Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

my husband is so proude of himself that he is not cheating on me and is so committed to our marriage!! whereas i believe it should be this way and this is not something that he should be proude of!! this is marriage this is committment! so am i right or my husband??he keeps saying that 99% of the men around him are cheating on their wives (which he thinks is totaly wrong and they are horrible men) but still it's a big deal that he is not cheating...so should i be really proude of him? or this is the way it should be!

2006-10-09 08:41:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's only one night. He/she doesn't have to enjoy it. Condoms permitted of course. Do you think it would ruin your relationship?

2006-10-09 08:41:15 · 15 answers · asked by Lady Lex 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for 13 months and I'm still having a hard time trusting him. He admits that he like chatting on the net, but he said he would never meet anyone from the net. I'll leave him to have some alone time for himself, but when i get back I'll notice things have been moved. What is going on with me? Its really hurting our relationship.

2006-10-09 08:40:47 · 18 answers · asked by alphasweet06 2 in Singles & Dating

She lives in florida, she moves to a different place

2006-10-09 08:40:32 · 4 answers · asked by Yusef Haddad 1 in Family

the background of this question is - i recently found out that when i was split up from my boyf lsat year he slept with soemone who practically broke us up in the first place. we're back together now but i can't get my head around it. the girl he was seeing works at his place. i met her on one ocassion and she was a nasty person but enviably pretty. she was everything i wasn't - slim blonde and gorgeous.

I know she'll be at the xmas party and i don't know if i should go or not. Mainly coz i think i'd end up having a huge fight with her. but also because if i don't go i'll only worry about what my boyfs doing all night whilst i'm sat at home.

i DO trust him (i can't say too much about it really as we were seperated at the time) but i can't handle the mental torture that i'm going through. it wouldn't be so bad if she was similar to me!

he said he doesn't go for that type of girl, so why did he go there when he'd left me ?

I'm confused should i go or not ? please help

2006-10-09 08:39:38 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Tickle 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We both like eachother and both shy so how do I know when its right? I don't want to just ask her and I don't want to just do it and her get mad or anything :(

2006-10-09 08:39:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 08:38:57 · 15 answers · asked by brandonbamboo 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been w/ my boyfriend for 8mths. We have been through alot considering he is a widower w/ a 3yr old daughter (which I adore). We live in a town where everyone knows you and since we started dating there has been one "friendly" woman that won't stop flirting or making advances towards my BF (such as sitting on his lap at the bar, calling him, and being touchy feely) He asked her out before we got together and she blew him off twice now she wants him. I know he won't act on it but what bothers me is he won't interfere and tell her to back off either, which I think out of respect for my feelings and our relationship he should. I told him it's not his fault she calls or does any ot those things but if he doesn't handle it I will. He says I have nothing to worry about, but I know something similiar will happen again when we are at the bar and I'm scared I will go WFwrestling on her *** lol What is the best way to deal with this? Should I ignore it? Am I overreacting?

2006-10-09 08:38:47 · 11 answers · asked by LaShes 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me n my ex bf just started talking again n i have been calling him baby and stuff n i dont want him to get the wrong idea.....what should i do??? n i like someone who goes to my school n some one who is out of school i dont know what to do

2006-10-09 08:38:32 · 5 answers · asked by I_LoVe_HiM!!! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont have traditional beliefs...im a bit of a free spirit im not at all sure about the concept of 2 people expecting so much from each other for the duration of forever...by the way i am 36 and have actually been married twice and yes im now single for the last 2 years and during my second marriage this concept kind of slapped me in the face so please dont come on here telling me that i will feel better when i meet the man i want to spend the rest of my life with...and im not bitter either,im actually pretty content but i do wonder if we were able to take lovers and live separately when we chose and didnt have all these rules and expectations,etc if the concept of marriage might work a little better....

2006-10-09 08:38:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do if your boyfriend of one year loves another girl and says he loves us both equally and does not know whom to choose?

2006-10-09 08:38:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she is bipolar, was found naked with slit wrist pumped up on pills two bottles of whiskey naked with slit wrists... i just got back from iraq, babies had glass stuck in there heads and two older ones look completely stressed out, i cleaned the house and bought them all new clothes and toys, they have all been to counseling, but for some reason i still want to get rid of her

2006-10-09 08:38:17 · 17 answers · asked by 7am gangster 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hey, does anyone want to talk about there problems as well as listen to mine over email?!?!?!?!?

i am going through a really difficult time in my life and i would really apreichete it if someone would like to listen, and i will listen to any problems you have too.

heres the thing. i dont want to email you cause i will feel stupid so if you want to tell me about a problem or listen to mine email me at houselover09@yahoo.com


oooo and they reason i put this under friends is that most of my problems are about my best friend, and i really need advice on it.

2006-10-09 08:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by sarah m 3 in Friends

I have a friend,and I wanna do something really fun with him on our first date,NO MOVIE,OR DINNER! 2 lame,just burnt out with that.Any suggestions?

2006-10-09 08:37:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I met a girl at a valentines party last year. . we hooked up. 7 monthes later I meet her again and we have a little thing that turned into a full time relationship. SO two months after I we are together I move to Costa Rica. We are still wanting eachother. She says she needs me still and cant move on. But me. Idk. I just want to be with her for the rest of my life and just well yeah. She is so perfect for me and we have never had a dull moment. I mean she makes me want to live that extra moment of life . Just to be with her. I love so friken much but I dodnt know what to do later in life?!?!?!!?! How do I keep her close to me even though she is in cali and I am in Costa Rica?? help?

2006-10-09 08:36:41 · 11 answers · asked by Dillon L 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how they are doing this or how to stop it,find out who'e doing it and protect myself from blackmail

2006-10-09 08:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by Mike W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About a week ago I was playfighting with my boyfriend and hit him in the privates on accident. He was on the floor for a LONG time, with an agony face and kinda pale, and he was not saying anything, I got sooo scared!!! Then when he finally started feeling better he asked me for a glass of water with a shaky voice. He was so weak that barely could hold the glass! I hugged him and I could feel his heart beating fast. When he recovered we talked about it, and I said how sorry I was but he got angry and was always saying that I should be more careful.
The problem is after that he is avoiding me, and when I am with him he is kinda indifferent to me, and before that he was always so caring and sweet. Oh please help me; I don’t want to lose him!!!!!!

2006-10-09 08:36:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what should be her punishment? should i not let her watch survivor this week? put ben gay in her tampons? or should i lock her in our bedroom at night and take away the tv and phone?

2006-10-09 08:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont have traditional beliefs...im a bit of a free spirit im not at all sure about the concept of 2 people expecting so much from each other for the duration of forever...by the way i am 36 and have actually been married twice and yes im now single for the last 2 years and during my second marriage this concept kind of slapped me in the face so please dont come on here telling me that i will feel better when i meet the man i want to spend the rest of my life with...and im not bitter either,im actually pretty content but i do wonder if we were able to take lovers and live separately when we chose and didnt have all these rules and expectations,etc if the concept of marriage might work a little better....

2006-10-09 08:35:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend went to a 9month school for his work and his graduating the class tomorrow. It was last minute and i want to do something special to show how much i care and how proud i am of his accomplishment. I'm limited in funds. Please Help...

2006-10-09 08:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2 in Singles & Dating

when i ask him for a ride home he always gives me a ride home.

2006-10-09 08:35:37 · 18 answers · asked by tina c 1 in Singles & Dating

"Clara , I am now in a place working a task with deadline,making systems with my colleagues ....

U write a lot about love and planning and future.What I can say is this : stay clam and have eyes for other things in life too.Do not overkill . I mean to tell,that sometimes U can choke a person will cause an average effect.

I will contact U again with any opportunity I have .

Kiss , Jos. "

I wish to know what is the meaning of "average effect"

2006-10-09 08:35:20 · 7 answers · asked by russclara 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if the Groom would have to wear a tuxedo? Would it be innapropriate for him to wear a black button shirt, black slacks, white tie and have a boutinnerre? Our groomsmen would also be wearing the same outfit, only with a red tie. And the bridemaids would be wearing tea length black (or red) dresses... So, would that be innappropriate for him to not be wearing a tux? I would really like it to be like this, but I wonder if its acceptable.

2006-10-09 08:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by Stacy Lynn 1 in Weddings

Im 23 and I just bought a new Astra SRi. I went for the sporty model to get girls attention but I must say it hasnt worked! I dress in suites most of the time but still nothing. What have I got to do??? Im not bad looking and 6ft5 inches tall. Shall I start jumping up and down or something? lol. Come on girls help me out! If I can get them to stare, shall I speak or will it freak them out?

2006-10-09 08:34:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it me or are there too many preverted men on here? I'm asking because I keep getting these mentaly challenged men asking preverted things as responds? And yes I know what tea-bagging is. However are other people getting these guys who were dropped on there heads to answer or people who touched the light socket?

Is it me or is it annoying when some pervert asks you to do something to him when you have an important question.

2006-10-09 08:34:34 · 21 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Singles & Dating

do girls need sex just as much as guys do, because it seems like guys are the ones needing it more, or are girls just holding out to gain control of the man

2006-10-09 08:34:20 · 10 answers · asked by sharp 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I work full time and go to school at night.... then in my spare time other then homework... we are fixing up our old house. What little time left- I focus on the wedding. It's more then a year away Nov 3.... and all I can think about at work and at school is my wedding... planning... ect.... which to tell the truth, I have most of it already done! I booked almost everything I just have to pay the people.
Everyone keeps telling me a year goes by soo fast when your planning a wedding...
Am I bridezalla? LOL
Yes, I have to force myself from NOT talking about it cause I know noone else really cares that much about my favors or what color my tablecloths are!!

2006-10-09 08:33:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

with problems

2006-10-09 08:33:24 · 13 answers · asked by bearbigkidben 1 in Singles & Dating

What happened?

How long did your marriage/relationship last after you found out they cheated?

Are there any couples that have made it through cheating? And there man/woman never cheated again?

(Obviously I have been cheated on...I am still madly in love with the man...we WERE engaged and he wants to make things right.)

2006-10-09 08:33:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom has recently died and i found her dead.We didnt always get on,and iv relised how much i miss,need and so many things that i didnt get to say,and its to late.I have good and bad days,but there are a 100 things going though my mind how i could have been a better daughter.I just miss her and dont know what to do

2006-10-09 08:32:59 · 20 answers · asked by liitle punk girl 1 in Family