About a week ago I was playfighting with my boyfriend and hit him in the privates on accident. He was on the floor for a LONG time, with an agony face and kinda pale, and he was not saying anything, I got sooo scared!!! Then when he finally started feeling better he asked me for a glass of water with a shaky voice. He was so weak that barely could hold the glass! I hugged him and I could feel his heart beating fast. When he recovered we talked about it, and I said how sorry I was but he got angry and was always saying that I should be more careful.
The problem is after that he is avoiding me, and when I am with him he is kinda indifferent to me, and before that he was always so caring and sweet. Oh please help me; I don’t want to lose him!!!!!!
2006-10-09 08:36:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to talk to him and let him know that you will always be more careful. I'm not a guy, but from what I understand, it is very very painful and will be something that he is going to remember for a very long time.....
Just do you best to smooth things over. Remember, when men are hurt or sick they can be very big babies.... I'm not down playing it, I just know that they sometimes need more attention than we realize.
2006-10-09 08:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hit a guy in his privates it really hurts them right in the pit of their stomach. It's a really bad pain for them. Women think that it hurts the guy on just their private parts, but the truth is it hurts them in the stomach area. That's why they always are on the floor if they get hit in this area because the pain is really bad for them. I know you didn't mean to do it, and most women don't know that it's this painful for guys. If you can't talk to him try writing him a letter explaining that you had no idea how serious it was, and that you would never try to hurt him like that on purpose. He should know that it wasn't intentional on your part and that seeing what was done it won't happen again. He'll get over this, and if for some reason that he doesn't then he really needs to grow up because as a woman we all make this mistake once in our life. Good luck!!!!!
2006-10-09 08:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BLESS YA DARLING!
IT WAS A PLAY-FIGHT IT COULD HAVE BEEN THE OTHER WAY ROUND . HOW WOULD YOU HAVE REACTED? WOULD YOU HAVE BEEN INDIFFERENT TO HIM OR WOULD YOU HAVE TAKEN IT AS A MISTAKE?
IT WAS JUST A MISTAKE SO HE SHOULD NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY. I KNOW HOW IT FELT HITTING A GUY IN HIS PRIVATE BUT AFTER A WHILE IT BETS BETTER AND FINALLY THE PAINS GOES AWAY.THERE IS NOTHING MORE YOU CAN DO THAN WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. IT WAS AN ACCIDENT.
A BIT OF ADVICE FOR TWO OF YOU IS , PLEASE BE CARE FULL OF HOW YOU PLAY OR JOKE , DON'T BE BLOOD GUILTY. IT COULD HAVE BEEN WORST IF IT WAS HIS THROAT. IT IS GOOD TO PLAY ,JOKE AND EVEN SOMETIMES PLAY FIGHT BUT REMEMBER THE DEVIL FINDS WORK FOR AN IDLE HAND. HE IS OUT THERE TO MAKE PEOPLE UN HAPPY.
PLEASE MR BOY FRIEND , FORGIVE HER AS CHRIST ALSO FREELY FORGIVES YOU AND SHOW HER MORE LOVE. LET HER KNOW YOU LOVE HER. SHE IS ONLY PLAY FIGHTING YOU BECAUSE SHE FEELS LOVED , WANTED AND FEELS CARED FOR. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. PEACE
2006-10-09 08:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Timdel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will get over it. he might just feel as if you did it on purpose now. I once hit my boyfriend (accidentally) twice in the privates on two seperate occasions. He did the whole pale face can't talk thing also. But he soon forgot about it. Dont worry if your boyfriend breaks up with you. That's his bad for not being able to play fight then...
2006-10-09 08:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by sxymma3323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on it was an accident, right, so tell him to grow up, sure it hurt but it didn't kill him. Sounds like he has other issues, so talk to him as adults and find out what his problem is.
2006-10-09 08:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by mharrop@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if the guy can't forgive you for an honest mistake than he isn't worth your time...You should find someone who is willing to forgive you, I mean, it was only an accident, you didn't do it on purpose...
2006-10-09 08:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you CAN do is to apologize and hope that in time he forgets the whole experience.
2006-10-09 08:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail him the link to this question. Do u like the suggestion? It will work.
2006-10-09 09:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say ur sorry or forget him because he is acting stupid.
if a dog bites you you are not suppose to bite him back .
2006-10-09 08:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by Helpmeeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make sure that there was no damage done. He might just want a little more babing. When all else fails.................kiss it and make it better!!!!
Hahahahaha
2006-10-09 08:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by prprincessvita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋