my boyfriend loves me so much. he loves everything about me and finds me flawless. you can tell by how he looks at me and how he says things. he would do anything for me, and he says he can't picture life with out me, that he loves me more with each passing day. and he' always complementing me. i don't really like that, i don't even know why, but i sometimes i feel as if he's just way too obsessed with me. that i can practically get away with everything and he wouldn't get mad. i'm not sure if i love him too, but i do know that i don't love him like he loves me. and even though he knows i don't feel the same way about him, he doesn't care. is it even possible to love someone that much? cuz up until now, i thought it was impossible. I mean, what is it about me that he likes so much? i don't see it.
2006-10-08 15:40:02 · 19 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do love him, but not as much as he loves me.
2006-10-08 15:50:53 · update #1
I had someone who loved me that much. And my dad was like that too.
It's not you. He's a loving person. If you marry him, he will love your children the same way. My dad wrote poems for each of our birthdays! He wouldn't let us (six girls) vacuum or mop floors; he did it. He bought flowers for each of us for Valentine's Day.
My fiance would stare at me in an uncontrollable fashion, wherever we were.
With both these men, I was humbled by their ability to love, and accepted it graciously. I also tried my best to not take advantage of them, knowing that they were sensitive souls (although formidable in their work and sports lives) who deserved respect for their capacity to love.
Keep reminding yourself that it's his ability, not you. Whomever he chooses to love will get the same benefit, so you better get busy deserving it to keep him around!
2006-10-09 00:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is an extreme. think of the other extreme to this one. i.e. your boyfriend hates you and finds flaws in whatever you do, and he starts avoiding you. he sees less and less of you with each passing day and stops complementing you and starts critisizing you and so on.
Now would you like this situation or the previous one?
Somtimes fanasy becomes a reality, but at that point may be you are not ready to accept a reality
2006-10-08 22:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ashok Chavda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could say so much on this topic because im going thru the same thing rite now, but trust me u better love him or he will leave. suddenly he will realize that u dont feel the same way and out of anger he may leave and not even feel like looking back. dont loose him or mess up if he is really that good 2u be careful and good luck!!!
2006-10-08 22:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by *Angel* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really doesn't care that you don't feel the same way back - then it must be real. i mean, think about it, if he KNOWS he's not gonna get the same kind of attention back from you, but he doesn't change the way he feels- it must be real. you're probably a wonderful girl and he sees everything he needs in you. :) so don't worry about it and be happyyy
2006-10-08 23:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by music123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're just scared to love him back because you've finally found someone who loves you for you.. just love him back, or try to, and see how it goes.. if it doesn't work then i'd say he's just obsessive but i really don't think thats the case.
2006-10-08 22:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is it important that you do. Maybe the fact that you dont is part of it. do you think for a minute that I want a women that has it all figured out...a slippery slope to go down here. no one likes to be controlled or manipulated...if it aint broke why fix it.
2006-10-08 22:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our Love for one another varies on a scale. Tell him Back off anyway, if he truley loves you he will
2006-10-08 23:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible. cherish it, that's a true love thats hard to find. Best wishes to ya
2006-10-08 23:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love him back!
2006-10-08 22:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jax4all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, stay with him and be happy. However, if you don't love him, let him go now, before it goes farther.
2006-10-08 22:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋