im engaged and were getting married in august,,,, but i dont think i love him so much... i dont know why i get this feeling that i should get married with him even tough i dont love him... i like him and i think i do want to get married but im afraid... of my feelings i dont know why im so happy to be engaged with him... im so confuse...dont know what to do...
2006-10-13 11:29:24 · 6 answers · asked by anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Jealousy has nothing to do with love... that's insecurity. Why would you marry someone you don't love? I think your in love with the idea of getting married and the idea that someone would love you enough to marry you.
2006-10-13 11:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A BIG WORD to Marla C.!
Jealousy is another word for insecurity. You said it, you "want to get married". That's the problem here.
You want to be married. Are you willing to make a commitment to someone you don't love just to BE married?
Don't do it.
2006-10-13 18:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's sounds like you are in love with the idea of being in love, and you are excited by the thought of being a bride. Those are not good enough reasons to get married.
2006-10-13 18:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you happy, or confused? You're confusing me!!! What does jealousy have to do with this question? Are you jealous of him, or him talking to girls or what is it?
I wish I can help if you modify your question!
2006-10-13 18:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delay the wedding now. If your not sure, don't do it. Divorce really hurts bad
2006-10-13 18:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont get married you get married to be with som1 foreva u have to REALLY lov that person!
2006-10-13 18:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋