my girl friend.......we were out with her boyfriend and me....and at the end of the date the bill came to about £60...and he offered to pay the bill...and then I offered him half the bill (£30)...and he didnt want it...and then she said : I'll have it !!!!.......and then she bagged the £30....I dont care about £30.....but why did she do that...? I thought it was a bit funny , what do you think?
2006-10-14 12:47:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have you got "MUG" tattoed on your forehead ?
2006-10-14 12:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by banditblue1200 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Some flippin' friend. Anyway, you should have offered £20 as a three way split, not £30. So if I were you, I'd either ask for a tenner back, or if you are like me and a bit of wimp, why not invite them out to dinner with you, and then ask her for half of the total amount of the bill at the end of the evening.
With friends like that, you sure don't need to worry about enemies, hon!
2006-10-14 12:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lily & Stu Too 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is disgraceful behaviour.
your first mistake was to offer half and not a third of the bill. surely you owed £20? if the bill were £200 would you have paid £100?
secondly, your friend is being a cheap skate by taking your money. you should ditch her and find a new friend.
2006-10-14 12:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Wing commander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let people walk all over like that dude she totally ripped you off. She should not have done that i'd get that 30 quid back man. Naaah seriously you should talk to her bout that tell her you did not think that was very decent thing to do say that you'd like the money back if she acts like a nob over it then move on dude!!
2006-10-14 12:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it's sounds as if your friend is a little selfish. Look more closely looks and some actions can fool u. Until u see if she would so the same for u. Give her a small test of needing something very small and check it out.
2006-10-14 12:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by vickie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have been funny, but it was definitely rude. I don't know your background, but if she feels that you have plenty of money (or at least more than she does) then she may have felt that since you were willing to spend it, she might as well take it.
Alternative: she knew her boyfriend needed the 30, but didn't want to be rude. She didn't want to make him feel awkward so she took it instead to give it to him later.
2006-10-14 12:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by sounsure90211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person who did this has no morals, you used a little thing called human decency and respect, when you offered to pay half the bill, but she clearly has no manners and needs to be told so
2006-10-14 12:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by lb14041977@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cor! From what I heard about your friend you should drop her fast forget what I said about her on the other question, (presuming we are talking about the same friend) friends DO NOT take your money! They'd more likely lend you theirs! She's selfish and that's not what true friends are about.
2006-10-14 14:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so out of order, what a show off your friend is, i'd definatley get rid of her from your xmas card list,
even if she needed the money she could have asked you dicreetly. i bet her boyfriend wasnt impresed..
2006-10-14 12:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by cazmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nex time just offer what your meal comes up to and put it on the table
2006-10-18 03:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isn't a true Friend she apparently was waiting for your offer to take your money
2006-10-14 12:50:05 · answer #11 · answered by cjnponka 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋