Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

ok ... so I started dating this nice guy recently. I like him. He likes me. He wanted to go out tonight and I said no, and explained why.

Friday night is my detox from my awful boss and stressful job night. I like to come home, order in some pizza or chinese, have a glass or two of wine, take a bubble bath and then relax in my jammies while I watch some movies on cable and fall asleep early. I also do my laundry on Friday night. It's my night to not deal with anyone or anything but me. If I ever do go out on Friday night, its to get my nails done and rent a movie or something.

All week long I meet everyone else's needs, and Friday night is my time for me. I need this one night all to myself in order to stay sane and balanced.

He wants me to meet him in the city tonight and was practically whining about it. I offered to meet him tomorrow instead. He got pissy with me, and made some uncalled for remarks about my lifestyle and some "changes" I should make.

2006-10-13 11:42:57 · 13 answers · asked by BoomChikkaBoom 6 in Singles & Dating

I had a pep rally at my high school today. Is it wrong that I was kind of jealous when I saw my girlfriend dancing all over this guy. She is on the school dance team.

2006-10-13 11:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 11:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A couple years back my wife had an affair and we seperated.
I then quickly found a woman (2 maybe 3 weeks later) who was also seperated to have fun with. Since I didn't start my relationship until after I was seperated I don't see anything wrong with it.

However, since then my wife and I did get back together. So did I cheat or was it okay for me to have a relationship with that woman at the time?

2006-10-13 11:41:13 · 24 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 11:41:04 · 14 answers · asked by ad_swati 1 in Family

I have a friend at work and him and I get along great. We hang out outside of work and him and I are always laughing and having a great time. I'll admit hes really good looking, but it doesnt go any further than that. He has a girlfriend, I have a boyfriend. Do you think its possible for two people of the opposite sex to be friends without feelings interfering? I often wonder how he feels about me at times, because I'd never wanna jeopardize our friendship.

2006-10-13 11:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Marriage

2006-10-13 11:40:17 · 12 answers · asked by harry k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 11:40:16 · 25 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 11:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by silverbuggy00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What if she is 15?

2006-10-13 11:39:39 · 5 answers · asked by norleb_hsgolf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 11:39:09 · 14 answers · asked by destiny_marie06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I guy told me I had the perfect boobs. what does that mean?

2006-10-13 11:37:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 11:37:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how am i supposed to test a guy to see if he has real feelings for me.....i dont want to upright tell him abt my feelings or ask him abt his because that will b sort of embaressing..is there any other way...to test his feelings...plz let me know

2006-10-13 11:37:12 · 5 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Singles & Dating

There are a couple of girls I like, but I really don't know if they swing that way, and if they don't, I still want to be their friends and not creep them out. I think some are, but then, this could just be me wanting them to be, nto the truth.

2006-10-13 11:36:17 · 23 answers · asked by Ameille N 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just 11, i've asked all my friends, teenage family members, and other people this question randomly. But i wanna see what the world other people think. Please don't tell me "at your age" this and "at your age" that! Tell me what you think!

2006-10-13 11:35:21 · 5 answers · asked by Bagel. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i said :
What are you doing this weekend?? Maybe we should hang out some time ??
did i ask him out?

2006-10-13 11:35:17 · 14 answers · asked by lilgbitch 1 in Singles & Dating

we used to sit next to each other in class, but our seats were moved. we have a lot in common and i would like to get to know him better. any advice?

2006-10-13 11:35:06 · 2 answers · asked by Esmerelda 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have nobody to talk to, I didnt know where else to turn. First off, my boyfriend of 3 years, cheated on me several times last year. He says it was because I kept hounding him not to talk to females because I thought it would happen. After I found out he promised to never do it again. It's been great for the last 6 months and now he is starting to do favors for women he works with...thats how it started last time. Favors like going to the store for them and giving them a ride and such. He's pissed and is telling me I should just trust him and not bother him about it and everything will be fine. But how can I? Its starting all over again, the same as last time, how can I trsut him. I know I need to learn to trust him but its just to early for that. I'm going crazy thinking its going to happen again and trying to tell him not to do that kinda **** for them. I don';t know what to do, I think he's just gunna do stuff for them behind my back. Help! I'm going insane.

2006-10-13 11:35:00 · 13 answers · asked by faery1219 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 11:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by shakira1babe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I believe in eye-contact.I looked into his eyes and I thought I see love.I love him.He's my first man.Now he says he has family.Now.After ten months.Now that I'm pregnant.How stupid am I?I'm on my own.I'm 16,**** it.

2006-10-13 11:34:49 · 33 answers · asked by Jazz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

PLEAZE HELP

2006-10-13 11:32:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she seems nice, friendly and someone that i think would be compatible with me. i chatted with her a bit during class, but we dont really know each other.

2006-10-13 11:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

I have tried walking her, rocking her, feeding her, leaving her to cry, singing to her, putting her down half asleep, putting her down fully asleep, and all she does is scream. The neighbors hear her and think that I am abusing her. (which I am NOT) I get very little sleep and have a constant headache. There are no medical reasons for this.

2006-10-13 11:31:25 · 17 answers · asked by night1princess 2 in Family

My husband is having major back surgery in just 4 days but
we haven't had sex in months. I try to be very understanding and do all that I can to keep my man happy .... strip poles, being just the givier and not reeiver...., not matter what I try all he says is that it is the meds that keep him uninterested. It is true or what? I am 35 in my sexual prime and I want him.....morning,noon and night. Is it truly the meds that he is one or what? I made a commitment to him infront of our family, friends and our God....and without sounding trampy...I want to be with my husband....all the time, and neked. WHAT DO I DO????? I am attactive..5' 10", 125 lbs., blond and blue and toned, I work out and have been told many time I look similar Michelle Phieffer.....my self esteem is nose diving! What do I do, I am so so SO confused, Can any of you help me with this one??? Please!

2006-10-13 11:31:02 · 16 answers · asked by MaHaa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm obsessing over my crush so much that i cant focus on my studies...wat am i to do? I have 3 weeks till i see her again in class, but i'm afraid she'll find a bf/gf by then.

2006-10-13 11:30:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She talks to me a little bit but not like flirty talk. but she does hug me.

2006-10-13 11:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy that is in all my classes and he is always looking at me. especially in a nonrespectable way if u know what i mean. so how do i get him to stop? can i?

2006-10-13 11:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by denise 1 in Singles & Dating

im engaged and were getting married in august,,,, but i dont think i love him so much... i dont know why i get this feeling that i should get married with him even tough i dont love him... i like him and i think i do want to get married but im afraid... of my feelings i dont know why im so happy to be engaged with him... im so confuse...dont know what to do...

2006-10-13 11:29:24 · 6 answers · asked by anne 1 in Weddings

i want to tell her how i feel but im afraid
we are both 15

2006-10-13 11:28:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships