect for yourself. if this is all new to you, take it slow. Don't let guys just grope you. I think you need to find someone who is older and more experienced for you to talk to. Having a guy touch you all over on the first date is not good. And remember that even guys talk! You don't want to get the reputation of a slut. Good Luck. Be friends before lovers!!!!
Don't listen to WTHING5!!!!!!
2006-10-14 13:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by orsonfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is just taking advantage of you. He should have more respect for you than to be so agressive on the first date.
2006-10-14 13:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by ladymich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same situation now...except im not really dating him...this guy is aggressive as well...and now i want to take it slow...i noticed i already gave out the wrong message to him....
soooo
what i would do is test him...next time, when you hang out with him...tell him you just want to really hang out...get to know each other...if he's unwilling...or begin to stop contacting you after a week or more... than he's only looking for one thing...
2006-10-14 13:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by OnAJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl he is totally takin advantage of u! i mean u just started dating him and he did everything except sleep with u! r u gonna let him do that too? if he were really wanting to b with u, he should respect u, seems like ur a booty call, those type of advanced guys always take
advantage of girls that r new to this, trust me, it happened to me too. i hope this helps, or if u wanna b with him at least tell him to take it slow and if he doesnt want to, SCREW HIM!
2006-10-14 13:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in the whole agressive aspect he might like and he might not but if your not feeling comfortable with what he's doing just ask him to slow down, and the whole using tongue thing isnt really a shocker now a days but hey go with you instinct cuase its better advise then what anyone could ever tell you
2006-10-14 12:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by dazed.and.confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just being aggressive. Simply ask him if you two could take it a little slower. If he doesn't agree, dump him!
2006-10-14 13:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋