yet all i hear from her is how terrible her job is,how many bills she has.everthing she tells me is negative yet i am the negative one. how do you deal with this.what would you tell her?
2006-10-08 15:46:54 · 11 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like she's the negative one and she's putting all of her negative energy onto you. i'd walk - life is too short to be unhappy.
2006-10-08 15:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by simple1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people tell you negative stuff you tend to want to agree with them (like sympathizing by saying, yeah, I had a lousy day too..) and then they think you are negative. Truth is, she's the negative one and she's bringing you down. You shouldn't have to be the one to pump her up all the time. When she has to do it on her own she'll figure it out. Don't tell her anything, just give it some space and things will work out how they are supposed to (one way or another).
2006-10-08 15:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-29 05:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh... we tend to resent in other people the thing we don't like about ourselves... are you negative? Work on your own character. Your girlfriend will eventually get tired of complaining to someone who doesn't wallow in misery with her.... who knows. Maybe she'll change her ways. But at least you'll know how YOU are behaving... and know that her misery won't have anything to do with you anymore!
2006-10-08 15:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are both negative and both of you should seek a positive person and try looking on the bright side of life for a change.
2006-10-08 15:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her tell her you wish to talk to her ,and tell her her faults and say well you tell me this and you are no different .im a negative thinker and im studying a book now to help me try not to be .but hey it is in some of us from childhood until now .something im doing is everyday I pick 5 postive things that happened and how it effected me and this makes you stop and think .so just discuss this with her .good luck
2006-10-08 15:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she does not want you to be around negative people then you are sorry but you cannot be around her anymore.
2006-10-08 15:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she herself is so negative like you said it, then probably she is taking you in a negative sense.
2006-10-08 15:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ashok Chavda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance she'll come around . When she gets tired of her own negativity.
2006-10-08 15:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her...to shut up and fix it...because nothing in life comes easy.... we all face problems everyday...theres not a soul on this earth who doesnt have problems...and since she so negative why in the hell is she still with you....i think she may have her ppl mixed up.
2006-10-08 16:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋