I work full time and go to school at night.... then in my spare time other then homework... we are fixing up our old house. What little time left- I focus on the wedding. It's more then a year away Nov 3.... and all I can think about at work and at school is my wedding... planning... ect.... which to tell the truth, I have most of it already done! I booked almost everything I just have to pay the people.
Everyone keeps telling me a year goes by soo fast when your planning a wedding...
Am I bridezalla? LOL
Yes, I have to force myself from NOT talking about it cause I know noone else really cares that much about my favors or what color my tablecloths are!!
2006-10-09 08:33:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You aren't a bridezilla. That's if you are a biatch about your wedding, which you don't sound like.
It's good you are excited about your wedding. If you aren't who will be? Although it is good you aren't telling everyone about every little detail all the time. Everyone would get tired of it, but do give yourself that time to talk about it. You don't need to hold it in all the time. It will make you resentful. Schedule a time where you, your mom, your bridesmaids, your fiance's mom, etc can go do wedding things. Maybe every other Sunday or something. That will help keep them excited with you.
2006-10-09 08:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a bridezilla, you are just enjoying planning your big day. What I find helps is coming on here or the chatboards on theknot.com and helping other people plan their weddings. A group of my closest friends all got married close together (I am the last one, with my wedding this weekend) and so we all had fun being wedding obsessed together.
You're attention will probably wane a little bit as the holidays approach and you have something else to think about. Hey, enjoy the time because you will be so proud of what you accomplished on your day and your fiance will be happy he did not have to do much planning.
2006-10-09 10:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Molly1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a bridezilla. I just got married in June...I was engaged for a year and a half. Let me tell you, it seems like a long ways away, but it comes up so darn fast! It's good that you are organized and on top of things early, that's how it was for me. In the end, you'll be less stressed out when the big day approaches. It's fine to be thinking about it all the time, that's pretty normal, you're just excited. However, I do think you should refrain from talking about it ALL the time to your friends. Just bring it up once in a while, or when you need help deciding things.
I was the same way as you, but I could tell that my friends didn't want to hear about it all the time. I think that it annoyed them that I was young and getting married, and that that was my focus.
My advice: Allow yourself to be excited, but not to the point of annoyance to your friends.
2006-10-09 08:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From one bridezilla to another, your fine! and the year flies! It's been 6 months since i got engaged, and I have 6 months left till the wedding, and I have no idea where the time went, luckily I have gotten a lot done! The closer it gets, the faster its goin too! Don't let wedding mess you up in school tho, you have a lot of life to live after the wedding, and you wanna be able to pay for it! lol! congrats!
2006-10-09 09:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat.... I love planning my wedding!!! I got engaged in May, May 13th to be exact and I think I had my entire wedding planned out in two weeks. I am getting married next may, it was a year engagment, but I can't wait..... one pice of advice is try to have little get togethers for your bridal party. That is what I am doing since I have most of the wedding stuff done, that way I don't drive myself crazy waiting for the day to come. I find that having little "get togethers" has really helped me. Good Luck planning, I hope it all comes out PERFECT!!!
2006-10-09 08:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Natural to feel that way Beacause its something you'v never done before BUT you have seen it happen to other people
Try and focus on what your going to do after you get married instead of just waiting to be there
a few dreams and goals will make the 'wait' much better
try writing them down will also help alot and one day, after some years when u become a parent you might find that diary where you wrote down your stuff and wow you will surely enjoy those moments
2006-10-09 08:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be nervous about the most important day of your life, and worried because you want everything to be perfect. It seems llike you're just anxious for the big day, but there is nothing wrong with you. Just try to relax and focus on doing stuff for yourself over the next few weeks (or months), so you don't stress yourself out.
2006-10-09 08:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by darkshadows9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have like 18 weeks and still no dress or anything!!!! :( I've got to get on the ball but its so hard with working all the time being a manager at a childrens clothing store. MY fiance wont help much cause he says its a womans job. That makes it even harder on me. i'm trying to decide colors and all, trying to get cake reserverations made. I think i'm gonna make my on though to save money but not time!!!
2006-10-09 08:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by shelly h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bridezilla, your a nomal bride. I was very committed to the planning of my wedding and I was glad I did. My wedding was perfect and went off with out a hitch! Good luck to you.
2006-10-09 08:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u arnt the only one b/c my wedding is on dec.5! and i have no $$$ so i have to save every penny....i don't think there is no such thing as obsessed when it comes to weddings! lol i hope u have a beautiful wedding and all of ur hard work will pay off.
2006-10-09 08:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋