Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

I am married, 19 yrs. Been cheated on twice. Have 2 children. There is no relationship between myself and hubby. He sleeps in the living room and I sleep in our bedroom. Its been this way for 6-8 months or longer. He does not help around the house. He does not help with the children, meaning, I provide all health insurance, buys b-day presents, christmas and any other holiday, I provide 100%. He says he loves me, but Im beginning to wonder if those words just flow off his lips like water does off a ducks back! I don't trust him. Never will. But is confused, which does not make any sense. I think I'm afraid I can't make it without him. Some advice would be great. Would like to hear what others have to say.

2006-10-08 15:49:18 · 28 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know why a show owned by a black guy would go out of its way to portray Asian guys so stereotypically. I think there should be protests about this. I don't know why Asians allow these kinds of stereotypes to persist in the media.

2006-10-08 15:49:12 · 3 answers · asked by sidewinder45 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We met years i ago, i am about two years older than her. I was coaching the track team and she was one of the runners. She was really cute at the time but I had work to do. She comes up to me all the time (even when the team ended) and says "Hi" with a big smile. I really like her but I dont even think she knows, how can I possibly be with her? She often looks all tired and sleepy but once she sees me, she gets all energitic and gives me a big simile and says "hey Red Ranger" I use to like Power Rangers when I was a kid and i told her. she finds it fun or funny to call me Red Ranger. we exchanged numbers, aim and e mails already but i m just like dont kno how to ask her out. she came and visited my school on friday and she came up to me (i didn't notice her i was too busy studying) and gave me a hug. she saids shes sorry she couldn't hang out that long with me. shes been giving frequent visits and i get hugs i kinda like her.

2006-10-08 15:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by The King of Games 3 in Singles & Dating

I turn 18 next month and i wanna get married help me!!!

2006-10-08 15:48:03 · 26 answers · asked by Mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

yet all i hear from her is how terrible her job is,how many bills she has.everthing she tells me is negative yet i am the negative one. how do you deal with this.what would you tell her?

2006-10-08 15:46:54 · 11 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It feels like everytime a great guy comes around... there's always something wrong with him. I duno what to do... i need advide on how to look past flaws that i seem to want to be there so that i can't have my own happy ending. Please help...

2006-10-08 15:46:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I met at a party came up to my buddy and me on the deck and talked to us. For some reason she leaned against my leg with her crotch against my knee. I was wearing shorts and I could feel the heat from her pus sy on my knee. Unfortunately, if it was a signal, I didn't understand it as she eventually left and I never saw her again that night.

2006-10-08 15:45:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ask this because one of my friends who happens to be a girl has just confessed to me that she likes me, and I don't feel that way for her but I feel bad that I can't return her feelings. is it possibe for guys and girls to just be friends without there being this? i know that there are a lot of people that have had to deal with the same problem as me, and im just wondering.

2006-10-08 15:45:00 · 11 answers · asked by benn 2 in Friends

2006-10-08 15:44:08 · 12 answers · asked by kels 1 in Friends

I'm writing an email to this guy that I've asked numerous questions about on here, and I'm kinda nervous because I don't want to say anything stupid or anything "assuming" of what he thinks or feels. The reason why I have to email him is because I can't see him in person as soon as I'd like...he moved away. So the best I can do is to email him. Keep in mind, he's not to reveal his emotions very easily but what if he doesn't respond, or what if iit takes him awhile? If anything I just want to get everything out, kinda putting myself out on a line, but I think I'd feel better. Has anyone been through this situation? Did the guy (or girl) respond after you told them your feelings?

2006-10-08 15:43:37 · 12 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

my brother is over there and i miss him like crazy and i was wondering how other people are handling it because i am going crazy... i cry all the time and i miss him sooooo much

2006-10-08 15:43:35 · 3 answers · asked by lilshortsunshine2002 3 in Family

I'm self publishing a book (available Nov. 2006) of over 300 scriptures, adages and old sayings that my mom had for just about every occasion in life. Growing up, I didn't always understand what she meant by them and sometimes did not want to hear them. However, in my late teens I began to see the value and have used them through out my adult life...and continue to use them to guide me around some of the pit falls in life.

Do you have a similar experience with the passing down of wisdom and knowledge through the spoken word?

How have you added on to the wisdom of your parents or others?

2006-10-08 15:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ouch that really hurt. So I got mad and told him to have a great day. How would it feel if your boyfriend said he was to busy to call for two days?

2006-10-08 15:42:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 15:42:16 · 2 answers · asked by planetgreens 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is hanging out with his friends, and im all for that, theres no way i want to get in the way of that but when hes with them im scared hes going to cheat. on top of that this slutty ***** that he used to talk to just called him- he thinks shes hot. idk what to do and i cant talk to him without being so pissed even if i never tell him whats wrong. what can i do im so jealous and scared

2006-10-08 15:40:58 · 21 answers · asked by DownWithTheSickness 3 in Singles & Dating

I just don't want to do the same old thing...any ideas?

2006-10-08 15:40:51 · 20 answers · asked by aqualoaf 1 in Weddings

2006-10-08 15:40:43 · 15 answers · asked by phillip c 1 in Singles & Dating

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aox3Tgz.RQO6n3i2I8D9FAnsy6IX?qid=20061006211348AAUim8T

This link describes my relationship with my girlfriend (were both 13). It was 3:00 clock in the morning and I was awoken to her moaning next to me. I turned over and asked her whats wrong. She said she was having a stomach ache. I went down stairs and got her some gingerale. I heard her scream again and I dropped the glass in shock. I ran back up the stair and into the room. I looked at the sheets and they were complety soaked through with blood (It was about time she got her first period though)! I looked at Ali's face and she was crying now.

I ran out and got my mom and she stayed with her all night. I couldn't sleep the whole time.I asked her if I should still spend the nights with her and she said yes but I'm not sure I can.I know it only happens once a month but I'll always remmeber this. What should I do?

Nobody say I shouldn't have slept there from the beginning

2006-10-08 15:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by Chester H 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend loves me so much. he loves everything about me and finds me flawless. you can tell by how he looks at me and how he says things. he would do anything for me, and he says he can't picture life with out me, that he loves me more with each passing day. and he' always complementing me. i don't really like that, i don't even know why, but i sometimes i feel as if he's just way too obsessed with me. that i can practically get away with everything and he wouldn't get mad. i'm not sure if i love him too, but i do know that i don't love him like he loves me. and even though he knows i don't feel the same way about him, he doesn't care. is it even possible to love someone that much? cuz up until now, i thought it was impossible. I mean, what is it about me that he likes so much? i don't see it.

2006-10-08 15:40:02 · 19 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 15:39:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like when I'm at school only a few people will tak to me... and when I go on Aim people that I know in real life they wont talk to me... like I'll say stuff and do my best to continue the conversation and they just respond and not say anything else or act like they're not there and not respond at all... and I'm probably one of the most reasonable and nice people you'd meet but I'm not shy or anything... I just dont get it.

2006-10-08 15:39:04 · 17 answers · asked by Thomas 1 in Friends

Yes, I'm talking about Bobby Lee. This guy is a walking Asian minstrel show and not even funny yet this guy gets a role on Madtv and all he does is derogatory Asian portrayals. The worst part is that this show is owned by Quincy Jones who's a black guy. What's up with the racism? Why do Asians even allow this?

2006-10-08 15:37:50 · 3 answers · asked by sidewinder45 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this guy i like...but i found out 2 of my bestfriends like him! should I be a good friend and stop liking him? what should i do?

2006-10-08 15:37:29 · 9 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 15:37:01 · 31 answers · asked by priyaalexmit 1 in Friends

You can mention a real life enemy or an online one.

2006-10-08 15:36:58 · 9 answers · asked by Nadia M 1 in Friends

i think my friend likes me more than just a friend what do i bo i am bi but only for certian people. But that is not the point i dont know what to do she trys kissing me and she always say i love you and hugs me alot help....

2006-10-08 15:36:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does it seem like I'm to desperate if I write a blog on a website telling people that I'm single and asking girls if they're interested to email me? Just curious. Thanks.

2006-10-08 15:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by jkoster 1 in Singles & Dating

I understand the meaning of giving the bride away but I am 37 and have been a single parent my whole life and it's always been me and my kiddo. He's now 19 almost 20 and on his own and I am getting married for the first time (small wedding 40 people at a B&B). My dad and I aren't all that close (he's my step dad who raised me well) we get along fine and see eachother once in awhile. He's never been all that into christmas, birthdays, or weddings but I feel like it isn't right not to have him walk me down the aisle. My family views him as a selfish man and my mother would be terribly upset if I chose anyone other than my son. Truth is I am 37 I don't NEED to be given away and I want my son to be part of the wedding in some way. Even though my family seems pretty angry at my dad I want him there and I think it would be nice to be traditional. I also don't want to ruin the wedding over it. And of course I want to include my son somewhere. Otherwise the wedding plans are fantastic!

2006-10-08 15:36:31 · 24 answers · asked by sara n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...in front of me.. I tell him about it all the time but he never stops.
I know he's too much into other girls.. I don't know If I should try to get him to quit or just dump?

2006-10-08 15:36:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 15:36:08 · 5 answers · asked by LJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships