PLEAZE HELP
2006-10-13 11:32:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try reminding them of the happy times that they had together
2006-10-13 11:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You cannot prevent this. This is a problem between those two only. If they are fighting, etc, they may need to be seperate. You have got to realize that its not your fault and there is nothing in this world you can do to correct their problem. In reality, would you want to live with someone you couldnt get along with? This happens sometimes in marriage. Sometimes its temporary and sometimes its permanent. Only your parents can decide which route to go. Nobody wants to see their parents split up, but sometimes its for the best interests of all parties involved. Life is too short to be miserable and maybe they are at that point. Realize also, that lots of other people split for different reasons. But just because they may split does not mean they love you any less. Good luck!!
2006-10-13 11:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just to try sometimes causes even more pain for you and for them. I'm sure your parents love you more than you can ever imagine. Sometimes marriages just don't work out. That's really sad, but true. This is a time to show them both how much you love them. You never know what may happen down the road, but you have to let them live their lives and you must live yours. You are all parts of each other and always will be. Faith and understanding is the key to making it thru times like these.
2006-10-13 11:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by easi822 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truthful answer is your don't. If they are unhappy or whatever the case with being together than there is really nothing you can or should do. I know this sucks. I had to deal with this with my parents, but if you try and keep them together things are only going to get worse between them, and you are probably going to end up getting even more hurt. I would try and sit down with both of them and let them know how you are feeling and ask them why they are thinking of divorcing. Other than that, babe, there isnt much you can do... sorry
2006-10-13 11:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by funk3742 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do. You had nothing to do with them getting together in the first place, so there's not much you can do about them splitting up.
If they do split, it's not the end of the world. My parents divorced when I was young. I continued to see both of them regularly.
Sometimes, it's best that they split rather than subjecting you to an unhealthy relationship for years to come. That could get ugly and have a negative impact on you.
Keep your head up!
2006-10-13 11:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing Understand that it is not your fault. If they are not happy together do you really want them to stay together? it is hard to deal with...I know my son bless his heart tries so hard to get his mom and I back. Take them aside and as calm as you can tell them how you feel about the whole thing. about being afraid about the split up and your reasons for it. I understand that it's hard to do that but they should know how you feel.these type of things stir up strong feelings and holding them in will only do more damage to you. It is not an easy thing to go through so I would suggest talking to someone about your emotions and thoughts. Remember that will & still love you the same. Good Luck and I am sorry you have to go through this.
2006-10-13 11:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your parents and them splitting up... the only thing I can think of, is maybe talk to one parent and then talk to the other, at the end you can have them both in the same room after hearing both of their stories. You can tell them how you feel about them splitting... and maybe make reservations for both of them to go to a nice restaurant or somewhere they can talk about their problems and see if they can work things out!
Hope all goes well
2006-10-13 11:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by precious1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your parents are unhappy living together and they have to split then as much as you would want them to be together I'm afraid they won't be.
There is a plus to this though..........
They are probably very unhappy living together and when they separate I'm sure they will eventually be happier individuals and they will be nicer to be with.
Sometimes also the child can have more quality time with the mother or father because they visit them on weekends etc and the parent uses that time with their child where as before the child was always there and it didn't seem so important.
Just know they both love you very much but there are some things you just cant change.
I hope this helped you a little.
2006-10-13 11:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
There is only one way you can do anything and that is to pray to God and believe in Him and make Him a deal that you will read your Bible everyday and meditate on His word day and night.And he will begin to work if you are serious,because He knows our hearts.But God works slowly but surely and it will look like all is lost and then supernaturally He will turn it all around.But it will not happen overnight,okay just so you don't expect it to soon.Take Care and May God Bless You.
2006-10-13 11:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep your parents together and you can't keep them from splitting up--they are adults (even if they may not act like it), and they will make their own choices--just know that it is NOT your fault if they decide to split up. Hopefully it won't come to that, but if it does, you will need someone to talk to and confide in and perhaps therapy will be helpful to you.
2006-10-13 11:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault that your parents are spilting up and yes it will be an adjustment but trust me u dont want to be growing up in a home where people can't stand each other its not healthy for you or for your parents HUGS
2006-10-13 11:35:55 · answer #11 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋