Like when I'm at school only a few people will tak to me... and when I go on Aim people that I know in real life they wont talk to me... like I'll say stuff and do my best to continue the conversation and they just respond and not say anything else or act like they're not there and not respond at all... and I'm probably one of the most reasonable and nice people you'd meet but I'm not shy or anything... I just dont get it.
2006-10-08 15:39:04 · 17 answers · asked by Thomas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a good friend... or so I thought so then he got a gf and never talked to me again.
2006-10-08 15:50:15 · update #1
Relax and be yourself often times we try to hard and people can't see the real person. True friends just happen it's not a science. friends you make an effort to get often are not worth it.
2006-10-08 15:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Guitarpix 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you repeating what they just said only in a different way? They may not feel the need to respond if you are on the same page. You might try taking one of your better friends aside an ask them what they think. They would have been there to hear conversations and be better able to help you. Good luck.
2006-10-08 22:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by GPHS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in school i knew of people like you. one reason people may be ignoring you may be because you may seem annoying (i don't mean to insult..i'm really trying to help) another reason may be you have nothing really interesting to talk about. people are bad listeners without even knowing it, and unless they hear something that concerns them, or sparks THEIR interest, they will not pay attention. you need to talk about maybe news you hear that they may not know, etc... instead of "hey, how's it going?" "what'd you do today?", if they don't really know you, they prolly won't go into much of a convo. So, in the end, if you think you're being interesting, and you think you are not pestering, then ask them up front. it's something that may be hard, but everyone needs to learn how to take critisism, whether it may be good or bad. i hope you are able to get some help from me or someone else. good luck! :-)
2006-10-08 22:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by K to the T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly look at yourself if your really a nice person then that's not the issue. If its not your personality then I would say stop talking to these people, they are not going to respect you any more by you constantly seeking their attention. It would be much more worth your time talking to people who care about you or share your interests, and some of those other people will come around when you start being yourself. Hope this helped.
2006-10-08 22:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Justin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truely feel you, my life is the same sortve, at least ur very honest with urself, if not now u will be a lot happier just keep feeling good about urself and others will follow, im sorry about these things, people suck but not all people, and find people that are sensitvive and fun, but try to avoid really "busy" people, remember quanity doesnt compare to quality of friends!
2006-10-08 22:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it.Just hang around people that appreciate you and that you feel comfortable with, and that share the same things in common. As for the rest of the other guys, you dont want 2 B around people that dont know you exist, you are worth more than that and deserve more respect.Take care!
2006-10-08 22:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it...most people only have a few really great friends and everyone else is just an acquaintance. Or find new friends.
2006-10-08 22:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by SailorMoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound so sweet...If it makes you feel better I have the same problem...maybe you are just trying too hard...for some reason people don't value the nice people they only like the assholes...don't get me wrong don't be an ***...just stop talking to them...before long they'll be saying what's up to you in the hall...
2006-10-08 22:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill talk to you.
when i am at school i am friendly to ppl but they realy dont talk to me, and its not like.... i hope i dont... scarre them away lol..
but ya, and last week on like wensday or something i was at school breakfast and i sat next to this guy i knew along time ago and said hey.
and hes like... hi =|
and i started eating and he quikly finished n walked away.. biatches...
maybe that was cauze hes just a stupid idiot..
but anyhow, i dont talk alot in school but when i do make an effort to talk to ppl they act like they dont like me or make me feel like an idiot.. either that or when i make a great friend i have to move schools. thats happened quite a few times. maybe thats why i dont even make an effort to talk to many ppl any more... sorry im blabbering on butyea, thats whats from me
2006-10-08 22:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by blahhblahhhblahahh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel I'm the same way. I'm friendly, outgoing, but its no use. I've given up a while back. I just don't care anymore. I have buddies here and there, but nothing serious
2006-10-08 22:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by gumby and pokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋