2006-10-14 12:46:38 · 10 answers · asked by opope55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you could trust girls again, just not her.
2006-10-14 13:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex decided to see some other woman behind my back, she lives on the same road as my dad a few doors up, I even thought of her as a friend at one time. A few months later I met my now fiance. At first I couldn't trust him, I love him dearly but it has taken over 2 years to fully trust him. I now find it hard letting poeple get close but I couldn't resign myself to being a sad person with no one in my life.
If someone has done this to you then you need to learn from it. Take each day as it comes. Instead of thinking about negative things about yourself try to think of positive ones. Get a piece of paper and write down three good things about yourself everyday and keep it on you. When you feel sad just look at it.
Or if you see an attractive woman in the street then smile at her and see how many smiles you get back, I do not suggest doing this if she looks in a hurry or else you will ignored and that wouldn't be the effect you want!
I know you asked about trusting girls but as I have been the situation with a man I imagine it feels very similar.
2006-10-15 05:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Serenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was the other sex for me. My husband ran off with another woman. I had a very difficult time trusting men again. It took me years (and a very special man) to learn to trust again. Even now my insecurities will flare up when I least expect it. I have a very difficult time trusting my boss who is a male. I would rather work for a female.
2006-10-14 12:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got to treat each new partner with trust and respect as a new one not as if shes is yr last partner. read tips on relationships and more to help you better on this site
2006-10-14 12:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take time believe me...ur partner was never meant for u...love is a big risk thats y it is call falling in love...coz when u fall u wont know how to get up again...give it time to heal...find ur life first...make urself happy...u will know when ur ready to make the move...all the best dear
2006-10-14 15:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by ctmaryam_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found my girl of the time in bed with my mate. Not nice, but life does go on. Time is the healer.
2006-10-14 12:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Warlock Fiend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mine had a 8 month affair and i am still finding it difficult to trust any man
2006-10-14 12:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try trusting WOMEN!
2006-10-14 12:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time, my ran off with the singing farmer..... the funny part is it only lasted 3 months after she left..... lol lol lol lol lol
2006-10-14 21:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by JD417 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the $64,000 question.
It's difficult.
2006-10-14 13:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋