Ok so I met a girl at a valentines party last year. . we hooked up. 7 monthes later I meet her again and we have a little thing that turned into a full time relationship. SO two months after I we are together I move to Costa Rica. We are still wanting eachother. She says she needs me still and cant move on. But me. Idk. I just want to be with her for the rest of my life and just well yeah. She is so perfect for me and we have never had a dull moment. I mean she makes me want to live that extra moment of life . Just to be with her. I love so friken much but I dodnt know what to do later in life?!?!?!!?! How do I keep her close to me even though she is in cali and I am in Costa Rica?? help?
2006-10-09 08:36:41 · 11 answers · asked by Dillon L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love knows no bounds...no distance can dim the light of true love. If the love is real and you are sure you both want forever, it sounds like it is time to take that next step and be together. One of the two of you is going to have to relocate. Sit down, way the pros and cons and make the decision based upon the most pros. I wish you the best, long distance relationships are hard.
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-09 08:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance shouldn't prevent you from having a healthy relationship. You could always see each other and take advantage of the time you share together. That's how you'll get to appreciate every moment. It's never too late or too early to fall in love. The only advice I have to give is.. just follow your instinct on this. Or else, later on you will be filled with regrets. "should have, could have, might have" are just the saddest words, ever. Even if you'll get hurt.. going with the flow is never wrong. It helps you figure out what you want and what you can get.
2006-10-09 15:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by silent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two love each other so much that you can't bear another day without each other, I suggest either you moving back to where she is, or her moving to where you are so that you two may see each other face-to-face whenever you want. Sometimes distances can really break up a relationship, and this girl may be so special that you don't want to lose her because she's so far away.
So next time you talk to her, suggest it to her and see what she says. And also keep close communication with her through phone or IM to keep the relationship on fire for awhile.
2006-10-09 15:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to California. Trust me. I have learned from experience that if there are options to move and the relationship is worth keeping, then go for it. You might regret it later if you don't.
Picture your life 10 years from now. Are you with someone else or her? If you are sure it is her, then fight for it now before you she slips away.
2006-10-09 15:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long relationships are never easy, but if you truly love each other, yall will find a way to make it happen.
GOOD LUCK =)
2006-10-09 15:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come back to her,trust me love is rare,it is possible to occurr more than once but chances are not high,ive been there
2006-10-09 15:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by tristan2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a plane ticket. Pura vida.
2006-10-09 15:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try yo ask her to marry you,and than do what ever you want to do with your life,you will still have her by your side!!!
2006-10-09 15:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by oneya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is look at every single photo you have of her
2006-10-09 16:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find something out ...ur sooo in love wiz her
2006-10-09 15:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by merna12101983 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋